{"id":89614,"date":"2019-12-09T18:05:56","date_gmt":"2019-12-09T14:05:56","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=89614","title":{"rendered":"U\u015faqlar\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi inki\u015faf\u0131nda vacib amill\u0259r"},"content":{"rendered":"

Aydan M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mli: “U\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131zda m\u0259n\u0259vi keyifyy\u0259tl\u0259ri inki\u015faf etdir\u0259r\u0259k onlar\u0131 düzgün t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yiriks\u0259, ilk olaraq özümüzü t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259liyik”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dövl\u0259timizin müst\u0259qilliyinin qazan\u0131lmas\u0131nda v\u0259 möhk\u0259ml\u0259nm\u0259sind\u0259 Ulu Önd\u0259r Heyd\u0259r \u018fliyevin böyük xidm\u0259ti var. Ölk\u0259nin bütün sah\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 oldu\u011fu kimi, u\u015faq v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin fiziki v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131n t\u0259min edilm\u0259si sah\u0259sin\u0259d\u0259 Ulu Önd\u0259r daim diqq\u0259t göst\u0259rib. Ulu Önd\u0259r u\u015faqlara v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r\u0259 h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 böyük qay\u011f\u0131, sevgi il\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131rd\u0131. Çox yax\u015f\u0131 bilirdi ki, ölk\u0259mizin g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi onlar\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259 olacaq. U\u015faqlarda t\u0259lim- t\u0259rbiy\u0259nin bu c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259ri, onlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi formala\u015fmas\u0131na, dünya görü\u015fünün inki\u015faf\u0131na, sosial f\u0259all\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n yüks\u0259lm\u0259sin\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259sir edir. Respublikam\u0131zda u\u015faq v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin m\u0259n\u0259vi- \u0259xlaqi inki\u015faf\u0131n\u0131n, t\u0259rbiy\u0259sinin keyfiyy\u0259tini yax\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131rmaq m\u0259qs\u0259dil\u0259 müxt\u0259lif t\u0259dbirl\u0259rin müt\u0259madi olaraq h\u0259yata keçirilm\u0259si olduqca yax\u015f\u0131 \u0259n\u0259n\u0259y\u0259 çevrilib. Bu m\u0259suliyy\u0259tli i\u015fd\u0259 m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259t ocaqlar\u0131n\u0131n, teatrlar\u0131n\u0131 muzeyl\u0259rin, kitabxanalar\u0131n, radio v\u0259 televiziya kanallar\u0131n\u0131n, bütün kütl\u0259vi informasiya vasit\u0259l\u0259rinin imkanlar\u0131ndan kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r s\u0259m\u0259r\u0259li istifad\u0259 olunur. U\u015faqlar\u0131n hüquqlar\u0131n\u0131n qorunmas\u0131, onlar\u0131n layiqli v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f kimi formala\u015fmas\u0131 dövl\u0259timizin sosial m\u0259suliyy\u0259tini daha yax\u015f\u0131 d\u0259rk etm\u0259sinin t\u0259zahürü kimi mü\u015fahid\u0259 olunur. Ölk\u0259mizd\u0259 u\u015faq v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin qay\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259hat\u0259 olunmas\u0131 m\u0259n\u0259vi v\u0259 sosial mühitd\u0259 böyüm\u0259l\u0259ri üçün z\u0259ruri \u015f\u0259rait yarad\u0131b.<\/p>\n

Mövzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 “Üç nöqt\u0259”y\u0259 aç\u0131qlama ver\u0259n psixoloq Aydan M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mli bildirdi ki, “bu gün u\u015faqlara h\u0259r \u015fey haqq\u0131nda m\u0259lumat verilir, h\u0259r \u015fey öyr\u0259dilir. Çox t\u0259\u0259ssüfl\u0259r olsun ki, mü\u0259lliml\u0259r v\u0259 valideynl\u0259r u\u015faqlar aras\u0131nda r\u0259qab\u0259t hissi yaratmaq çal\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. U\u015faqlar\u0131 r\u0259qib kimi yar\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131rlar: “Onlar\u0131 müxt\u0259lif xidm\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 yazd\u0131r\u0131r, daha çox elmi nailiyy\u0259t \u0259ld\u0259 etsinl\u0259r