{"id":75581,"date":"2019-02-22T18:32:21","date_gmt":"2019-02-22T14:32:21","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=75581","title":{"rendered":"<font color=red><b>\u201cDiplomla psixoloq olmur, bu insan\u0131n ruhunda olmal\u0131d\u0131r\u201d<\/b><\/font>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131: &ldquo;U\u015faqlardan &ccedil;ox, onlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri il\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k &ccedil;\u0259tindir&rdquo;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;U\u015faql\u0131qdan h\u0259kim olmaq ist\u0259yirdim, lakin atam icaz\u0259 verm\u0259di. \u018fslind\u0259 psixologiya da h\u0259kimliy\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir, insanlar\u0131n ruhunu m&uuml;alic\u0259 edir. Ona g&ouml;r\u0259 d\u0259 psixoloq olmaq q\u0259rar\u0131na g\u0259ldim. Amma bu q\u0259rar\u0131 ver\u0259rk\u0259n naraz\u0131 qalanlar oldu, &ldquo;d\u0259li h\u0259kimi&rdquo;, &ldquo;ac\u0131ndan &ouml;l\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n, he&ccedil; bir i\u015fi bacarmayacaqsan&rdquo; &#8211; kimi fikirl\u0259r s\u0259sl\u0259ndirildi. Nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, g&ouml;z&uuml;m d&ouml;nm&uuml;\u015fd&uuml;, ancaq insanlar\u0131 m&uuml;alic\u0259 edib sa\u011faltmaq d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;nc\u0259sind\u0259 idim, sanki bel\u0259 bir &ouml;hd\u0259liyim var idi&rdquo;. H\u0259ms&ouml;hb\u0259tim deyir ki, b&uuml;t&uuml;n naraz\u0131l\u0131qlara baxmayaraq &ouml;z ist\u0259yini h\u0259yata ke&ccedil;irib v\u0259 bu g&uuml;n art\u0131q say\u0131l\u0131b-se&ccedil;il\u0259n psixoloqlardan biridir. &ldquo;&Uuml;&ccedil; n&ouml;qt\u0259&rdquo; q\u0259zetinin qona\u011f\u0131 psixoloq F\u0259rqan\u0259 Memanq\u0131z\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r psixoloq yan\u0131na ged\u0259n\u0259 &ldquo;d\u0259li&rdquo; deyirdil\u0259r. Art\u0131q bu yana\u015fma aradan g&ouml;t&uuml;r&uuml;l&uuml;b.<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; B\u0259li, \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r bu sah\u0259d\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t &uuml;r\u0259ka&ccedil;an deyildi. Bizim t\u0259hsil ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z d&ouml;vr, ke&ccedil;id d&ouml;vr&uuml; idi. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki psixologiya elmi daha geni\u015f m\u0259nada Az\u0259rbaycana yenic\u0259 ayaq a&ccedil;\u0131rd\u0131. Az da olsa bu g&uuml;n psixoloq yan\u0131na ged\u0259n\u0259 &ldquo;d\u0259li&rdquo; kimi baxanlar var. Qad\u0131n u\u015faqlar\u0131 il\u0259 bizim yan\u0131m\u0131za g\u0259lir, amma onun h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;n&uuml;r ki, psixoloqa ged\u0259nl\u0259r d\u0259lidir v\u0259 \u0259r &ouml;z&uuml; ail\u0259 terapiyas\u0131na g\u0259lmir. \u018fvv\u0259lkin\u0259 baxanda az olsa da, bu c&uuml;r d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;n\u0259nl\u0259r h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 var.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Psixologiya ixtisas\u0131n\u0131 se&ccedil;m\u0259yiniz n\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 idi?<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; U\u015faql\u0131qdan h\u0259kim olmaq ist\u0259yirdim, lakin atam icaz\u0259 verm\u0259di. \u018fslind\u0259 psixoloq da h\u0259kim kimi insanlar\u0131n sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131na &ouml;z t&ouml;hv\u0259sini verir, onlar\u0131n ruhunu m&uuml;alic\u0259 edir. Ona g&ouml;r\u0259 d\u0259 psixoloq olmaq q\u0259rar\u0131na g\u0259ldim. Amma bu q\u0259rar\u0131 ver\u0259rk\u0259n naraz\u0131 qalanlar oldu. &ldquo;D\u0259li h\u0259kimi&rdquo;, &ldquo;ac\u0131ndan &ouml;l\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n, he&ccedil; bir i\u015fi bacarmayacaqsan&rdquo; &#8211; kimi fikirl\u0259r s\u0259sl\u0259ndirildi. O anda valideynl\u0259rimin v\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131mdak\u0131 yax\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131n m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 hans\u0131 prizmadan baxd\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 bu g&uuml;n &ccedil;ox yax\u015f\u0131 anlay\u0131ram. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki o d&ouml;vrd\u0259 insanlar\u0131b bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131, d&uuml;nyag&ouml;r&uuml;\u015f&uuml; f\u0259rqli idi. Amma he&ccedil; kimi dinl\u0259m\u0259dim, insanlar\u0131 m&uuml;alic\u0259 edib sa\u011faltmaq d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;nc\u0259sind\u0259 idim, sanki bel\u0259 bir &ouml;hd\u0259liyim vard\u0131. Valideynl\u0259rim q\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131n m&uuml;\u0259llim\u0259 olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yirdil\u0259r. Bu pe\u015f\u0259nin daha yax\u015f\u0131 v\u0259 q\u0131za yara\u015fan oldu\u011funu d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;n&uuml;rd&uuml;l\u0259r. Amma m\u0259n q\u0259ti \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 m&uuml;\u0259llim olmaq ist\u0259mirdim, &ccedil;&uuml;nki art\u0131q &ouml;z yolumu se&ccedil;mi\u015fdim.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; &nbsp;Bu g&uuml;n psixoloqlara m&uuml;raci\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259rin say\u0131 &ccedil;oxal\u0131b. Sizc\u0259 bu art\u0131m\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi n\u0259dir?<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; &Uuml;mumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, bu g&uuml;n ist\u0259r u\u015faq, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 b&ouml;y&uuml;k psixoloquna g&uuml;v\u0259n art\u0131b. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki insanlar\u0131n do\u011frudan da d\u0259yi\u015film\u0259y\u0259, &ouml;z &uuml;z\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 var. Kor-koran\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011f\u0131n g\u0259rginliyini hiss edirl\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r u\u015faqda problem varsa, bu o dem\u0259kdir ki, b&ouml;y&uuml;kd\u0259 d\u0259 var. Bu, faktd\u0131r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 psixoloqa aparan valideynl\u0259r bunu inkar ets\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259, m&uuml;tl\u0259q psixoloqa m&uuml;raci\u0259t etm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki &ouml;zl\u0259ri psixoloqa getm\u0259s\u0259l\u0259r, &ouml;vladlar\u0131na olan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259yata bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. H\u0259yat duru\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fs\u0259l\u0259r \u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131lar da ona qar\u015f\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Psixoloqlar\u0131n da say\u0131nda art\u0131m var. Bu ixtisas &uuml;zr\u0259 t\u0259hsil a\u0131an h\u0259r k\u0259s &ouml;z&uuml;n\u0259 &ldquo;psixoloq&rdquo; deyir. B\u0259s \u0259sl psixoloq nec\u0259 olmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; Ne&ccedil;\u0259 ill\u0259rdir, bu pe\u015f\u0259 &uuml;zr\u0259 ixtisasla\u015fm\u0131\u015fam. D&uuml;\u015f&uuml;n&uuml;r\u0259m ki, t\u0259cr&uuml;b\u0259m bu bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa imkan verir. Diplomla psixoloq olmur, psixoloq do\u011fulmal\u0131san. Diplomun vacibliyi var. Bu, bir &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;kd&uuml;r v\u0259 terapiyalarda k&ouml;m\u0259k edir. &Uuml;mumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, bu g&uuml;n kimi dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131rsan &ouml;z&uuml;n\u0259 psixoloq deyir. Psixoloq insan tan\u0131maqla bitmir. Oturub s&ouml;hb\u0259tl\u0259 adam sakitl\u0259\u015fdirmirik. Bu g&uuml;z\u0259ran psixologiyas\u0131d\u0131r. Bunu &ccedil;&ouml;ld\u0259 adi skamyada oturan qad\u0131nlar da bacar\u0131r. \u018fsas olan insan\u0131n xarakterinin, h\u0259yata bax\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n &uuml;z\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259kdir. Bu g&uuml;n \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015fdi, g\u0259lib s&ouml;hb\u0259t edib getdi- bel\u0259 olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130\u015fimiz g&ouml;r&uuml;nd&uuml;y&uuml;nd\u0259n d\u0259 &ccedil;ox &ccedil;\u0259tindir. S&ouml;hb\u0259ti el\u0259-bel\u0259 etmirik. Protokol \u0259sas\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q, h\u0259r sual\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, h\u0259r k\u0259lim\u0259mizin &ouml;z &nbsp;m\u0259nas\u0131, s\u0259b\u0259bi var. Amma qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f bunu bilmir. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131 m&uuml;xt\u0259lif oldu\u011fu &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n psixoloq o q\u0259d\u0259r haz\u0131rcavab v\u0259 h\u0259r an i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n saat kimi olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Pasiyentinin h\u0259r an n\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259yini bilm\u0259lidir. Pasiyent h\u0259r n\u0259 des\u0259 d\u0259, psixoloq el\u0259 reaksiya verm\u0259lidir ki, o, &ldquo;M\u0259nim n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r problemim var, n\u0259 g&uuml;nd\u0259y\u0259m&rdquo; kimi fikirl\u0259\u015fm\u0259sin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; T\u0259\u0259ss&uuml;f ki, bir ne&ccedil;\u0259 ay kursa, seminara qat\u0131laraq sertifikat al\u0131b f\u0259aliyy\u0259t g&ouml;st\u0259r\u0259nl\u0259r d\u0259 var.<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; Psixoloqda psixoloq ruhu olmal\u0131d\u0131r, elm m&uuml;tl\u0259q laz\u0131md\u0131r. Amma &uuml;&ccedil; ayl\u0131q sertifikat almaqla bu i\u015fin d\u0259rinlikl\u0259rin\u0259 varmaq m&uuml;mk&uuml;n deyil. Psixoloqluq kitablar\u0131 oxuduqca, ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar apard\u0131qca, onun &ouml;z xasiyy\u0259tind\u0259 d\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fiklik ba\u015f verir. V\u0259 art\u0131q hadis\u0259l\u0259r s\u0259ni d\u0259h\u015f\u0259t\u0259 salm\u0131r, he&ccedil; n\u0259 s\u0259ni t\u0259\u0259cc&uuml;bl\u0259ndirmir. \u0130lk vaxtlar b\u0259zi inciklikl\u0259r olur, q\u0259lbin q\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, reall\u0131q sanki s\u0259ni h\u0259yatdan soyudur. B\u0259zi insanlar\u0131n ciddi probleml\u0259rinin olmas\u0131 psixoloqa pis t\u0259sir edir. D\u0259nizin d\u0259rinlikl\u0259rin\u0259 girdikc\u0259 soyuq qaranl\u0131q do\u011frudan da insan\u0131 &uuml;\u015f&uuml;d&uuml;r. Sonradan anlay\u0131rsan ki, h\u0259yat v\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t budur, h\u0259r \u015fey g&ouml;r&uuml;nd&uuml;y&uuml; kimi deyil. Bunu anlayana q\u0259d\u0259r psixoloq &ccedil;ox b&ouml;y&uuml;k sars\u0131nt\u0131lardan ke&ccedil;ir.<\/p>\n<p>Normalda insanlar g&uuml;n \u0259rzind\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 &ccedil;oxsayda xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259rl\u0259 rastla\u015f\u0131rlar v\u0259 bu onlara t\u0259sir edir. B\u0259li, biz bu hadis\u0259l\u0259ri canl\u0131 insanlar\u0131n &ouml;zl\u0259ri il\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r\u0131q &#8211; haql\u0131 v\u0259 nahaq. B\u0259z\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fan pasiyent haqs\u0131z olur, amma bunu ona birba\u015fa dem\u0259k olmaz. Psixoloq s&ouml;hb\u0259ti el\u0259 bir duruma g\u0259tirm\u0259lidir ki, pasiyent \u0259dal\u0259tsizliyini &ouml;z&uuml; g&ouml;rm\u0259li v\u0259 d\u0259rk etm\u0259lidir. Psixoloq pasiyentin bax\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 el\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259li, &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;nc&uuml; p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259ni onun &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n el\u0259 a&ccedil;mal\u0131d\u0131r ki, o p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259ni &ouml;z&uuml; taps\u0131n. H\u0259r zaman deyir\u0259m ki, psixoloqun m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t verm\u0259y\u0259 ixtiyar\u0131 yoxdur. Bunu &ccedil;ox adam ba\u015fa d&uuml;\u015fm&uuml;r. Psixoloq hadis\u0259y\u0259, insan\u0131n &ouml;z&uuml;n\u0259 olan bax\u0131\u015f\u0131na yeni p\u0259nc\u0259r\u0259 