{"id":72803,"date":"2018-12-25T13:15:52","date_gmt":"2018-12-25T09:15:52","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=72803","title":{"rendered":"D\u00f6\u015f\u0259m\u0259ni d\u00f6ym\u0259kd\u0259ns\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u0259zizl\u0259yin&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&ldquo;D\u0259rsl\u0259rd\u0259 olan \u0259ksiklik zamanla tamamlana bils\u0259 d\u0259, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olan \u0259ksikliyin korrekt\u0259 edilm\u0259si &ccedil;ox &ccedil;\u0259tin olur&rdquo;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;S\u0259ni sevir\u0259m&rdquo;, &ldquo;G&uuml;n&uuml;n nec\u0259 ke&ccedil;di?&rdquo;, &ldquo;Z\u0259hm\u0259t olmasa&rdquo;, &ldquo;T\u0259\u015f\u0259kk&uuml;r edir\u0259m&rdquo;, &ldquo;\u018fsla vaz ke&ccedil;m\u0259&rdquo;, &ldquo;S\u0259n qalib g\u0259ldin&rdquo;, &ldquo;Bu s\u0259nin se&ccedil;imindir&rdquo;, &ldquo;\u0130sraf etm\u0259&rdquo;, &ldquo;H\u0259qiq\u0259ti s&ouml;yl\u0259&rdquo;&#8230; Bunlar &uuml;mumilikd\u0259 h\u0259r bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n g&uuml;nd\u0259lik olaraq e\u015fitm\u0259li oldu\u011fu c&uuml;ml\u0259l\u0259r siyah\u0131s\u0131na daxildir. &Uuml;mumi olaraq u\u015faqlara yana\u015fma m&ouml;vzusunu ara\u015fd\u0131randa bu tipli bir &ccedil;ox c&uuml;ml\u0259l\u0259rin oldu\u011funu g&ouml;r\u0259rik.<br \/>\nAmma sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131ma &ccedil;\u0131xan bu payla\u015f\u0131mdak\u0131 kimi hallar\u0131 da az g&ouml;rm&uuml;r&uuml;k: &ldquo;Bayaq dayanacaqda bir xan\u0131m a\u011flayan u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 el\u0259 davran\u0131rd\u0131 ki, sanki a\u011flama\u011f\u0131n\u0131n k\u0259sm\u0259m\u0259si &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n \u0259lind\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259ni edirdi. &ldquo;Azzar&rdquo; dey\u0259-dey\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 guya sakitl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 &ccedil;al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131, amma \u0259ksin\u0259 u\u015faq daha &ccedil;ox a\u011flay\u0131b, q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131rd\u0131&#8230;&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>&ldquo;N\u0259 t&ouml;k\u0259rs\u0259n a\u015f\u0131na, o da &ccedil;\u0131xar qa\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131na&rdquo; misal\u0131 var. Qazana n\u0259 t&ouml;ks\u0259n, sonra da qar\u015f\u0131na o &ccedil;\u0131xacaq. Yuxar\u0131da qeyd etdiyimiz 2-3 s&ouml;zd\u0259n ibar\u0259t olan xo\u015f c&uuml;ml\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 \u0259slind\u0259, el\u0259 onu g&ouml;st\u0259rir ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131n nec\u0259 bir f\u0259rd kimi yeti\u015fm\u0259kl\u0259rind\u0259 onlarla ki&ccedil;ik ya\u015flarla nec\u0259 davranma\u011f\u0131n &ouml;n\u0259mi b&ouml;y&uuml;kd&uuml;r. U\u015faql\u0131q ill\u0259ri is\u0259 is\u0259 \u0259sas\u0259n, ev, ba\u011f&ccedil;a v\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259b aras\u0131nda ke&ccedil;ir. Dem\u0259li, \u0259sas rol valideynl\u0259rin v\u0259 m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259rin &uuml;z\u0259rin\u0259 d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;r. Bu c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n valideynl\u0259r v\u0259 m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259r hans\u0131 s\u0259hvl\u0259r\u0259 yol verirl\u0259r? Hans\u0131 m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar?<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130st\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k yey\u0259c\u0259k, ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259s\u0259, yox<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u0130lk olaraq h\u0259ms&ouml;hb\u0259timiz g\u0259nc valideyn \u015e\u0259bn\u0259m H\u0259s\u0259n\u0259lizad\u0259 oldu. O, deyir ki, \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r &ouml;vladlar\u0131na yana\u015fmas\u0131nda m&uuml;\u0259yy\u0259n s\u0259hvl\u0259r\u0259 yol verirmi\u015f: &ldquo;M\u0259nim d\u0259 ham\u0131 kimi s\u0259hvl\u0259rim olub. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r u\u015faq y\u0131x\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onun d\u0259ydiyi masan\u0131, ya d&ouml;\u015f\u0259m\u0259ni d&ouml;ym\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flayard\u0131m ki, b\u0259s balam\u0131 y\u0131x\u0131ld\u0131, onu \u0259zdi. Amma oxuduqca &ouml;yr\u0259ndim ki, bu, d&uuml;zg&uuml;n deyil. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki, u\u015faq bununla &ouml;z davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda m\u0259suliyy\u0259t da\u015f\u0131mama\u011f\u0131, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259r&nbsp; bir b&uuml;dr\u0259yi\u015find\u0259 ilk &ouml;z&uuml;nd\u0259 yox, ba\u015fqalar\u0131nda g&uuml;nah axtarma\u011f\u0131 &ouml;yr\u0259nir. H\u0259min an, d&ouml;\u015f\u0259m\u0259ni d&ouml;ym\u0259kd\u0259ns\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 \u0259zizl\u0259m\u0259li, ba\u015fqa g&uuml;nd\u0259, ba\u015fqa vaxtda da bir az ehtiyatla davranmaq haqda s&ouml;hb\u0259tl\u0259r el\u0259m\u0259liyik.<br \/>\nDig\u0259r yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131m is\u0259 qida il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dar olub. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, u\u015faq yem\u0259k ist\u0259mir, m\u0259n is\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda min hoqqadan &ccedil;\u0131xaraq onu m&uuml;tl\u0259q yedizdirm\u0259y\u0259 &ccedil;al\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131m. Bel\u0259likl\u0259 d\u0259, u\u015faq &ouml;z ist\u0259diyini yox, m\u0259nim ist\u0259diyimi el\u0259yir. Bu is\u0259 d&uuml;zg&uuml;n deyil. H\u0259tta bir &ccedil;oxlar\u0131m\u0131z s\u0131rf bu s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131 texnologiyaya da al\u0131\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r, cizgi filmi alud\u0259&ccedil;il\u0259rin\u0259 &ccedil;eviririk. Bu &ouml;z&uuml; d\u0259 normas\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n inki\u015faf\u0131na mane olur. G\u0259r\u0259k rahat olaq, acanda, xo\u015flasa, yey\u0259c\u0259k. Y\u0259ni, ist\u0259y\u0259c\u0259k yey\u0259c\u0259k, ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259s\u0259 yox.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Qon\u015funun, qohumun dediyi il\u0259 kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259m\u0259li&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r buraxd\u0131\u011f\u0131m s\u0259hvl\u0259rd\u0259n biri d\u0259 u\u015faq a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman onun ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ba\u015fqa \u015feyl\u0259rl\u0259 qataraq sakitl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 &ccedil;al\u0131\u015fmaq, a\u011flamamas\u0131na s\u0259y g&ouml;st\u0259rm\u0259k idi. Amma &ouml;yr\u0259ndim ki, \u0259g\u0259r u\u015faq a\u011flay\u0131rsa, o hans\u0131sa hissin \u0259lam\u0259tidir v\u0259 bu anda bizim g&ouml;r\u0259c\u0259yimiz i\u015f onun yan\u0131nda olmaq, onu ba\u015fa d&uuml;\u015fd&uuml;y&uuml;m&uuml;z&uuml; ona g&ouml;st\u0259rm\u0259kdir. M\u0259nim iki q\u0131z\u0131m var v\u0259 k\u0259nardan o\u011flan analar\u0131nda m&uuml;\u015fahid\u0259 etdiyim bir \u015feyi d\u0259 qeyd edim. &Ccedil;ox vaxt deyirl\u0259r ki, &ldquo;Niy\u0259 a\u011flay\u0131rsan, q\u0131zsan s\u0259n? Ki\u015fil\u0259r a\u011flamaz&rdquo; v\u0259 s. Amma, bu da &ccedil;ox yaln\u0131\u015fd\u0131r. U\u015faq hissl\u0259rini ya\u015faya bilm\u0259lidir&rdquo;.