{"id":75287,"date":"2019-02-18T19:35:37","date_gmt":"2019-02-18T15:35:37","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=75287","title":{"rendered":"<font color=red><b>\u201cO\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131na q\u0259dim zamanlardan \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verilib\u201d<\/b><\/font>"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu: &ldquo;\u0130ndi ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 azald\u0131\u011f\u0131na g&ouml;r\u0259, o\u011flana &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;k verirl\u0259r&rdquo;<br \/>\nAydan N\u0259z\u0259rova: &ldquo;Xeyirsiz o\u011flan &ouml;vlad\u0131ndansa, xeyirli q\u0131z &ouml;vlad\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tdir&rdquo;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&Ouml;t\u0259n ilin yanvar-noyabr aylar\u0131nda Az\u0259rbaycanda 127 681 do\u011fulan k&ouml;rp\u0259 qeyd\u0259 al\u0131n\u0131b v\u0259 bu g&ouml;st\u0259rici \u0259halinin h\u0259r 1000 n\u0259f\u0259rin\u0259 14,2 t\u0259\u015fkil edib. M\u0259lumata g&ouml;r\u0259, yeni do\u011fulan k&ouml;rp\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n faiz nisb\u0259ti &ccedil;oxluq t\u0259\u015fkil edir. Bel\u0259 ki, k&ouml;rp\u0259l\u0259rin 53,4 faizi o\u011flan, 46,6 faizi is\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131d\u0131r. Art\u0131q bir ne&ccedil;\u0259 ildir ki, yeni do\u011fulan k&ouml;rp\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131 &ccedil;oxluq t\u0259\u015fkil edir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 m&uuml;nasib\u0259t bildir\u0259n Milli M\u0259clisin S\u0259hiyy\u0259 komit\u0259sinin s\u0259dri Musa Quliyev deyib ki, d&uuml;nya t\u0259cr&uuml;b\u0259sind\u0259 o\u011flan v\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda faiz nisb\u0259ti 49-51 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Deputat qeyd edib ki, Az\u0259rbaycanda faiz nisb\u0259tind\u0259 bel\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259nm\u0259 subyektiv amill\u0259rin, y\u0259ni konkret insan m&uuml;daxil\u0259sinin g&ouml;st\u0259ricisidir.<br \/>\nM.Quliyev bildirib ki, d&uuml;nyan\u0131n bir &ccedil;ox &ouml;lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259, x&uuml;sus\u0259n d\u0259 \u015e\u0259rq &ouml;lk\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259 bu problem m&ouml;vcuddur: &ldquo;Bu &ouml;lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131z v\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n faiz nisb\u0259tind\u0259 problemi aradan qald\u0131rmaq &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n m&uuml;bariz\u0259 apar\u0131l\u0131r. T\u0259cr&uuml;b\u0259 g&ouml;st\u0259rir ki, m&uuml;bariz\u0259nin \u0259n u\u011furlu yolu v\u0259 formas\u0131 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259dir. \u0130nzibati qaydada \u015f&uuml;bh\u0259siz ki, t\u0259dbirl\u0259r g&ouml;r&uuml;lm\u0259lidir, amma burada insanlar\u0131n tibbi v\u0259 dini bax\u0131mdan maarifl\u0259nm\u0259sinin b&ouml;y&uuml;k \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259ti var&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>Mill\u0259t v\u0259kili \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, abortlarla m&uuml;bariz\u0259 aparmaq &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n qanun layih\u0259si d\u0259 haz\u0131rlan\u0131b v\u0259 yaz sessiyas\u0131n\u0131n i\u015f plan\u0131na t&ouml;vsiy\u0259 olunub: &ldquo;Reproduktiv sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n qorunmas\u0131 haqq\u0131nda&quot; qanun layih\u0259sind\u0259 x&uuml;susi m&uuml;dd\u0259alar var. Ultras\u0259s m&uuml;ayin\u0259si il\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n cinsiyy\u0259tinin &ouml;yr\u0259nilm\u0259sinin