a&ccedil;\u0131r. \u018fg\u0259r insan\u0131n d&uuml;n\u0259n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r iki variant\u0131 vard\u0131sa, psixoloqdan sonra d&ouml;rd variant\u0131 olur. Daha a\u011fl\u0131 sakit, bax\u0131\u015f\u0131 m&uuml;xt\u0259lif \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 o variantlardan daha d&uuml;zg&uuml;n olan\u0131na &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;k verir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Ail\u0259niz i\u015finizl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 siz\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k g&ouml;st\u0259rirmi?<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; Bu ixtisas\u0131 se&ccedil;\u0259nd\u0259 he&ccedil; bir d\u0259st\u0259k g&ouml;rm\u0259dim, m\u0259ni psixoloji c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n geri sal\u0131rd\u0131lar. Bu g&uuml;n m\u0259niml\u0259 nec\u0259 q&uuml;rur duyduqlar\u0131n\u0131 g&ouml;r\u0259nd\u0259 daha g&uuml;cl&uuml; oluram v\u0259 haql\u0131 oldu\u011fuma \u0259min oluram. V\u0259 bu pe\u015f\u0259ni se&ccedil;m\u0259kl\u0259 d&uuml;zg&uuml;n q\u0259rar verdiyimi anlay\u0131ram. \u0130\u015fimi h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n &ccedil;ox sevir\u0259m. \u0130nsanlarla i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k m\u0259n\u0259 xo\u015fdur. Q\u0259buluma g\u0259l\u0259n pasiyentin psixoloji durumu il\u0259, yard\u0131m ald\u0131qdan sonrak\u0131 psixoloji durumunu m&uuml;qayis\u0259&nbsp; etdikd\u0259&nbsp; rahatl\u0131q tap\u0131ram. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki&nbsp; m&uuml;sb\u0259t\u0259 do\u011fru d\u0259yi\u015fikliyi g&ouml;rm\u0259k i\u015fim\u0259 olan sevgimi v\u0259 mara\u011f\u0131m\u0131 daha da art\u0131r\u0131r. Daha da \u0259min oluram ki, insan &ouml;z&uuml; d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 \u0259traf da ona qar\u015f\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Bu g&uuml;n \u0259n &ccedil;ox hans\u0131 probleml\u0259rl\u0259 siz\u0259 m&uuml;raci\u0259t edirl\u0259r?<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; \u015e\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin &ouml;z&uuml;nd\u0259 probleml\u0259r, &ouml;zg&uuml;v\u0259nsizlik, &ccedil;at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131q, \u0259trafa qar\u015f\u0131 aqressiya var. Bu g&uuml;n insanlar ail\u0259d\u0259 v\u0259 i\u015fd\u0259 olan probleml\u0259rl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 biz\u0259 m&uuml;raci\u0259t ed\u0259nd\u0259, ilk &ouml;nc\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin &uuml;z\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259yirik. \u015e\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin daxilind\u0259 olan probleml\u0259ri h\u0259ll etm\u0259d\u0259n pasiyenti c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 ata bilm\u0259rik. T\u0259s\u0259vv&uuml;r edin, soyuducudan pis qoxu g\u0259lir. Bunu t\u0259mizl\u0259m\u0259k &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n t\u0259bii ki b&uuml;t&uuml;n \u0259rzaqlar\u0131 &ccedil;\u0131xar\u0131r\u0131q, ham\u0131s\u0131na bir-bir bax\u0131r\u0131q, t\u0259mizl\u0259yib yerin\u0259 qoyuruq. Pis qoxu ver\u0259n xarab \u0259rzaqlar\u0131 is\u0259 &ccedil;&ouml;l\u0259 at\u0131r\u0131q. Biz d\u0259 beyinl\u0259 bunu edirik. \u0130nsan\u0131n psixikas\u0131, ruhu il\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k do\u011frudan da &ccedil;ox &ccedil;\u0259tindir. Psixoloq ona g&ouml;r\u0259 vicdanl\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. B\u0259zi psixoloqlar maddiyyata g&ouml;r\u0259, pasiyenti &ouml;z&uuml;nd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 hala sal\u0131r v\u0259 h\u0259min pasiyent ill\u0259rl\u0259 onun yan\u0131na g\u0259lib-gedir, h\u0259tta s\u0259yah\u0259t\u0259 ged\u0259c\u0259yi yeri bel\u0259 psixoloqla m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t edir. Bu as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaratmaq \u0259dal\u0259tsizlikdir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Bu g&uuml;n psixologiya elmi inki\u015faf edir. Bu sah\u0259d\u0259 hans\u0131 &ccedil;at\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131q var?