<br \/>\nM&uuml;sahibimiz bildirdi ki, o, s\u0259hvl\u0259rini oxuyub &ouml;yr\u0259ndikc\u0259 aradan qald\u0131r\u0131b. Deyir ki, bunun &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n bu g&uuml;n resurs &ccedil;oxdur, h\u0259r valideyn yararlana bil\u0259r: &ldquo;Bu g&uuml;n kitab ma\u011fazalar\u0131na girib r\u0259fl\u0259r\u0259 n\u0259z\u0259r sald\u0131qda, bizi do\u011fru y&ouml;nl\u0259ndir\u0259c\u0259k &ccedil;oxlu sayda kitablara rast g\u0259l\u0259 bilirik. T\u0259k bu da deyil, el\u0259 internetd\u0259 d\u0259 psixoloq-pedoqoqlar\u0131n m&uuml;\u0259llifliyi elektron olaraq faydalana bil\u0259c\u0259yimiz o q\u0259d\u0259r&nbsp; v\u0259saitl\u0259r var ki. M\u0259nc\u0259, h\u0259r bir valideyn qon\u015funun, qohumun dediyi il\u0259 kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259m\u0259li, n\u0259yin yanl\u0131\u015f, n\u0259yin do\u011fru oldu\u011funu m&uuml;tl\u0259q &ouml;z&uuml; oxuyub ara\u015fd\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259n &ouml;z&uuml;m d\u0259 bu m&ouml;vzuda daim oxuyur, inc\u0259likl\u0259rl\u0259 maraqlan\u0131ram ki, maarifl\u0259nib &ouml;vladlar\u0131m\u0131 ziyans\u0131z-z\u0259d\u0259siz yeti\u015fdir\u0259 bilim&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>\u015e\u0259bn\u0259m xan\u0131m deyir ki, valideyn olaraq yeri g\u0259ldiyind\u0259 &ouml;vlad\u0131ndan &uuml;zr ist\u0259yir, ondan icaz\u0259 al\u0131r: &ldquo;Bizl\u0259r &ouml;vlad\u0131m\u0131za se&ccedil;im haqq\u0131 verm\u0259li&nbsp; v\u0259 se&ccedil;iml\u0259rin\u0259 h&ouml;rm\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q. Biz onlar\u0131 ist\u0259r fiziki, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 psixoloji \u015fidd\u0259t yox, sevgi, anlay\u0131\u015f i&ccedil;ind\u0259 b&ouml;y&uuml;tm\u0259liyik. \u015eidd\u0259t an\u0131 qurtara bil\u0259r, b\u0259li, u\u015faq h\u0259min an anan\u0131n \u0259mrl\u0259rin\u0259 tabe olar, amma valideyn unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki, bu zaman da u\u015faq b&ouml;y&uuml;k travmalarla yeti\u015f\u0259r v\u0259 s\u0259h\u0259ri g&uuml;n daha da bet\u0259r bir davran\u0131\u015f s\u0259rgil\u0259y\u0259r. &Ouml;vlad\u0131m\u0131n u\u015faq oldu\u011funu unutmadan onu anlama\u011fa &ccedil;al\u0131\u015f\u0131ram&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 &ouml;z&uuml;n&uuml;n d&uuml;n\u0259ni il\u0259 m&uuml;qayis\u0259 edin<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>U\u015faq psixoloqu G&uuml;lnar\u0259 \u018fliyeva bildirdi ki, valideynl\u0259rin v\u0259 m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259rin \u0259sas s\u0259hvi u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ba\u015fqas\u0131 il\u0259 m&uuml;qayis\u0259 etm\u0259kdir. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki bu, u\u015faqda kin yaranmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur: &ldquo;Filank\u0259s bacard\u0131sa, s\u0259n d\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n&rdquo;, yaxud &ldquo;\u0130mtahandan filank\u0259s yax\u015f\u0131 qiym\u0259t al\u0131b, s\u0259n yox, niy\u0259?&rdquo;, &ldquo;S\u0259n\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey verir\u0259m, n\u0259yin &ccedil;atm\u0131r?