dey\u0259 çal\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. U\u015faqlara erk\u0259n ya\u015flar\u0131ndan daha tez v\u0259 daha çox bilgil\u0259r öyr\u0259dilir. Amma bunlar\u0131 ed\u0259rk\u0259n h\u0259r zaman bir \u015feyi unudurlar… B\u0259s u\u015faqlar\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi inki\u015faf\u0131? U\u015faqlar\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi inki\u015faf\u0131 bu gün valideynl\u0259rin n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 ald\u0131qlar\u0131ndan, narahat olduqlar\u0131ndan v\u0259 \u0259n\u0259mli tutduqlar\u0131 m\u0259qamlardan qat-qat ir\u0259li v\u0259 ön\u0259mlidir. S\u0259b\u0259b budur ki, u\u015faqlar hans\u0131 pe\u015f\u0259 sahibi olur-olsunlar mütl\u0259q h\u0259min pe\u015f\u0259d\u0259 vicdanl\u0131, daha keyfiyy\u0259tli v\u0259 i\u015f \u0259xlaq\u0131 olan insanlara faydal\u0131 olan, m\u0259n\u0259vi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri z\u0259ngin olan insanlar olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq deyir ki, buna gör\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faqlara mütl\u0259q m\u0259n\u0259vi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259r a\u015f\u0131lanmal\u0131 v\u0259 onlara dostluq, bar\u0131\u015f, sevgi, s\u0259daq\u0259t, mehriban v\u0259 göz\u0259l v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f olmaq kimi duy\u011fular öyr\u0259dilm\u0259lidir: “H\u0259r bir u\u015faöa art\u0131q özünü d\u0259rk ed\u0259nd\u0259n, h\u0259tta iki-üç ya\u015f\u0131ndan etibar\u0259n bu \u015feyl\u0259r mütl\u0259q a\u015f\u0131lanml\u0131d\u0131r. Burda i\u015f\u0259 h\u0259m valideynl\u0259rin, h\u0259m d\u0259 mü\u0259lliml\u0259rin üz\u0259rin\u0259 böyük m\u0259suliyy\u0259t dü\u015für. Çünki m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 veril\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259 evd\u0259 davam etm\u0259liudir. Evd\u0259 veril\u0259n t\u0259rbiy\u0259 is\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 mü\u0259llim\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n davam etm\u0259lidir. U\u015faq h\u0259yat\u0131nda h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 – h\u0259m t\u0259hsil oca\u011f\u0131, h\u0259m d\u0259 evind\u0259 keyfiyy\u0259tli t\u0259lim-t\u0259rbiy\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259drisi t\u0259tbiq ed\u0259 bilsin. H\u0259m özün\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u0259trafdak\u0131lara qar\u015f\u0131\u015f…”.<\/p>\n

A.M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mlinin sözl\u0259rin\u0259 gör\u0259, u\u015faqlara m\u0259n\u0259vi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin \u0259n yax\u015f\u0131 a\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131n\u0131n yolu is\u0259 birba\u015fa onlara nümun\u0259 olmaqd\u0131r: “Çünki u\u015faqlar deyil\u0259nl\u0259rd\u0259n çox, gördükl\u0259rini daha tez öyr\u0259nirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 bir atalar sözümüz var, “yüz e\u015fitm\u0259kd\u0259ns\u0259, bir d\u0259f\u0259 görm\u0259k yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r”. Bu çox yerind\u0259 deyilmi\u015f bir misald\u0131r. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259 bütün valideynl\u0259r bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 diqq\u0259t yetirm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, valideyn evd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n yna\u0131nda yalan dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qdan sonra ona “yalan dan\u0131\u015fma” dey\u0259 bilm\u0259z. Sinifd\u0259 is\u0259 mü\u0259llim\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir yanl\u0131\u015f h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t edib, u\u015fa\u011fa onun \u0259ksini dey\u0259 bilm\u0259z. Ana öz övlad\u0131n\u0131 vurub, “s\u0259n ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131 vurma, bu çox pis bir i\u015fdir” – dey\u0259 bilm\u0259z. \u018fg\u0259r biz u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin yüks\u0259k olmas\u0131n\u0131, onla\u0131rn heç kiml\u0259 dala\u015fmamas\u0131n\u0131, vurmamas\u0131n\u0131, t\u0259mizkar