<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; &Ouml;z&uuml;n\u0259 pe\u015f\u0259kar psixoloq dey\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs kitab oxumal\u0131d\u0131r. B\u0259zi \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259r elm\u0259 s\u0259thi yana\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu g&uuml;n psixoloqlar\u0131n &ccedil;at\u0131\u015fmayan c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259n biri &ldquo;M\u0259n psixoloqam, h\u0259r n\u0259 ist\u0259yir\u0259m dey\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m&rdquo; &#8211; kimi fikirl\u0259r s\u0259sl\u0259ndirm\u0259l\u0259ridir. Psixoloqun qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 aqressiyas\u0131 olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu g&uuml;n efirl\u0259r\u0259 bax\u0131ram, b\u0259zi psixoloqlar\u0131 verili\u015f\u0259 d\u0259v\u0259t edib, fikirl\u0259rini &ouml;yr\u0259nm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r, amma psixoloq m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi m&uuml;nasib\u0259t bildirir. Psixoloq \u0259zil\u0259n t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 aqressiyas\u0131n\u0131 g&ouml;st\u0259rm\u0259m\u0259li, obyektiv olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Psixoloqun ittiham etm\u0259y\u0259 ixtiyar\u0131 yoxdur. H\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259fin psixoloji durumunu dan\u0131\u015fmal\u0131, hadis\u0259nin m\u0259nfi v\u0259 m&uuml;sb\u0259t t\u0259r\u0259fini a&ccedil;mal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu sah\u0259d\u0259 &ccedil;at\u0131\u015fmayan c\u0259h\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259, insanlar\u0131n m\u0259lumats\u0131z oldu\u011fu psixoloq haqq\u0131nda &ldquo;Bu, pis psixoloqdur&rdquo; &ndash; ifad\u0259sini i\u015fl\u0259tm\u0259l\u0259ridir. Hans\u0131sa psixoloqun pis, yaxud yax\u015f\u0131 oldu\u011funu bilm\u0259k &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n onun yan\u0131na getm\u0259li v\u0259 saytlarda olan fikirl\u0259rini oxuduqdan sonra q\u0259rar verm\u0259lidir. Psixoloqun standart fikri olmamal\u0131d\u0131r, istedad\u0131ndan dolay\u0131 &ouml;z&uuml;n\u0259m\u0259xsus bax\u0131\u015f buca\u011f\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; U\u015faqlarla i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259yin &ccedil;\u0259tinlikl\u0259ri n\u0259l\u0259rdir?<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8211; Fikrimc\u0259, u\u015faqlardan &ccedil;ox, onlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri il\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k &ccedil;\u0259tindir. U\u015faqlardan ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z m&uuml;sb\u0259t enerji &ccedil;ox g&ouml;z\u0259ldir. Valideynl\u0259rin b\u0259zil\u0259ri psixoloqu ba\u015fa d&uuml;\u015fm&uuml;r, ona &ouml;vlad\u0131 haqq\u0131nda deyil\u0259n n&ouml;qsanlar\u0131 q\u0259bul etmir. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki &ouml;z&uuml;n&uuml;n g&uuml;nahkar oldu\u011funu bilir. D\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 rastla\u015fm\u0131\u015fam ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n durumunu valideyn\u0259 deyirs\u0259n, ev\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d&ouml;y&uuml;r ki, s\u0259n niy\u0259 bel\u0259 edirs\u0259n ki, psixoloq m\u0259n\u0259 bu s&ouml;z&uuml; deyir. Bu valideyn &ouml;z&uuml; psixoloqa&nbsp; getm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K&ouml;n&uuml;l Oruc<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131: &ldquo;U\u015faqlardan &ccedil;ox, onlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri il\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k &ccedil;\u0259tindir&rdquo; &ldquo;U\u015faql\u0131qdan h\u0259kim olmaq ist\u0259yirdim, lakin atam icaz\u0259 verm\u0259di. \u018fslind\u0259 psixologiya da h\u0259kimliy\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259yir, insanlar\u0131n ruhunu m&uuml;alic\u0259 edir. 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