{"id":71347,"date":"2018-11-21T20:12:02","date_gmt":"2018-11-21T16:12:02","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=71347","title":{"rendered":"Narsissizm sindromu yaradan sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu: “Öz \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini, “selfie”l\u0259rini payla\u015fd\u0131qca özün\u0259 vur\u011funluq hissi (narsissizm) daha çox olur” 
\nElnur Rüst\u0259mov: “Art\u0131q bir qisim insanlarda sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q yaran\u0131b. Onlar sanki sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259siz qala bilmirl\u0259r” <\/strong><\/p>\n

Suonsi v\u0259 Milan universitetl\u0259rinin \u0259m\u0259kda\u015flar\u0131 mü\u0259yy\u0259n edibl\u0259r ki, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q istifad\u0259 ed\u0259nl\u0259r, xüsus\u0259n müxt\u0259lif \u015f\u0259kill\u0259r v\u0259 selfi yerl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259nl\u0259r narsissizmin inki\u015faf\u0131 problemi il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131r. Ekspertl\u0259r dörd ay \u0259rzind\u0259 18-34 ya\u015f aras\u0131nda olan 74 insan\u0131n xarakterind\u0259ki d\u0259yi\u015fikliyi v\u0259 onlar\u0131n sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 tezliyini ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131blar. <\/p>\n

M\u0259lum olub ki, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n h\u0259ddind\u0259n çox istifad\u0259 bu insanlar\u0131n 25 faizinin xasiyy\u0259tind\u0259 narsissist keyfiyy\u0259tl\u0259r formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131b. Narsissizm, öz növb\u0259sind\u0259, öz hüquqlar\u0131 v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131 öz maraqlar\u0131 üçün istifad\u0259 etm\u0259kl\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 eksqibisionizm, xüsusi destruktiv etiqad probleml\u0259ri yarad\u0131r. Maraql\u0131d\u0131r ki, m\u0259nfi effektl\u0259r yaln\u0131z öz r\u0259sml\u0259rini yerl\u0259\u015fdir\u0259n istifad\u0259çil\u0259rd\u0259 rast g\u0259linir. Narsissizm sindromu gücl\u0259ndikd\u0259n sonra is\u0259 bu insanlar daha çox statuslar yerl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Bir n\u0259f\u0259r istisna olmaqla bütün könüllül\u0259r sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 istifad\u0259çil\u0259ri olub. Onlar orta hesabla 3 saat\u0131n\u0131 bu m\u0259\u015f\u011fuliyy\u0259t\u0259 s\u0259rf edibl\u0259r. B\u0259zil\u0259ri is\u0259 h\u0259r gün 8 saat\u0131n\u0131 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 keçiribl\u0259r. Onlar\u0131n üçd\u0259 ikisi bu \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n foto\u015f\u0259kil yerl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k üçün istifad\u0259 edib.<\/p>\n

Mövzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 “Üç nöqt\u0259”y\u0259 aç\u0131qlama ver\u0259n sosioloq \u018fhm\u0259d  Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu deyir ki, sosialla\u015fma insan üçün \u0259n vacib m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biridir. El\u0259 ki, insan sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r\u0259, internet\u0259 qap\u0131l\u0131r, onlar\u0131n ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 informasiyalar t\u0259bii olmur: “Bunun n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 d\u0259 insan daha çox texnika il\u0259 t\u0259masda olur. Öz \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini, “selfie”l\u0259rini payla\u015fd\u0131qca özün\u0259 vur\u011funluq hissi (narsissizm) daha çox olur. \u018fslind\u0259 bu t\u0259biidir. Çünki insan art\u0131q ba\u015fqas\u0131 il\u0259 fikir mübadil\u0259si etmir. Sanki özü-özü il\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Bir növü informasiyan\u0131 ba\u015fqa insanlardan yox, el\u0259 özünd\u0259n al\u0131r. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259 özü haqq\u0131nda get-ged\u0259 mü\u015ft\u0259beh fikirl\u0259r\u0259 dü\u015fm\u0259 hissl\u0259ri çoxal\u0131r”.<\/p>\n

