{"id":74234,"date":"2019-01-29T13:16:54","date_gmt":"2019-01-29T09:16:54","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=74234","title":{"rendered":"\u201cB\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r \u00f6vladlar\u0131na h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q azadl\u0131q verirl\u0259r\u201d<\/b><\/font>"},"content":{"rendered":"

F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131: “Qaydalar\u0131n v\u0259 qada\u011falar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini övlad\u0131na anlatmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, u\u015faqda heç bir travmatik psixoloji, patoloji probleml\u0259r yaranmas\u0131n”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Deyir ki, bu gün “u\u015faq azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131” – deyil\u0259n bir tendensiya, \u015fablon söz var. Deyirl\u0259r ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 azad buraxmaq, öz seçiml\u0259rini müst\u0259qil \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 etm\u0259sin\u0259 icaz\u0259 verm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Burda da b\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259rin dozan\u0131 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q çox etdiyini n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 çatd\u0131r\u0131r: “Y\u0259ni psixoloqlar\u0131n dedikl\u0259ri azadl\u0131q fikrini düzgün d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirmir v\u0259 övladlar\u0131na h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q azadl\u0131q verirl\u0259r. H\u0259r bir evin qaydalar\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259r bir ail\u0259nin üz\u0259rin\u0259 dü\u015f\u0259n öhd\u0259likl\u0259r var. El\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n üz\u0259rin\u0259 dü\u015f\u0259n m\u0259suliyy\u0259t v\u0259 öhd\u0259likl\u0259r var ki, bunu h\u0259r bir u\u015faq yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259lidir. V\u0259 bu müzakir\u0259 olunmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu zaman u\u015faq m\u0259suliyy\u0259t, özgüv\u0259n, disiplin v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 öhd\u0259likl\u0259rini götür\u0259 bilir. V\u0259 n\u0259inki ail\u0259daxili, h\u0259mçinin c\u0259miyy\u0259t iç\u0259risind\u0259 özünü düzgün \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t, f\u0259rd olaraq sa\u011flam psixologiyada aparma\u011f\u0131 bilir”.
\nBu sözl\u0259ri “Üç nöqt\u0259” q\u0259zetinin qona\u011f\u0131 psixoloq F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131 dedi<\/em>. H\u0259msöhb\u0259tim il\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131n z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131q.<\/p>\n

\"\"“V\u0259rdi\u015f u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ail\u0259sini manipulyasiya etm\u0259sidir”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Psixoloq deyir ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131n etdiyi z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r valideynl\u0259rin v\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131n bax\u0131\u015f\u0131, n\u0259yi z\u0259r\u0259rli hesab etdikl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Bu gün u\u015faqlar\u0131n etdiyi \u0259n z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015f, xasiyy\u0259t valideyni isterika il\u0259 idar\u0259 etm\u0259kdir: “U\u015faqlar a\u011flamaqla, s\u0259sini ba\u015f\u0131na atmaqla, h\u0259r hans\u0131 aqressiv h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t etm\u0259kl\u0259 valideyn\u0259 dedikl\u0259rini etdirm\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Valideyn d\u0259 çar\u0259siz qald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dü\u015fünür v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n dedikl\u0259rini edir. Bu tamamil\u0259 yanl\u0131\u015f h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tdir v\u0259 yolverilm\u0259zdir. Bu, övlad\u0131n\u0131 bil\u0259-bil\u0259 oda, alova atmaq dem\u0259kdir. Bundan sonra u\u015faqlarda z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r \u0259m\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Bunlar kompüter oyunlar\u0131na meyl etm\u0259k, d\u0131rnaq yem\u0259k, isterikaya qo\u015fulub böyük-kiçik saymamaq, ail\u0259daxili qanunlar\u0131 yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259m\u0259k v\u0259 sair\u0259dir. Çox zaman z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r dedikd\u0259 bunlar\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 ç\u0259kirl\u0259r. Amma m\u0259n dem\u0259zdim bu v\u0259rdi\u015fdir, bu h\u0259r hans\u0131 problemin n\u0259tic\u0259sidir. V\u0259rdi\u015f u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ail\u0259sini manipulyasiya etm\u0259sidir. Çünki art\u0131q u\u015faq buna v\u0259rdi\u015f edib. Amma kompüter, yaxud televizor qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda oturmaq düzgün olmayan psixoloji yana\u015fman\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259sidir”. <\/p>\n