qada\u011fan olunmas\u0131, hamil\u0259liyin pozulmas\u0131n\u0131n bir ginekoloqun q\u0259rar\u0131 il\u0259 deyil, konsiliumun q\u0259rar\u0131 il\u0259 h\u0259yata ke&ccedil;irilm\u0259si, eyni zamanda bu qanunun pozulmas\u0131na g&ouml;r\u0259 cinay\u0259t v\u0259 inzibati m\u0259suliyy\u0259t d\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutulur. Ancaq burada insanlar\u0131n maarifl\u0259ndirilm\u0259si apar\u0131lmasa, problemin qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq &ccedil;\u0259tindir&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>Q\u0131z v\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda faiz nisb\u0259tinin pozulmas\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259nfi t\u0259sirl\u0259ri haqq\u0131nda dan\u0131\u015fan M.Quliyev bildirib ki, bu c&uuml;r hal g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 demoqrafik g\u0259rginliy\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur: &ldquo;H\u0259r il o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131 art\u0131r, q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131 is\u0259 azal\u0131r. Evl\u0259nm\u0259 ya\u015f\u0131na &ccedil;atanda o\u011flanlar\u0131n say\u0131 q\u0131zlardan &ccedil;ox olacaq. Bel\u0259 olan halda is\u0259 subayqalma hallar\u0131 olacaq, o\u011flanlar ba\u015fqa &ouml;lk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n, ba\u015fqa mill\u0259td\u0259n olan q\u0131zlarla evl\u0259n\u0259c\u0259k, nikahlar\u0131n milliliyini qorumaq &ccedil;\u0259tinl\u0259\u015f\u0259c\u0259k. Milli mentalitetin qorunmas\u0131 &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n atan\u0131n da, anan\u0131n da eyni mill\u0259td\u0259n olmas\u0131 vacibdir, x&uuml;sus\u0259n d\u0259 bunun bizim kimi o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 b&ouml;y&uuml;k olmayan v\u0259 g\u0259nc &ouml;lk\u0259 &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n b&ouml;y&uuml;k \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259ti var&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>Son ill\u0259r\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259r zaman Az\u0259rbaycanda qad\u0131nlar\u0131n sayca ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n &ccedil;ox oldu\u011fu bildirilirdi. Lakin son 10-20 ilin n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259ri tamamil\u0259 f\u0259rqlidir. Bel\u0259 ki, son zamanlarda q\u0131z &ouml;vladlar\u0131n\u0131n b\u0259tnd\u0259nk\u0259nar edilm\u0259si v\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131na &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;k verilm\u0259si hallar\u0131 xeyli art\u0131b. B\u0259s g&ouml;r\u0259s\u0259n bu n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 d&uuml;zg&uuml;n yana\u015fmad\u0131r? &Ouml;vladlar aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131-se&ccedil;kilik salmaq fikri haradan qaynaqlan\u0131r?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ta q\u0259dim zamanlardan &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;k veril\u0259n o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>M&ouml;vzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 &ldquo;&Uuml;&ccedil; n&ouml;qt\u0259&rdquo;y\u0259 a&ccedil;\u0131qlama ver\u0259n sosioloq \u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flunun s&ouml;zl\u0259rin\u0259 g&ouml;r\u0259, ultras\u0259s m&uuml;ayin\u0259sinin meydana &ccedil;\u0131xmas\u0131 bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 &ccedil;ox b&ouml;y&uuml;k rol oynay\u0131b: &ldquo;Bel\u0259 ki, hamil\u0259lik vaxt\u0131 yoxlanaraq q\u0131z v\u0259 o\u011flan &ouml;vlad\u0131 oldu\u011funu &ouml;yr\u0259nib, q\u0131z &ouml;vlad\u0131n\u0131 b\u0259tnd\u0259nk\u0259nar, y\u0259ni abort edirl\u0259r. Q\u0259dimd\u0259 h\u0259r zaman o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131na &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;k verilib. Ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259y\u0259 g&ouml;r\u0259, evd\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d&uuml;nyaya g\u0259l\u0259n kimi g&ouml;zayd\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 verir, t\u0259brik edirdil\u0259r. &ldquo;Yeddi o\u011ful ist\u0259r\u0259m, birc\u0259 d\u0259n\u0259 q\u0131z g\u0259lin&rdquo;, &ldquo;Q\u0131z y&uuml;k&uuml;, duz y&uuml;k&uuml;&rdquo; v\u0259 s. kimi atalar s&ouml;zl\u0259rimiz d\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131na n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;k verildiyini g&ouml;st\u0259ricisidir. B&uuml;t&uuml;n bunlar q\u0131zlara m&uuml;nasib\u0259tin \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi olaraq soyuq oldu\u011funu g&ouml;st\u0259rir. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki bir vaxtlar m&uuml;harib\u0259l\u0259r olurdu, ki\u015fil\u0259r ev\u0259 daha &ccedil;ox g\u0259lir g\u0259tirirdi, q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n o vaxtk\u0131 h&uuml;quqlar\u0131 daha az idi, evd\u0259 qalanda y&uuml;k olurdu. Bu \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi olaraq davam edirdi. \u0130ndiki zamanda is\u0259 \u0259lav\u0259 komponentl\u0259r daxil oldu, haz\u0131rda bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rmalar apar\u0131ram. Valideynl\u0259r s&ouml;hb\u0259t \u0259snas\u0131nda, indiki m&uuml;hit &ccedil;ox pis oldu\u011funu deyirl\u0259r. \u018fxlaqi v\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 &ccedil;oxlu xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z prosesl\u0259r gedir. Buna g&ouml;r\u0259 d\u0259, q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259mirl\u0259r. Get-ged\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n ail\u0259d\u0259 say\u0131 azal\u0131r. \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r ail\u0259d\u0259 \u0259n az\u0131 5-6 u\u015faq olurdu, bu zaman fikir vermirdil\u0259r. \u0130ndi \u0259n &ccedil;oxu 2-3 u\u015faq olur, ona g&ouml;r\u0259 d\u0259, o\u011flana &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;k verm\u0259y\u0259 &ccedil;al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>Sosioloq deyir ki, b\u0259zi deputatlar, jurnalistl\u0259r s\u0259s-k&uuml;y sal\u0131rlar ki, bu demoqrafik c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n &ccedil;ox pis hald\u0131r, bir azdan o\u011flanlar\u0131m\u0131z evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 q\u0131z tapmayacaqlar: &ldquo;Burda daha &ccedil;ox qorxulu olan m\u0259n\u0259vi t\u0259r\u0259fdir. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki ata-ana &ouml;z &ouml;vlad\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259tl etm\u0259k &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n q\u0259rar q\u0259bul edir. &Ouml;z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259tl etm\u0259k insanlar\u0131n q\u0259lbind\u0259 g\u0259rginlik yarad\u0131r v\u0259 bu c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259 yans\u0131y\u0131r. Lakin demoqrafik c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n problem yaratm\u0131r. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n &ccedil;ox do\u011fulmas\u0131 \u0259slind\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 hald\u0131r. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki bizim &ouml;lk\u0259 kimi bir yerd\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n b\u0259zil\u0259ri b&ouml;y&uuml;d&uuml;kd\u0259 &ouml;lk\u0259ni t\u0259rk edir, yaxud m&uuml;harib\u0259d\u0259, q\u0259zada v\u0259 s. v\u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 d&uuml;nyas\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fir. V\u0259 20 ya\u015f\u0131na &ccedil;atd\u0131qda o\u011flanlar il\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131n say\u0131 dem\u0259k olar ki, b\u0259rab\u0259rl\u0259\u015fir. Fikrimc\u0259, 53,4 faiz o\u011flan v\u0259 46,6 faiz q\u0131z do\u011fulsa da, burda qorxulu bir \u015fey yoxdur, normal bir hald\u0131r. Dediyim kimi burda \u0259sas problem m\u0259n\u0259vi t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259ndir&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>Ekspertl\u0259rin fikrinc\u0259, u\u015faqlar aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131-se&ccedil;kiliy\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n irsi x&uuml;susiyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 qiym\u0259t ver\u0259n ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 rast g\u0259linir. Bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rin q\u0259rarlar\u0131na \u0259sas\u0259n n\u0259n\u0259, baba, day\u0131, \u0259mi, bibi m&uuml;daxil\u0259 edir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, n\u0259n\u0259, baba deyir ki, o\u011flumun soyad\u0131 yerd\u0259 qalmas\u0131n dey\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 vacibdir. Bel\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 d&uuml;nyaya g\u0259l\u0259n o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 aras\u0131nda f\u0259rq qoyulur. Q\u0131z h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 ikinci planda olur. Bu tipli ail\u0259l\u0259rin psixoloji, sosial c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n maarifl\u0259ndirilm\u0259sin\u0259 ehtiyac var. D&uuml;nyag&ouml;r&uuml;\u015f&uuml;, a\u011fl\u0131, savad\u0131 olan valideyn he&ccedil; vaxt &ouml;vladlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda ayr\u0131-se&ccedil;kilik salmaz. Bu, ail\u0259d\u0259 q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011fa, pax\u0131ll\u0131\u011fa, qarda\u015f-bac\u0131 aras\u0131nda d&uuml;\u015fm\u0259n&ccedil;iliy\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r apar\u0131b &ccedil;\u0131xara bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Xeyirsiz o\u011flan &ouml;vlad\u0131ndansa, xeyirli q\u0131z &ouml;vlad\u0131&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;Nar\u0131nc&rdquo; U\u015faq Psixologiya M\u0259rk\u0259zinin ba\u015f m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t&ccedil;isi v\u0259 ba\u015f psixoloqu Aydan N\u0259z\u0259rova deyir ki, valideynl\u0259r indi daha &ccedil;ox o\u011flan &ouml;vladlar\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yirl\u0259r: &ldquo;\u0130nsanlar aras\u0131nda bel\u0259 bir d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;nc\u0259 t\u0259rzi var ki, o\u011flan &ouml;vlad\u0131 n\u0259slin davam&ccedil;\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Y\u0259ni &ldquo;O\u011flan &ouml;vlad\u0131m\u0131z olsa n\u0259slimiz davam ed\u0259c\u0259k, q\u0131z &ouml;vlad\u0131m\u0131z olsa var-d&ouml;vl\u0259timiz ba\u015fqa o\u011flana qalacaq&rdquo; kimi fikirl\u0259r var. Buna g&ouml;r\u0259 d\u0259 b\u0259zi ail\u0259l\u0259r daha &ccedil;ox o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131na meyll\u0259nirl\u0259r. Amma fikrimc\u0259, ata-anaya qalan daha &ccedil;ox q\u0131z &ouml;vladlar\u0131 olur. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki valideynl\u0259rinin ba\u015f\u0131na bir i\u015f g\u0259l\u0259n kimi q\u0131z &ouml;vlad\u0131 daha tez qa&ccedil;\u0131b &ouml;z&uuml;n&uuml; &ccedil;atd\u0131r\u0131r. \u018flind\u0259 &ouml;vladlar aras\u0131nda he&ccedil; bir f\u0259rq qoyulmamal\u0131d\u0131r, &ccedil;&uuml;nki&nbsp; h\u0259r &ouml;vlad\u0131n &ouml;z&uuml;n\u0259m\u0259xsus &ouml;z\u0259lliyi, x&uuml;susiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri var. Xeyirsiz o\u011flan &ouml;vlad\u0131ndansa, xeyirli q\u0131z &ouml;vlad\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tlidir. El\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131 var ki, onun \u0259v\u0259zind\u0259 5 q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olsa daha yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Ona g&ouml;r\u0259 d\u0259 Allah\u0131n verdiyi payla kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Allaha &uuml;syan etm\u0259y\u0259 haqq\u0131m\u0131z yoxdur. O, nec\u0259 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t bilirs\u0259, el\u0259 d\u0259 ed\u0259c\u0259k&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&ldquo;\u0130mkanl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259r&nbsp; o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131na &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;k verir&rdquo;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A.N\u0259z\u0259rova deyir ki, b\u0259zi ail\u0259l\u0259r q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d&uuml;nyaya g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 ona maraq g&ouml;st\u0259rmirl\u0259r: &ldquo;D&uuml;\u015f&uuml;n&uuml;rl\u0259r ki, \u0259\u015fi q\u0131zd\u0131r da, &ccedil;\u0131x\u0131b ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n evin\u0259 ged\u0259c\u0259k. B\u0259zi hallarda t\u0259hsil almalar\u0131na bel\u0259 imkan vermirl\u0259r. &ldquo;\u018fr\u0259 ver\u0259c\u0259yik, ged\u0259c\u0259k&rdquo; &#8211; d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;nc\u0259 t\u0259rzind\u0259 olduqlar\u0131 &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n q\u0131z &ouml;vladlar\u0131n\u0131n bir pe\u015f\u0259, s\u0259n\u0259t &nbsp;sahibi olmalar\u0131na imkan vermirl\u0259r. N\u0259tic\u0259 etibaril\u0259 q\u0131z u\u015faqlar\u0131 ail\u0259d\u0259 travma alma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r, qay\u011f\u0131-sevgi g&ouml;rm&uuml;rl\u0259r. Amma m&uuml;tl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 &ouml;vlada t\u0259hsil imkan\u0131 yarad\u0131lmal\u0131, onun pe\u015f\u0259y\u0259 sahib olmas\u0131na valideyn yard\u0131m etm\u0259lidir. Lakin haz\u0131rda el\u0259 ail\u0259l\u0259r var ki, q\u0131z &ouml;vladlar\u0131n\u0131n oldu\u011funa g&ouml;r\u0259, heyfisl\u0259nmir, &ouml;z paylar\u0131na \u015f&uuml;k&uuml;r edirl\u0259r. Bir n&uuml;ans\u0131 da qeyd edim ki, imkan\u0131 y&uuml;ks\u0259k olan ail\u0259l\u0259r daha &ccedil;ox o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki onlar n\u0259slin davam etm\u0259sini ist\u0259yirl\u0259r. Yaxud el\u0259 qaynanalar var, deyir ki, o\u011flum t\u0259k u\u015faqd\u0131r, ist\u0259yir\u0259m o\u011flu olsun v\u0259 s. Bu kimi d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;nc\u0259l\u0259r o\u011flan &ouml;vlad\u0131n\u0131n daha &ccedil;ox olmas\u0131n\u0131n &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;k t\u0259\u015fkil etm\u0259sin\u0259 g\u0259tirib &ccedil;\u0131xar\u0131r&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&ldquo;B\u0259h-b\u0259h&rdquo;l\u0259 b&ouml;y&uuml;d&uuml;l\u0259n o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A.N\u0259z\u0259rovan\u0131n s&ouml;zl\u0259rin\u0259 g&ouml;r\u0259, &ccedil;ox zaman ail\u0259l\u0259r o\u011flan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d&uuml;nyaya g\u0259ldikd\u0259n sonra onu o q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259rk\u0259s&ouml;y&uuml;n b&ouml;y&uuml;d&uuml;rl\u0259r ki: &ldquo;&Ccedil;&uuml;nki o vaxta q\u0259d\u0259r h\u0259r dediyini edirl\u0259r, n\u0259 ist\u0259yir verirl\u0259r, barma\u011f\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259y\u0259 qoysa valideynl\u0259ri onun &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n