olmas\u0131n\u0131, do\u011fru dan\u0131\u015fan biri olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yiriks\u0259, mütl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 özümüz d\u0259 el\u0259 davranmal\u0131y\u0131q. M\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 mü\u0259llim\u0259l\u0259r, evd\u0259 is\u0259 valideynl\u0259r, h\u0259tta c\u0259miyy\u0259t –ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 h\u0259r k\u0259s öz h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259ri il\u0259 u\u015faqlara nümun\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Çünki dediyim kimi, u\u015faqlar m\u0259n\u0259vi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri görüb götürürl\u0259r. N\u0259tic\u0259 etibaril\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131zda m\u0259n\u0259vi keyifyy\u0259tl\u0259ri inki\u015faf etdir\u0259r\u0259k onlar\u0131 düzgün t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259yiriks\u0259, ilk olaraq özümüzü t\u0259rbiy\u0259 etm\u0259liyik”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq deyir ki, u\u015fa\u011fa kiçik ya\u015flar\u0131ndan \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi yana\u015f\u0131lmal\u0131 v\u0259 hörm\u0259t qoyulmal\u0131d\u0131r: “V\u0259 kiçik ya\u015flar\u0131ndan etibar\u0259n ona nümun\u0259 olma\u011f\u0131 bacarmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r s\u0259n u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir ota\u011fa daxil olark\u0259n n\u0259zak\u0259t \u0259lam\u0259ti olaraq qap\u0131n\u0131 döym\u0259sini ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n gözü gör\u0259-gör\u0259 onun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 bu h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259ti s\u0259rgil\u0259m\u0259li v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa bunu göst\u0259rm\u0259lis\u0259n. V\u0259 ya u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n zibili h\u0259y\u0259t\u0259 yox, zibil qutusunun için\u0259 atmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yirs\u0259ns\u0259, övlad\u0131n\u0131n gözü qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda zibili yer\u0259 atmaq \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 zibil qutusu tapana q\u0259d\u0259r s\u0259br etm\u0259li v\u0259 ora atmal\u0131san. Y\u0259ni bizim üçün x\u0131rda görün\u0259n günd\u0259lik m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t i\u015fl\u0259ri ta ki böyük i\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r u\u015faqlara m\u0259n\u0259vi nümun\u0259dir. Onlar bu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 görm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. V\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 unutmayaq ki, valideynl\u0259r davaml\u0131 olaraq “m\u0259n” yox, “biz” anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 istifad\u0259 etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Y\u0259ni, u\u015faq bilm\u0259lidir ki,o bu dünyada t\u0259k deyil, t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na deyil… “Biz” olaraq insanlarla birlikd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r. U\u015faq ba\u015fqalar\u0131 il\u0259 ayaqla\u015fma\u011f\u0131 öyr\u0259nm\u0259lidir. U\u015faq bilm\u0259lidir ki, evini, h\u0259y\u0259t-bacas\u0131n\u0131, çirkl\u0259ndirm\u0259m\u0259lidir, çünki bütün bunlar ona m\u0259xsusdur. H\u0259mçinin u\u015faq \u015f\u0259h\u0259rin küç\u0259l\u0259rini d\u0259 t\u0259miz saxlama\u011fa çal\u0131\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r, çünki bu onun \u015f\u0259h\u0259ridir. V\u0259 \u0259n n\u0259hay\u0259tind\u0259 bu dünya bizimdir. U\u015fa\u011fa “biz” anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 a\u015f\u0131lay\u0131raq, bir-birin\u0259 hörm\u0259ti d\u0259 a\u015f\u0131lay\u0131rsan. Biz bir yerd\u0259 xo\u015fb\u0259xt olur, bir-birin\u0259 hörm\u0259t edir v\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r veririk”.<\/p>\n

