{"id":85130,"date":"2019-09-19T14:16:28","date_gmt":"2019-09-19T10:16:28","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=85130","title":{"rendered":"Fuad Q\u0259hr\u0259manl\u0131n\u0131n q\u0131z\u0131ndan atas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 – Sensasion b\u0259yanat<\/b><\/font>"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131 AXCP s\u0259dr müavini Fuad Q\u0259hr\u0259manl\u0131n\u0131n q\u0131z\u0131 kimi yox, bir insan kimi yaz\u0131ram. \u0130çind\u0259 böyüdüyüm qorxulu bir ail\u0259d\u0259 böyüm\u0259k, insan\u0131n için\u0259 tarif olunmaz duy\u011fular yükl\u0259yir. Bir d\u0259 onu bilir\u0259m ki, bu yaz\u0131ya gör\u0259 h\u0259tta proqressiv insanlar t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n d\u0259 q\u0131nanacam, "çünki o s\u0259nin atand\u0131r." Çünki atam olan adam\u0131, anam\u0131n barmaqlar\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 xatir\u0259l\u0259ri ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamal\u0131yam. Çünki o ev\u0259 çör\u0259k g\u0259tirib, m\u0259ni böyüdüb filan”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Bu sözl\u0259ri g\u0259nc aktivist Selcan Ya\u011fmur sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 yaz\u0131b. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259lmi\u015f t\u0259cavüz, q\u0131snama, zorak\u0131l\u0131q anlar\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259n d\u0259 (#MeToo) kampaniyas\u0131na qu\u015fulan Selcan yaz\u0131da atas\u0131n\u0131n onun v\u0259 anas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259tirdikl\u0259rini, siyasi lider v\u0259 aktivistl\u0259rin onlara d\u0259st\u0259k olmamas\u0131n\u0131 qeyd edib:<\/p>\n

“M\u0259nc\u0259, Az\u0259rbaycan siyas\u0259tind\u0259 yet\u0259rli bir yeri olan, ana müxalif\u0259t partiyas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0259dr müavini, tribunalarda insan haqqlar\u0131ndan dan\u0131\u015fan, h\u0259tta qad\u0131n haqlar\u0131 mövzusunda bel\u0259 aman verm\u0259y\u0259n Fuad Q\u0259hr\u0259manl\u0131n\u0131n da, evind\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n dizini, arvad\u0131n\u0131n barmaqlar\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131nd\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, \u015fidd\u0259tin d\u0259 xüsusi sadist növünü t\u0259tbiq ed\u0259n bir cani oldu\u011funu dem\u0259k, m\u0259n\u0259 el\u0259 g\u0259lir ki, sosial borcdur, m\u0259nim \u015f\u0259xsi ail\u0259vi problemim yox.<\/p>\n

Anam\u0131n bo\u015fanma çabalar\u0131n\u0131n (ki, bunun \u015fidd\u0259td\u0259n k\u0259nar ayr\u0131ca iyr\u0259nc s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var, sad\u0259c\u0259 bu s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r insan\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsi m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sidir, m\u0259nim mövzuma heç bir d\u0259xli yoxdur) qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 mü\u0259yy\u0259n \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ri say\u0259sind\u0259, yüz cür t\u0259hdidl\u0259, \u015fantajla almas\u0131; azadl\u0131qdan dan\u0131\u015fan adam\u0131n evind\u0259, q\u0259rib\u0259 bir \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259svir etm\u0259y\u0259 gücem yetm\u0259y\u0259n bir c\u0259h\u0259nn\u0259m mühiti olmas\u0131; \u015fidd\u0259tin a\u011f\u0131l almaz v\u0259 kreativ dozu;anam\u0131n v\u0259 bac\u0131m\u0131n b\u0259d\u0259nind\u0259n zamanla silinmi\u015f izl\u0259r v\u0259 bütün bunlar\u0131n üz\u0259rin\u0259, "m\u0259niml\u0259 \u015f\u0259kil yay\u0131n Facebook'da" dey\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259n tamam ayr\u0131 kateqoriyadaki zorak\u0131l\u0131q dal\u011fas\u0131… – bunlar bir siyas\u0259tçinin ail\u0259si bar\u0259d\u0259 bilinm\u0259li olan \u015feyl\u0259rdir.<\/p>\n