“Ail\u0259daxili qanunlara böyüklü-kiçikli h\u0259r k\u0259s \u0259m\u0259l etm\u0259lidir”<\/strong><\/p>\n

F.Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n sözl\u0259rin\u0259 gör\u0259, u\u015faqlarda z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rin yaranmas\u0131n\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq üçün mütl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 disiplin olmal\u0131d\u0131r: “Ail\u0259daxili qanunlara böyüklü-kiçikli h\u0259r k\u0259s \u0259m\u0259l etm\u0259lidir, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faq… Kompüter oyunlar\u0131n\u0131 misal göst\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259rik. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n kompüter oyunlar\u0131na v\u0259rdi\u015f etm\u0259sinin n\u0259yin  n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 \u0259m\u0259l\u0259 g\u0259ldiyini psixo-analiz etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bunun üçün mütl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 müt\u0259x\u0259ssis\u0259 müraci\u0259t etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Müt\u0259x\u0259ssis u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n psixo-portretini ç\u0259km\u0259li, psixo-analiz etm\u0259li, diaqnoz qoymal\u0131, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tind\u0259 olan narahatl\u0131qlar\u0131, müsb\u0259t v\u0259 m\u0259nfil\u0259ri üz\u0259 ç\u0131xarmal\u0131d\u0131r. V\u0259 bundan sonra valideyn\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259ti il\u0259 narahatl\u0131qlar\u0131 dem\u0259lidir”.<\/p>\n

“B\u0259zi valideynl\u0259r övladlar\u0131na h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q azadl\u0131q verirl\u0259r”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Psixoloq vur\u011fulay\u0131r ki, daha sonrak\u0131 m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259 problemin h\u0259lli yollar\u0131d\u0131r. Onun sözl\u0259rin\u0259 gör\u0259, bir çox m\u0259qamlarda valideyn psixoloqun dedikl\u0259rini ev\u0259 g\u0259ldikd\u0259n sonra h\u0259yata keçir\u0259 bilmir. Çünki u\u015faq ail\u0259sini, valideynl\u0259rini manipulyasiya edir, valideynin dominantl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, avtoritetliyini q\u0259bul etmir: “Bu gün “u\u015faq azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131”- deyil\u0259n bir tendensiya, \u015fablon söz var. Deyirl\u0259r ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 azad buraxmaq, öz seçiml\u0259rini müst\u0259qil \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 etm\u0259sin\u0259 icaz\u0259 verm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Burda da b\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r dozan\u0131 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q çox edirl\u0259r. Y\u0259ni psixoloqlar\u0131n dedikl\u0259ri azadl\u0131q fikrini düzgün d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirmir v\u0259 övladlar\u0131na h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q azadl\u0131q verirl\u0259r. H\u0259r bir evin qaydalar\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259r bir ail\u0259nin üz\u0259rin\u0259 dü\u015f\u0259n öhd\u0259likl\u0259r var. El\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n üz\u0259rin\u0259 dü\u015f\u0259n m\u0259suliyy\u0259t v\u0259 öhd\u0259likl\u0259r var. V\u0259 bunu h\u0259r bir u\u015faq yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259lidir. Bu müzakir\u0259 olunmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu zaman u\u015faq m\u0259suliyy\u0259t, özgüv\u0259n, disiplin v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131 öhd\u0259likl\u0259rini götür\u0259 bilir. V\u0259 n\u0259inki ail\u0259daxili, h\u0259mçinin c\u0259miyy\u0259t iç\u0259risind\u0259 özünü düzgün \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t, f\u0259rd olaraq sa\u011flam psixologiyada aparma\u011f\u0131 bilir”. <\/p>\n