al\u0131r. Bundan sonra da u\u015faq h\u0259r \u015feyin &ldquo;H\u0259&rdquo; olaca\u011f\u0131na &ouml;yr\u0259\u015fir v\u0259 bird\u0259n &ldquo;Yox&rdquo; s&ouml;z&uuml;n&uuml; e\u015fitdikd\u0259 is\u0259 t\u0259rs reaksiya verirl\u0259r. Bu da xo\u015fag\u0259lm\u0259z hallara g\u0259tirib &ccedil;\u0131xar\u0131r. Ax\u0131 onlar qada\u011faya &ouml;yr\u0259\u015fm\u0259yibl\u0259r, &ldquo;b\u0259h-b\u0259h&rdquo;l\u0259 b&ouml;y&uuml;d&uuml;l&uuml;bl\u0259r. Bu d&uuml;zg&uuml;n deyil. M&uuml;tl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 &ouml;vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 do\u011fru-d&uuml;zg&uuml;n \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 yeti\u015fdirm\u0259li, onlar\u0131n aras\u0131nda he&ccedil; bir f\u0259rq qoymamal\u0131y\u0131q &rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be\u015f barma\u011f\u0131n be\u015fi d\u0259 \u0259zizdir&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ekspertl\u0259rin fikrinc\u0259 bir &ccedil;ox valideynl\u0259r, baba-n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131 n\u0259slin davam&ccedil;\u0131lar\u0131 hesab etdikl\u0259rind\u0259 g&ouml;r\u0259, d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;n&uuml;rl\u0259r ki, ail\u0259nin m\u0259suliyy\u0259ti onlar\u0131n &uuml;z\u0259rin\u0259 d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;r. H\u0259r bir &ouml;vlad\u0131n yax\u015f\u0131 x&uuml;susiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri var. Q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin anas\u0131d\u0131r, min bir \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259 d&uuml;nyaya &ouml;vlad g\u0259tirir. B\u0259z\u0259n ard\u0131c\u0131l &uuml;&ccedil;-d&ouml;rd q\u0131z u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olan ata n\u0259slinin k\u0259sil\u0259c\u0259yini, ad\u0131n\u0131n yerd\u0259 qalaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;n&uuml;r. Bu d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;nc\u0259 tamamil\u0259 yanl\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. Pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r (s.\u0259.s) \u018ff\u0259ndimizin d\u0259 n\u0259slini davam etdir\u0259n o\u011flu olmay\u0131b. Ancaq n\u0259sli k\u0259silm\u0259yib. B\u0259z\u0259n c\u0259miyy\u0259timizd\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131 olub, o\u011flu olmayan insana sonsuz deyirl\u0259r. Bu, do\u011fru deyil, yaln\u0131z v\u0259 yaln\u0131z cahillikdir. &Ouml;vladlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131 bizim &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n \u0259ziz olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Nec\u0259 dey\u0259rl\u0259r, be\u015f barma\u011f\u0131n be\u015fi d\u0259 \u0259zizdir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K&ouml;n&uuml;l Oruc<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu: &ldquo;\u0130ndi ail\u0259d\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n say\u0131 azald\u0131\u011f\u0131na g&ouml;r\u0259, o\u011flana &uuml;st&uuml;nl&uuml;k verirl\u0259r&rdquo; Aydan N\u0259z\u0259rova: &ldquo;Xeyirsiz o\u011flan &ouml;vlad\u0131ndansa, xeyirli q\u0131z &ouml;vlad\u0131 m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tdir&rdquo; &Ouml;t\u0259n ilin yanvar-noyabr aylar\u0131nda Az\u0259rbaycanda 127 681 do\u011fulan k&ouml;rp\u0259 qeyd\u0259&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-75287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=75287"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75287\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=75287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=75287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=75287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}