Bütün bunlar sirr deyil \u0259slind\u0259, qulaqdan dolma n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r adam bilir "ail\u0259mizd\u0259" olanlar\u0131. Anama q\u0131rx d\u0259f\u0259 qolundaki, üzünd\u0259ki izl\u0259rin n\u0259 oldu\u011funu soru\u015fan adamlar da, tipik "qap\u0131ya d\u0259ymi\u015f\u0259m" cavab\u0131n\u0131 3-cü d\u0259f\u0259d\u0259n art\u0131q e\u015fid\u0259nd\u0259, mövzunun n\u0259 oldu\u011funu anlay\u0131blar. H\u0259tta b\u0259zil\u0259ri direkt mövzunun içind\u0259 olub, S\u0259ad\u0259t Cahangir kimil\u0259ri v\u0259 onlar da anama a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 qad\u0131n olmaqla, susub siyasi prosesi dü\u015fünüb, bo\u015fanaraq Q\u0259hr\u0259manl\u0131n\u0131n reputasiyas\u0131n\u0131 korlamamaqla ba\u011fl\u0131 göz\u0259l m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259r veribl\u0259r, anam\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 psixolojik x\u0259st\u0259y\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r ç\u0131xar\u0131blar.<\/p>\n

Onun qolunda h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 izi qalan, yen\u0259 nec\u0259 yarand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fa salma\u011fa psixolojik gücümün yetm\u0259diyi o yaran\u0131 gör\u0259nd\u0259 "s\u0259n d\u0259 az deyils\u0259n d\u0259 Zümrüd, dilin\u0259 yiy\u0259 dur" kimi bir \u015fey dediyini özü d\u0259 danmaz.
\nH\u0259tta Ali Karimli (\u018fli K\u0259rimli) ail\u0259 psixoloqlu\u011funa soyunub bu mövzuda! Anama ba\u015fa sal\u0131b ki, ki\u015fil\u0259r bel\u0259 olur, dözm\u0259k, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi dü\u015fünm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r, u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131z var, "onsuz da 40 ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra bo\u015fan\u0131b n\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259ksiniz ki?". B\u0259s siz \u018fli K\u0259rimlinin "qon\u015fu arvad" rolunda bu q\u0259d\u0259r bacar\u0131ql\u0131 oldu\u011funu bilirdiniz? Adam az qal\u0131rd\u0131 desin ki, "az çör\u0259yivi verir? Sus otur da.".<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259 gördüm ki, bu c\u0259bh\u0259 bütünü il\u0259 ikiüzlü, iyr\u0259nc bir yerdir. \u018fli K\u0259rimli evd\u0259 nec\u0259 bir v\u0259h\u015filik etdiyini h\u0259rfi h\u0259rfin\u0259 bildiyi adam\u0131, sa\u011f yan\u0131nda saxlay\u0131r, -bunu ba\u015fa dü\u015fdüm, kadr yoxdur- amma adam canini yox, qurban\u0131 q\u0131nay\u0131r ki, "siz düz etmirsiniz". Qalanlar üzvl\u0259r d\u0259, anama nec\u0259 "yax\u015f\u0131 at özün\u0131 qamç\u0131 vurdurmaz", onu öyr\u0259dir, sonra da y\u0131\u011f\u0131\u015f\u0131b hakimiyy\u0259tin insanlar\u0131 \u0259zm\u0259yind\u0259n, \u0259dal\u0259td\u0259n dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar; h\u0259l\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 bütün bunlar\u0131 bil\u0259n adamlar niy\u0259 u\u015faqlar "Ya\u011fmur" soyad\u0131n\u0131 istifad\u0259 edir dey\u0259 gileyl\u0259nir, müavinl\u0259rinin q\u0259z\u0259bini itil\u0259yib, "ham\u0131 deyir ki, o evd\u0259 Fuad\u0131 saym\u0131rlar" ba\u015fl\u0131ql\u0131 motivasiya ç\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131 ed\u0259r\u0259k, növb\u0259ti zorak\u0131l\u0131q dal\u011fas\u0131 üçün Q\u0259hr\u0259manl\u0131n\u0131 evimiz\u0259 gönd\u0259rir, h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bir gün daha qorxu filmin\u0259 çevirirl\u0259r. Impressive. Adam bu q\u0259d\u0259r nec\u0259 iyr\u0259nc olar ax\u0131? Siz bir partiyada nec\u0259 bir araya g\u0259libsiniz? Ortadaki bu \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131q potensial\u0131 gözümü ya\u015fard\u0131r valla.<\/p>\n