Bu sah\u0259d\u0259 bir neç\u0259 effektiv yollar\u0131n oldu\u011funu vur\u011fulayan A.M\u0259h\u0259rr\u0259mli bildirir ki, bunlardan birincisi odur ki, analar v\u0259  atalar kiçik ya\u015flar\u0131ndan ba\u015flayaraq u\u015faqlara m\u0259n\u0259vi yönd\u0259 nümun\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r: “Daha sonra t\u0259hsil oca\u011f\u0131nda mü\u0259lliml\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131n r\u0259ftar\u0131na diqq\u0259t yetirm\u0259li v\u0259 onlara \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi hörm\u0259t qoymal\u0131d\u0131rlar. V\u0259 bütün r\u0259ftarlar\u0131 il\u0259 nec\u0259 ki evd\u0259 valideynl\u0259ri t\u0259rbiy\u0259 verirs\u0259, bu \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 davam etm\u0259lidir. T\u0259hsil oca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sad\u0259c\u0259 t\u0259hsil oca\u011f\u0131 kimi görm\u0259m\u0259lidir, ora h\u0259m d\u0259 t\u0259lim-t\u0259rbiy\u0259 oca\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259mçinin mü\u0259lliml\u0259r vaxta\u015f\u0131r\u0131 olaraq bu mövzularda u\u015faqlarla söhb\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Valideyn v\u0259 mü\u0259llim birg\u0259 \u0259m\u0259kda\u015fl\u0131q ed\u0259r\u0259k bir yerd\u0259 çal\u0131\u015fmal\u0131 v\u0259 u\u015faqlara birlikd\u0259 köm\u0259klik göst\u0259m\u0259lidirl\u0259r. V\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259rinin inki\u015faf\u0131 üçün \u0259n ön\u0259mli faktlardan biri d\u0259 u\u015faqlara televizor, plan\u015fet v\u0259 telefonda izl\u0259dikl\u0259ri h\u0259r\u015fey\u0259 v\u0259 oynad\u0131qlar\u0131 oyunlara bel\u0259 diqq\u0259t v\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t yetirm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Çünki b\u0259z\u0259n bizim görm\u0259diyimiz, gözümüzd\u0259n yay\u0131nan texnologiyadan u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131za el\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259rl\u0259r g\u0259lir ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131na, psxiologiyas\u0131na m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir edir. Sonradan bizim t\u0259\u0259ccübl\u0259nm\u0259yimiz\u0259 bel\u0259 g\u0259tirib ç\u0131xar\u0131r. Dü\u015fünürük ki, evd\u0259 d\u0259, m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 d\u0259 bu \u015fey yoxdursa, gör\u0259s\u0259n u\u015faq bunu hardan öyr\u0259nib? V\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 u\u015faqlara kitab sevgisi a\u015f\u0131lanmal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259n\u0259vi keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri z\u0259nginliyi, nitql\u0259rinin inki\u015faf\u0131, ruh z\u0259nginliyi v\u0259 sa\u011flaml\u0131qlar\u0131 üçün mütl\u0259q u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z kitabla dost olmal\u0131, daima müxt\u0259lif, biri-birind\u0259n maraql\u0131 kitablar oxumal\u0131d\u0131rlar. U\u015faqlar\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi inki\u015faf\u0131 üçün onlara kitabla dostluq v\u0259 sevgi öy\u0259rdilm\u0259lidir. Bel\u0259 olan halda u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z dü\u015fündüyümüzd\u0259n d\u0259 art\u0131q inki\u015faf ed\u0259r v\u0259 sa\u011flam böyüy\u0259r”.<\/p>\n

B\u0259li, ölk\u0259mizd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n m\u0259n\u0259vi t\u0259rbiy\u0259si vacib m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 oldu\u011funa gör\u0259, dövl\u0259timiz bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 g\u0259r\u0259k\u0259n bütün mühüm t\u0259dbirl\u0259ri görüb v\u0259 görm\u0259y\u0259 davam edir. Bu cür t\u0259dbirl\u0259rin vaxt\u0131nda görülm\u0259si t\u0259bii olaraq, u\u015faq v\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259rin v\u0259t\u0259np\u0259rv\u0259rlik \u015füurunun formala\u015fmas\u0131na, torpa\u011fa m\u0259h\u0259bb\u0259t v\u0259 s\u0259daq\u0259t hissinin oyanmas\u0131na, v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015fl\u0131q borcunun, v\u0259t\u0259nin maraqlar\u0131n\u0131n müdafi\u0259sin\u0259 aid Az\u0259rbaycan Konstitusiyas\u0131nda t\u0259sbit olunmu\u015f qanunlar\u0131 düzgün yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 çox yax\u015f\u0131 haz\u0131rl\u0131qd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

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