&rdquo; kimi c&uuml;ml\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa etdikl\u0259rimizi onun ba\u015f\u0131na qaxm\u0131\u015f oluruq, ondan sanki bacarmas\u0131n\u0131 g&ouml;zl\u0259yirik. Valideynl\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259r d\u0259 d\u0259rsd\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 m&uuml;qayis\u0259 etm\u0259kl\u0259 bu yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131qlara yol verirl\u0259r. U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 &ouml;z&uuml;n&uuml;n d&uuml;n\u0259ni il\u0259 m&uuml;qayis\u0259 edin. He&ccedil; kimin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 m&uuml;qayis\u0259 etm\u0259k olmaz. Bu zaman h\u0259m valideyn\u0259, h\u0259m d\u0259 onu m&uuml;qayis\u0259 etdiyiniz u\u015fa\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 kin yaranm\u0131\u015f olur&rdquo;.<br \/>\nPsixoloq deyir ki, m\u0259kt\u0259b m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259rinin u\u015faqlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 eyni g&ouml;zl\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirm\u0259si d\u0259 do\u011fru yana\u015fma deyil: &ldquo;M&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259r ist\u0259yirl\u0259r ki, b&uuml;t&uuml;n u\u015faqlar sakit, t\u0259mkinli, s\u0259birli olsun, 45 d\u0259qiq\u0259 t\u0259rp\u0259nm\u0259d\u0259n m&uuml;\u0259llimin verdiyi komandalara riay\u0259t etsin. Amma q\u0259bul etm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, bunu h\u0259r u\u015faq bacarm\u0131r. Bu g&uuml;n 5 u\u015faqdan 3-&uuml; hiperaktivlik v\u0259 diqq\u0259t \u0259skikliyi poz\u011funlu\u011fu rahats\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 il\u0259 m&uuml;bariz\u0259 apar\u0131r. V\u0259 m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259r bunu g&ouml;rm&uuml;rl\u0259r. \u018fslind\u0259, h\u0259min u\u015faqlar\u0131n z\u0259ka s\u0259viyy\u0259si normal, h\u0259tta normadan &uuml;st&uuml;d\u0259 ola bilir. Amma onlar bir yerd\u0259 otura, d\u0259rsi diqq\u0259tl\u0259 dinl\u0259y\u0259, fikirl\u0259rini tam olaraq m&uuml;\u0259llim\u0259 y&ouml;n\u0259ld\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Buna g&ouml;r\u0259 d\u0259 onlar\u0131n m\u0259kt\u0259b m&uuml;v\u0259ff\u0259qiyy\u0259ti a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;r. Bu, ilk olaraq valideynin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131mamas\u0131ndan ir\u0259li g\u0259lir. \u0130kinci is\u0259 m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259r &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n rahat, sakit u\u015faqla i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k daha komfortludur, hiperaktiv v\u0259 diqq\u0259t \u0259skikliyi olan u\u015faqlarla i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n is\u0259 daha &ccedil;ox \u0259m\u0259k s\u0259rf etm\u0259k g\u0259r\u0259kdir. M&uuml;\u0259llim bu \u0259ziyy\u0259ti &ccedil;\u0259km\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 o u\u015faqlar\u0131 g&ouml;zard\u0131 edir. H\u0259min u\u015faqlar d\u0259rs\u0259 fikir verm\u0259y\u0259n, oxumayan, d\u0259rsi saymayan u\u015faq kimi q\u0259l\u0259m\u0259 verilir v\u0259 onlar\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yi m\u0259hv olur. &Ccedil;ox ist\u0259y\u0259rdim ki, m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259r bu c&uuml;r u\u015faqlarla davran\u0131\u015fla ba\u011fl\u0131 maarifl\u0259nsinl\u0259r. O u\u015faqlar\u0131 bir yerl\u0259r\u0259 g\u0259tirm\u0259k m&uuml;\u0259llimin&nbsp; &uuml;z\u0259rin\u0259 d&uuml;\u015f&uuml;r&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>Psixoloq qeyd etdi ki, evd\u0259 v\u0259 m\u0259kt\u0259bd\u0259 u\u015faq he&ccedil; bir \u015f\u0259rtsiz sevildiyini hiss etm\u0259lidir: &ldquo;Bel\u0259 u\u015faqlar daha m&uuml;v\u0259f\u0259qqiyy\u0259tli v\u0259 &ouml;z&uuml;n\u0259 inaml\u0131 olurlar. U\u015faqlar\u0131n s\u0259viyy\u0259l\u0259rini normal qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bunu \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 valideyn etm\u0259lidir. U\u015faqlar\u0131n s\u0259viyy\u0259sini, performas\u0131n\u0131, hans\u0131 