Uzun sözün q\u0131sas\u0131, 2009-dan b\u0259ri bu cür tük ürp\u0259rd\u0259n bir durumun içind\u0259yik. H\u0259r gün h\u0259r gün \u015fidd\u0259t, qan, t\u0259hdidl\u0259r, s\u0131nan sümükl\u0259r… Bütün bunlar ona gör\u0259 idi ki, anam bu adam\u0131n iki kateqoriyadaki iyr\u0259nc \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259rin\u0259 göz yumsun v\u0259 bo\u015fanmas\u0131n. Amma indi durum d\u0259yi\u015fib, ikimiz d\u0259 el\u0259 ya\u015fday\u0131q ki, "u\u015faqlar\u0131 s\u0259nd\u0259n alacam" mövzusu i\u015fl\u0259mir, adam d\u0259 el\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259dir ki, unikal t\u0259hdidl\u0259ri bu d\u0259qiq\u0259 i\u015f\u0259 yaram\u0131r. Bo\u015fanma \u0259riz\u0259si d\u0259 verilib, bir neç\u0259 aya bo\u015fanma ba\u015f tutacaq.<\/p>\n

Amma bütün bunlardan \u0259vv\u0259l, aç\u0131qlamaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, m\u0259n atamdan imtina edir\u0259m.
\nQan ba\u011flar\u0131 primal, heyvani \u015feyl\u0259rdir. Ba\u015fqas\u0131nda ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamayaca\u011f\u0131m \u015feyi, s\u0131rf eyni müq\u0259dd\u0259s qana filan sahibik dey\u0259, öz atamda ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayacaq deyil\u0259m. B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 "tipik \u015f\u0259rq ail\u0259si" dozundaki zorak\u0131l\u0131q, \u015f\u0259xsi travmam olaraq qalard\u0131. Amma bu f\u0259rqlidir. H\u0259r \u015fey ola bil\u0259r, amma ail\u0259sin\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t t\u0259tbiq ed\u0259n, q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 dizini s\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131b sonra "anan dan\u0131\u015fmasayd\u0131, m\u0259n bel\u0259 \u0259s\u0259bi olmazd\u0131m" dey\u0259 heç bir \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 pe\u015fmanç\u0131l\u0131q ya\u015famayan, h\u0259l\u0259 ail\u0259sind\u0259n k\u0259narda nec\u0259 iyr\u0259nc \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259r\u0259 imza atm\u0131\u015f bir adam\u0131n ad\u0131, m\u0259nim ad\u0131m\u0131n üz\u0259rin\u0259 ola bilm\u0259z. "Fuad Q\u0259hr\u0259manl\u0131n\u0131n q\u0131z\u0131" kimi an\u0131lmaq ist\u0259mir\u0259m, dir\u0259\u015fib m\u0259ni "Q\u0259hr\u0259manl\u0131" ça\u011f\u0131rmalar\u0131n\u0131 da ist\u0259mir\u0259m.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259… Bir tekst ilk d\u0259f\u0259 m\u0259ni bu q\u0259d\u0259r yordu.
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“Bu yaz\u0131n\u0131 AXCP s\u0259dr müavini Fuad Q\u0259hr\u0259manl\u0131n\u0131n q\u0131z\u0131 kimi yox, bir insan kimi yaz\u0131ram. \u0130çind\u0259 böyüdüyüm qorxulu bir ail\u0259d\u0259 böyüm\u0259k, insan\u0131n için\u0259 tarif olunmaz duy\u011fular yükl\u0259yir. Bir d\u0259 onu bilir\u0259m…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-85130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85130","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=85130"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/85130\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=85130"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=85130"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=85130"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}