“U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n valideynini manipulyasiya etm\u0259sinin t\u0259s\u0259vvür edilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 çox f\u0259sadlar\u0131 olur”<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u0259msöhb\u0259tim bildirir ki, bu gün ail\u0259sini manipulyasiya ed\u0259n, özgüv\u0259nsiz v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tind\u0259 problem olaraq böyüy\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n valideynl\u0259ri övladlar\u0131 9-10 ya\u015f\u0131na çatanda \u015fikay\u0259t etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar: “Deyirl\u0259r ki, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131m m\u0259ni e\u015fitmir, dediyim heç n\u0259y\u0259 \u0259m\u0259l etmir, pozulub v\u0259 s. Amma bunun ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n günahkar\u0131 el\u0259 valideynl\u0259r özl\u0259ridir. Fikrimc\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tind\u0259, xarakterind\u0259 olan m\u0259nfi v\u0259 müsb\u0259t keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259rin cavabdehi valideyndir. Çünki u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 valideyn yeti\u015fdirir. U\u015faqlarda z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rin yaranmas\u0131n\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq üçün qaydalar olmal\u0131 v\u0259 u\u015faq bu qaydalar iç\u0259risind\u0259 azad olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Qaydalar v\u0259 m\u0259suliyy\u0259t ç\u0259rçiv\u0259sind\u0259 olduqda h\u0259r \u015fey göz\u0259l olacaq. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n valideynini manipulyasiya etm\u0259sinin t\u0259s\u0259vvür edilm\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 çox f\u0259sadlar\u0131 olur. Valideynl\u0259r bunun f\u0259sadlar\u0131n\u0131 övladlar\u0131 böyüdükc\u0259, xüsusil\u0259 d\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259lik dövrün\u0259 çatd\u0131qda gör\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r. \u0130dar\u0259olunmaz bir v\u0259ziyy\u0259t yaranacaq. \u0130dar\u0259olunmaz dey\u0259nd\u0259 çox adamlar bunu h\u0259rfi m\u0259nada ba\u015fa dü\u015für. Amma el\u0259 deyil, daha rahat v\u0259 azad qaydalara \u0259m\u0259l etm\u0259y\u0259n, m\u0259suliyy\u0259t hissi olmayan bir \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t yeti\u015f\u0259c\u0259k. Bu h\u0259m c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259, h\u0259m ail\u0259y\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsin özün\u0259 ziyand\u0131r”.<\/p>\n

“Qaydalar\u0131n v\u0259 qada\u011falar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini övlad\u0131na anlatmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r”<\/strong><\/p>\n

U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rind\u0259n birinin d\u0259 d\u0131rnaq yem\u0259k oldu\u011funu n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 çatd\u0131ran psixoloq deyir ki, d\u0131rnaq yem\u0259k o psixoloji hal\u0131n n\u0259tic\u0259sidir ki, u\u015faq özgüv\u0259nsizdir, ail\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 münasib\u0259td\u0259 v\u0259 anla\u015fmada deyil: “El\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faq c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259n q\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r v\u0259 kompüter oyunlar\u0131na keçir, orda özünü t\u0259tmin edir, ail\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n q\u0259bul olunmur. Çox vaxt u\u015fa\u011fa azadl\u0131q verirl\u0259r ki, guya özgüv\u0259nli olsun. Amma u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Ona qanun qoyanda da dinl\u0259m\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu, valideynin qanunudur, valideynlik, böyüklük m\u0259suliyy\u0259tidir. N\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n h\u0259r dediyini etm\u0259k, n\u0259 d\u0259 dedikl\u0259rini bird\u0259f\u0259lik k\u0259sib atmaq olmaz. Övlad\u0131n\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259k, onun h\u0259r fikrin\u0259 hörm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131b fikir mübadil\u0259si etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Qaydalar\u0131n v\u0259 qada\u011falar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini övlad\u0131na anlatmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, u\u015faqda heç bir travmatik psixoloji, patoloji probleml\u0259r yaranmas\u0131n. Onun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq üçün ancaq u\u015faqla düzgün ünsiyy\u0259t, düzgün qaydalar, özgüv\u0259n yaratmaq, ona sevgi göst\u0259rm\u0259k, laz\u0131ml\u0131 oldu\u011funu hiss etdirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bunun n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 u\u015faq düzgün \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi formala\u015facaq”.<\/p>\n

“U\u015faqla psixoloji r\u0259ftar\u0131 unutmamaq laz\u0131md\u0131r”<\/strong><\/p>\n