\u0130nsan\u0131n günd\u0259lik qidaland\u0131\u011f\u0131 kimi, informasiya alma\u011fa da ehtiyac\u0131 oldu\u011funu dey\u0259n \u018f.Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flunun sözl\u0259rin\u0259 gör\u0259, art\u0131q sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r uzun müdd\u0259tdir h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za daxil olub v\u0259 biz bundan düzgün \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 istifad\u0259 etm\u0259yi bacarmal\u0131y\u0131q: “Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, internet resurslar\u0131n\u0131n özünü d\u0259 bura qo\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Bu el\u0259 bir vasit\u0259dir ki, a\u011f\u0131lla istifad\u0259 ed\u0259nd\u0259 faydal\u0131, \u0259ks halda is\u0259 t\u0259hlük\u0259lidir. Eyni zamanda, bir növ \u0259xlaqi, m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri yerind\u0259 olmayan adamlar da bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 k\u0259l\u0259k g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. E\u015fitdiyim\u0259 gör\u0259, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n 30 faizi sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rin hesab\u0131na ba\u015f verir. Dem\u0259li, burada da, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 düzgün istifad\u0259 olunmamaq m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si var. O biri t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n dünyada \u0259xlaqi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimizi a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131rma prosesi yay\u0131l\u0131r. Çünki \u0259xlaqi d\u0259y\u0259ri a\u015f\u0131nan ölk\u0259ni idar\u0259 etm\u0259k asand\u0131r. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259, internetd\u0259 minl\u0259rl\u0259 pornoqrafik filml\u0259r yerl\u0259\u015fdirirl\u0259r. Burda heç a\u011flag\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259n, arzuolunmayan sujetli filml\u0259r ç\u0259kilir. \u0130nternet v\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r vasit\u0259sil\u0259 ölk\u0259mizd\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r v\u0259 na\u015f\u0131 adamlar aras\u0131nda çox yay\u0131l\u0131r. V\u0259 art\u0131q bunun n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 ölk\u0259mizd\u0259 eyb\u0259c\u0259r bir hal yaran\u0131b. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r mühüm bir vasit\u0259dir. Amma sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n istifad\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tin\u0259 malik olmal\u0131y\u0131q. \u0130st\u0259r televiziyada, ist\u0259r q\u0259zetl\u0259rd\u0259, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 saytlarda \u0259hali aras\u0131nda sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tini formala\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q”.<\/p>\n

Sosioloq deyir ki, birba\u015fa olaraq ancaq sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259ri, interneti t\u0259nqid etm\u0259k d\u0259 düzgün deyil v\u0259 bunlar inki\u015faf ed\u0259r\u0259k bizim üçün çoxlu rahatl\u0131q yarad\u0131r: “Bu sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r vasit\u0259sil\u0259 dünyan\u0131n h\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 olan do\u011fmalar\u0131m\u0131zla, dostlar\u0131m\u0131zla \u0259laq\u0259 saxlay\u0131r\u0131q. \u015e\u0259h\u0259rin daxilind\u0259 bel\u0259 bizim n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r i\u015fimizi asanla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259ni öz t\u0259yinat\u0131na, bizim üçün faydal\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na gör\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259timiz\u0259, m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131m\u0131za, günd\u0259lik h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za ziyan vurmamaq \u015f\u0259rti il\u0259 istifad\u0259 ed\u0259k”.  <\/p>\n

Sosioloq onu da \u0259lav\u0259 etdi ki, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 ictimai bir yerdir. Orada ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259ri il\u0259 oynayan, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131na m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir ed\u0259n, m\u0259nfi enerji ver\u0259n, q\u0131c\u0131q yaradan \u015feyl\u0259r payla\u015fmaq düzgün: “Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259, status yayanlar sanki öz portretl\u0259rini ç\u0259kirl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq Elnur Rüst\u0259mov bildirdi ki, günümüzün mövcud probleml\u0259rind\u0259n biri sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 v\u0259 orda veril\u0259n informasiyalard\u0131r. Bu, h\u0259r insana eyni cür t\u0259sir göst\u0259rmir: “B\u0259z\u0259n görürük ki, mövcud psixoloji narahatl\u0131qlar\u0131n bir qismi m\u0259hz sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 v\u0259 orada veril\u0259n m\u0259lumatlardan qaynaqlan\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fi is\u0259 odur ki, art\u0131q bir qisim insanlarda sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q yaran\u0131b. Onlar sanki sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259siz qala bilmirl\u0259r. Gec\u0259 yatanda da sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259y\u0259 bax\u0131b yat\u0131rlar, s\u0259h\u0259r oyananda da ilk i\u015fi payla\u015fmalara n\u0259z\u0259r yetirm\u0259k olur. Günd\u0259lik olaraq n\u0259l\u0259rs\u0259 payla\u015fma\u011f\u0131 sanki özl\u0259rin\u0259 borc bilirl\u0259r.  Bu, art\u0131q bir növ as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q formas\u0131na keçib. Bu özü d\u0259 insanda mü\u0259yy\u0259n probleml\u0259r yarad\u0131r. Bunu aradan qald\u0131rmaq üçün birinci növb\u0259d\u0259 zaman\u0131n idar\u0259 edilm\u0259si m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259sini qabartmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Y\u0259ni, Q\u0259rb v\u0259 inki\u015faf etmi\u015f Avropa ölk\u0259l\u0259ri bu prosesi mü\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r keçibl\u0259r. Bu prosesl\u0259ri t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259k üçün onlar özl\u0259rin\u0259 mü\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259tl\u0259r qoyurlar. O m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259tl\u0259r daha çox kimisin\u0259 internet\u0259 ç\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131 olmayan telefon i\u015fl\u0259tm\u0259k formas\u0131nda t\u0259tbiq olunur. H\u0259min adam z\u0259rur\u0259t olanda kompüter vasit\u0259sil\u0259 internet\u0259 daxil olub sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n istifad\u0259 edir. Bir qisim is\u0259 ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 aktiv i\u015ftirak etmir, yaln\u0131z öz f\u0259aliyy\u0259tini i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131rmaq, h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir m\u0259lumat\u0131 ötürm\u0259k üçün istifad\u0259 edir”. <\/p>\n