f\u0259nn\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 beyninin daha uy\u011fun oldu\u011funu bilm\u0259lidir. Valideynl\u0259r d&uuml;nyaya m&uuml;k\u0259mm\u0259l varl\u0131qlar g\u0259tirm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r, &ouml;vladlar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259skiklikl\u0259rini g&ouml;rm\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 &ccedil;al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. B\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r &ldquo;Daha &ccedil;oxunu bacar\u0131r, amma etmir&rdquo; kimi ifad\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n &uuml;st&uuml;n\u0259 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q m\u0259suliyy\u0259t y&uuml;kl\u0259yirl\u0259r. U\u015faq da bu g&ouml;zl\u0259ntini yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 &ouml;z&uuml;n&uuml; bacar\u0131qs\u0131z, ata-anan\u0131n sevgisin\u0259 layiq ola bilm\u0259y\u0259n &ouml;vlad kimi qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirir.<br \/>\nU\u015fa\u011f\u0131n potensial\u0131n\u0131 m&ouml;vcud olandan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirm\u0259k d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 hal deyil. Bu zaman u\u015faq &ouml;z potensial\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fru \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 istifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bilmir. &Ccedil;&uuml;nki &ouml;z&uuml;n&uuml; d&uuml;zg&uuml;n qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirmir&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sevgi olmayan he&ccedil; bir i\u015fin m&uuml;sb\u0259t n\u0259tic\u0259si ola bilm\u0259z<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>T\u0259hsil &uuml;zr\u0259 psixoloq H&uuml;seyn H\u0259s\u0259nov deyir ki, m&uuml;\u0259llimin i\u015fi he&ccedil; bir d&ouml;vrd\u0259 sad\u0259c\u0259 m\u0259lumat &ouml;t&uuml;rm\u0259k olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kimi indiki d\u0259 el\u0259 deyil. H\u0259tta d&ouml;vr&uuml;m&uuml;zd\u0259 m&uuml;\u0259llimin m\u0259lumat &ouml;t&uuml;r&uuml;c&uuml; t\u0259r\u0259fin\u0259 olan ehtiyac daha da azal\u0131b. Amma \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t yetirm\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fin\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259b getdikc\u0259 daha da art\u0131r: &ldquo;Art\u0131q m\u0259lumat\u0131n al\u0131na bil\u0259c\u0259yi internet kimi bir m\u0259nb\u0259 oldu\u011fu &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n ist\u0259nil\u0259n informasiyaya oradan &ccedil;atmaq olar v\u0259 bu hardasa m&uuml;\u0259llimin &ouml;yr\u0259dici t\u0259r\u0259fini \u0259v\u0259zl\u0259y\u0259 bilir. Ancaq m&uuml;\u0259llimin, pedaqoqun bir y&ouml;n&uuml; daha var ki, ona h\u0259r d&ouml;vrd\u0259 ehtiyac olub. M\u0259lumat &ouml;t&uuml;r&uuml;c&uuml; t\u0259r\u0259fin\u0259 t\u0259rs m&uuml;t\u0259nasib olaraq m&uuml;\u0259llimin bu y&ouml;n&uuml;n\u0259 g&uuml;n&uuml;m&uuml;z etibar\u0131yla daha da &ccedil;ox ehtiyac vard\u0131r v\u0259 o da m&uuml;\u0259llimin \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t yeti\u015fdirm\u0259 y&ouml;n&uuml;d&uuml;r. M&uuml;\u0259llim bunu davaml\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 saxlamal\u0131 v\u0259 \u015fagirdl\u0259r\u0259 baxark\u0259n h\u0259r birini bir \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t kimi g&ouml;rm\u0259li, onlar\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yin \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259ti olaraq yeti\u015fdirdiyini bir an bel\u0259 unutmamal\u0131d\u0131r. D\u0259rsl\u0259rd\u0259 olan \u0259ksiklik zamanla tamamlana bils\u0259 