U\u015fa\u011f\u0131 s\u0259rt \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 t\u0259nqid etm\u0259nin düzgün olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildir\u0259n v\u0259 bir çox f\u0259sadlar\u0131ndan dan\u0131\u015fan F.Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n\u0131 sözl\u0259rin\u0259 gör\u0259, bu, aqressiyaya s\u0259b\u0259b olacaq v\u0259 övlad\u0131n\u0131n valideyni dinl\u0259m\u0259m\u0259yin\u0259 g\u0259tirib ç\u0131xaracaq: “Qanunlar \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n qoyulmal\u0131 v\u0259 bütün ail\u0259 üzvl\u0259ri yerin\u0259 yetirm\u0259lidir. Bu qanunlardan \u0259lav\u0259 u\u015faqla psixoloji r\u0259ftar\u0131 unutmamaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Burda söhb\u0259t  sevgi, qay\u011f\u0131, dayan\u0131ql\u0131l\u0131q, m\u0259suliyy\u0259t, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dinl\u0259m\u0259k, onun q\u0259rarlar\u0131na, öz q\u0259rarlar\u0131na hörm\u0259t etm\u0259k, öyr\u0259nm\u0259k v\u0259 öyr\u0259tm\u0259kd\u0259n gedir. Bütün bunlar çox vacibdir. \u018fg\u0259r valideyn t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na bunun öhd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259 bilmirs\u0259, z\u0259r\u0259rin yaras\u0131ndan dönm\u0259k üçün mütl\u0259q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 müt\u0259x\u0259ssis\u0259 müraci\u0259t etm\u0259lidir. Müt\u0259x\u0259ssis u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 psixoanaliz etdikd\u0259n sonra, valideyn\u0259 bunun texnikas\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fa sal\u0131r. Müt\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r bunun üçündür. Bu i\u015fi h\u0259r k\u0259s özü gör\u0259 bils\u0259ydi bu q\u0259d\u0259r elm, kitablar v\u0259 müt\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r olmazd\u0131”. <\/p>\n

“U\u015faqlar z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259ri \u0259traf\u0131ndan öyr\u0259nirl\u0259r”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Valideynl\u0259rin övladlar\u0131n\u0131 pis v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rd\u0259n ç\u0259kindirm\u0259k üçün s\u0259rt t\u0259rbiy\u0259 üsullardan istifad\u0259 etm\u0259si m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sin\u0259 münasib\u0259t bildir\u0259n psixoloq deyir ki, bu u\u015faqlarda h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q aqressiya, c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259, valideyn\u0259 nifr\u0259t v\u0259 özgüv\u0259nsizlik yarada bil\u0259r: “V\u0259 sonda \u0259n t\u0259hlük\u0259li olan suisidliy\u0259 g\u0259tirib ç\u0131xara bil\u0259r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tinin formala\u015fmas\u0131 onun \u0259traf\u0131nda olan insanlar\u0131n bir-birin\u0259 v\u0259 ona olan münasib\u0259tind\u0259n yaran\u0131r. Bunu h\u0259r zaman vur\u011fulay\u0131ram. \u018fg\u0259r q\u0131r\u0131lmalar olsa u\u015faq özünd\u0259n, ail\u0259sind\u0259n v\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259n qopur. Buna gör\u0259 d\u0259 mühit \u0259n vacib m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. U\u015faqlar z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259ri \u0259traf\u0131ndan öyr\u0259nirl\u0259r. Bütün günü seriala baxan anan\u0131n övlad\u0131 bütün günü kompüterd\u0259, yaxud telefonda oyun oynayacaq. Bütün günü q\u0131\u015fq\u0131ran valideynl\u0259rin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 eyni \u015feyi ed\u0259c\u0259k. Yeniyetm\u0259lik dövründ\u0259 d\u0259 siqaret, azart oyunlar\u0131 v\u0259 s. kimi v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r valideynl\u0259rin u\u015faql\u0131qda övladlar\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tind\u0259 qoydu\u011fu probleml\u0259rin n\u0259tic\u0259sidir. Bu gün informasiya boldur, u\u015faq haradan ist\u0259s\u0259 öyr\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r. Amma t\u0259m\u0259l düzgün qoyulsa, yeniyetm\u0259nin z\u0259r\u0259rli v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 meyli q\u0259tiyy\u0259n olmaz”.<\/p>\n

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F\u0259rqan\u0259 Mehmanq\u0131z\u0131: “Qaydalar\u0131n v\u0259 qada\u011falar\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini övlad\u0131na anlatmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, u\u015faqda heç bir travmatik psixoloji, patoloji probleml\u0259r yaranmas\u0131n” Deyir ki, bu gün “u\u015faq azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131” – deyil\u0259n bir tendensiya, \u015fablon söz…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-74234","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74234","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=74234"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74234\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=74234"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=74234"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=74234"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}