Psixoloqun sözl\u0259rin\u0259 gör\u0259, bu gün Az\u0259rbaycanda sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 istifad\u0259çil\u0259ri çoxdur. V\u0259 burada azya\u015fl\u0131lar da var. Hans\u0131 ki, orada 14 ya\u015fdan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ya\u015f m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259ti qoyulsa da, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fda olan yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 var”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq deyir ki, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 aradan qald\u0131rmaq üçün birinci növb\u0259d\u0259 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 i\u015fi aparmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r: “Valideynl\u0259r bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259d\u0259 xüsusil\u0259 diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u0130kinci növb\u0259d\u0259 o valideynl\u0259rdin özl\u0259ri bel\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259dirl\u0259rs\u0259, özl\u0259rin\u0259 m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259t qoysunlar. Özl\u0259rin\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n istifad\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 vaxt qoysunlar v\u0259 o vaxtdan sonra ordan uzaqla\u015fs\u0131nlar. Çünki, bunlar f\u0259rdi inki\u015fafda zaman o\u011frular\u0131 adlan\u0131rlar. Y\u0259ni sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r daha çox insanlar\u0131n zaman\u0131n\u0131 o\u011furlayan, vaxt\u0131n\u0131 aparan bir \u015feyl\u0259rdir. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 insan vaxt\u0131n\u0131n sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r\u0259, m\u0259hsuldar olmayan i\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 getdiyini hiss ed\u0259nd\u0259 aqressiv v\u0259 \u0259s\u0259bi olur. Bu aqressivlik özün\u0259 v\u0259 \u0259trafa münasib\u0259t\u0259 d\u0259 yans\u0131y\u0131r. Yaxud, dig\u0259r bir \u015feyi götür\u0259k, ail\u0259daxili konfliktl\u0259ri, bo\u015fanmalar. Onun bir s\u0259b\u0259bi sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 dayan\u0131r. V\u0259 onun üz\u0259rind\u0259n yaranan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n görürük ki, bo\u015fanmalar olur. Bütün hallarda zaman\u0131n idar\u0259 edilm\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 insanlar maarifl\u0259nm\u0259li, zaman\u0131n\u0131 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 keçirm\u0259m\u0259li, \u0259g\u0259r keçirs\u0259l\u0259r bel\u0259 m\u0259hsuldar, faydal\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rind\u0259n yararlans\u0131nlar. H\u0259m özl\u0259rin\u0259 faydal\u0131 olsun, h\u0259m d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259”.<\/p>\n

E.Rüst\u0259mov vur\u011fulad\u0131 ki, ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir payla\u015f\u0131m ed\u0259rk\u0259n, informasiya ötürül\u0259rk\u0259n psixi sa\u011flaml\u0131q mütl\u0259q qorunmal\u0131d\u0131r: “\u0130nsan, onun payla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131na kiml\u0259rin, hans\u0131 ya\u015f qrupunda olan insanlar\u0131n baxaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 ötürdüyü mesaj\u0131n onlara nec\u0259 t\u0259sir ed\u0259c\u0259yini dü\u015fünm\u0259lidir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 bu, bir q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259, niyy\u0259t\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 prosesdir. Pozitiv \u015feyl\u0259ri, insanlar\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011fa, göz\u0259l \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 sövq ed\u0259n \u015feyl\u0259ri payla\u015fma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u0130nternetd\u0259 bel\u0259 m\u0259lumatlar çoxdur. B\u0259z\u0259n neqativ payla\u015fmalar\u0131 da görürük. Bu da insanlar\u0131n m\u0259nfi emosiyalar, insan\u0131n insandan uzaqla\u015fmas\u0131, aqressiyan\u0131n artmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib ç\u0131xar\u0131r”.<\/p>\n

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