d\u0259, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olan \u0259ksikliyin korrekt\u0259 edilm\u0259si &ccedil;ox &ccedil;\u0259tin olur, h\u0259tda b\u0259z\u0259n imkans\u0131z bel\u0259 ola bilir&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>H.H\u0259s\u0259novun s&ouml;zl\u0259rin\u0259 g&ouml;r\u0259, daha &ccedil;ox, n\u0259sil f\u0259rqi oldu\u011fu &uuml;&ccedil;&uuml;n b\u0259zi m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259rin \u0259n &ccedil;ox etdikl\u0259ri s\u0259hv aradak\u0131 n\u0259sil f\u0259rqini v\u0259 bundan do\u011fan b&uuml;t&uuml;n f\u0259rqlilikl\u0259ri q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259l\u0259ridir: &ldquo;Davaml\u0131 olaraq &ouml;z d&ouml;vrl\u0259riyl\u0259, &ouml;zl\u0259riyl\u0259, \u0259vv\u0259lki \u015fagirdl\u0259riyl\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131rmalar\u0131 h\u0259m h\u0259qiq\u0259ti q\u0259bul etm\u0259 y&ouml;n&uuml;yl\u0259 &ouml;zl\u0259rin\u0259 mane\u0259 t&ouml;r\u0259dir, h\u0259m d\u0259 \u015fagirdl\u0259rin \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259tin\u0259 toxunmu\u015f olur. Dig\u0259r bir s\u0259hv \u015fagirdl\u0259rin potensial\u0131n\u0131 k\u0259\u015ffetm\u0259y\u0259 &ccedil;al\u0131\u015fmamaqd\u0131r. Bu bir yana, potensial\u0131n\u0131, f\u0259rqli y&ouml;nl\u0259rini g&ouml;st\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 &ccedil;al\u0131\u015fan \u015fagirdl\u0259rin daha da parlaq ola bil\u0259c\u0259k qabiliyy\u0259tl\u0259rini &ouml;n\u0259ms\u0259m\u0259m\u0259l\u0259ri, h\u0259tta b\u0259z\u0259n istehzayla yana\u015fmalar\u0131 hallar\u0131 da var&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p>T\u0259hsil psixoloqu qeyd etdi ki, t\u0259rkibind\u0259 sevgi olmayan he&ccedil; bir i\u015fin m&uuml;sb\u0259t n\u0259tic\u0259si ola bilm\u0259z: &ldquo;T\u0259hsil prosesi uzun v\u0259 hardasa yorucu olan f\u0259aliyy\u0259tdir, m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259rin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131, \u015fagirdl\u0259rl\u0259 olan dialoqu bu prosesi m&uuml;\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r \u0259yl\u0259nc\u0259li, sevimli v\u0259 faydal\u0131 hala g\u0259tir\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u015eagirdl\u0259r \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259 m&uuml;\u0259llimi sevir daha sonra onun t\u0259dris etdiyi f\u0259nni. Y\u0259ni, dey\u0259 bil\u0259rik ki, m&uuml;\u0259lliml\u0259rin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u015fagirdl\u0259rin t\u0259hsil\u0259 olan mara\u011f\u0131na v\u0259 qavramas\u0131na birba\u015fa t\u0259sir edir&rdquo;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>K&ouml;n&uuml;l \u018fHM\u018fDOVA<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&ldquo;D\u0259rsl\u0259rd\u0259 olan \u0259ksiklik zamanla tamamlana bils\u0259 d\u0259, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259td\u0259 olan \u0259ksikliyin korrekt\u0259 edilm\u0259si &ccedil;ox &ccedil;\u0259tin olur&rdquo; &ldquo;S\u0259ni sevir\u0259m&rdquo;, &ldquo;G&uuml;n&uuml;n nec\u0259 ke&ccedil;di?&rdquo;, &ldquo;Z\u0259hm\u0259t olmasa&rdquo;, &ldquo;T\u0259\u015f\u0259kk&uuml;r edir\u0259m&rdquo;, &ldquo;\u018fsla vaz ke&ccedil;m\u0259&rdquo;, &ldquo;S\u0259n qalib g\u0259ldin&rdquo;,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-72803","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72803","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=72803"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/72803\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=72803"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=72803"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=72803"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}