{"id":70775,"date":"2018-11-07T21:18:24","date_gmt":"2018-11-07T17:18:24","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=70775","title":{"rendered":"\u201c\u018frinin x\u0259yan\u0259tini ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamamaq xan\u0131m\u0131n z\u0259ifliyidir\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

Az\u0259rbaycanda g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131\u011f\u0131 bildirilir. Lakin  haz\u0131rda \u0259n diqq\u0259t ç\u0259k\u0259n  ba\u015fqa m\u0259qam var, g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r deyil, ill\u0259rdir bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fayan ya\u015fl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259r bo\u015fan\u0131r. V\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t  g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 bo\u015fanmalar\u0131 keçir. Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu istiqam\u0259td\u0259 ara\u015fd\u0131rma aparan psixoloq-psixoterapevt Xanim Nift\u0259liyeva problemin kökü v\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Modern.az sayt\u0131na müsahib\u0259 verib. Onunla söhb\u0259ti t\u0259qdim edirik.<\/em><\/p>\n

– G\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r hardasa ba\u015fa dü\u015fül\u0259ndir. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r, ç\u0131l\u011f\u0131nl\u0131q, x\u0259yan\u0259t v\u0259 s. B\u0259s uzun ömürlü ail\u0259l\u0259r niy\u0259 ayr\u0131l\u0131r? Bunun kökünd\u0259 n\u0259 durur?<\/strong>
\n– Bo\u015fanmalr\u0131n say\u0131 bütün dünya üzr\u0259, o cüml\u0259d\u0259n Az\u0259rbaycanda da norman\u0131 keçib. Bu,bir  SOS siqnald\u0131r. Bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq üçün  mütl\u0259q t\u0259dbir görülm\u0259lidir.  Biz \u018fdliyy\u0259 Nazirliyinin t\u0259\u015fkil etdiyi pilot layih\u0259sin\u0259, ASAN xidm\u0259t m\u0259rk\u0259zl\u0259rind\u0259 psixoloq kimi f\u0259aliyy\u0259t göst\u0259ririrk. Nikaha son qoymaq üçün  biz\u0259 müraci\u0259t ed\u0259n \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rl\u0259 görü\u015füb, söhb\u0259t edirik.  \u018fg\u0259r ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259-qad\u0131n v\u0259 ya ki\u015fid\u0259 psixoloji travma varsa, bunu aradan qald\u0131r\u0131b, onlar\u0131n bar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 üçün yard\u0131m edirik. Yeni qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda  ba\u015f ver\u0259n bo\u015fanmalara “ail\u0259 krizl\u0259ri” deyirik. Bu krizl\u0259ri hardasa ba\u015fa dü\u015fm\u0259k olur. Amma günümüzd\u0259 \u0259n böyük faci\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n biri budur ki, bo\u015fanma üçün müraci\u0259t ed\u0259n 5 ail\u0259d\u0259n 4-ü uzun ill\u0259r ail\u0259ni qoruyub evliliyi 30-35 il\u0259 çatd\u0131ran insanlard\u0131r.  Siz\u0259 konkret bir misal ç\u0259kim. Keç\u0259n h\u0259ft\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259diyim 5 ail\u0259d\u0259n 4-ü ill\u0259rdir nikahda olan insanlar idi.  R\u0259q\u0259ml\u0259r\u0259 diqq\u0259t edin, bir insan ömrün\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r r\u0259q\u0259ml\u0259rdir. 25, 28, 30, 32 ildir ki, bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131blar.  Onu da deyim ki, son 3-4 ayd\u0131r ki, bel\u0259 hallarla  daha tez-tez qar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131ram. Yeni qurulan ail\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 qeyd etdiyim kimi  kriz-y\u0259ni böhran  dövrü var. H\u0259min vaxt müraci\u0259t etdikd\u0259 biz  müt\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r  onlarla i\u015fl\u0259yirik v\u0259 krizd\u0259n ç\u0131xar\u0131r\u0131q, bel\u0259likl\u0259 onlar  yenid\u0259n evlilik h\u0259yat\u0131na davam etm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rlar. Son zamanlar mü\u015fahid\u0259 edir\u0259m ki, ill\u0259rin ç\u0259tinliyin\u0259 döz\u0259nl\u0259r bu gün bo\u015fan\u0131r. S\u0259b\u0259b kimi d\u0259 deyilir ki, yola getmirik, anla\u015fa bilmirik.<\/p>\n

– Bu nec\u0259 olur?  \u0130ll\u0259rdir yola gedirl\u0259r, ac\u0131n\u0131, \u015firini  birg\u0259 dad\u0131rlar, h\u0259tta n\u0259n\u0259- baba olduqdan sonra bir-birl\u0259rini anlaya bilm\u0259dikl\u0259rini dil\u0259 g\u0259tirirl\u0259r.<\/strong>
\n– G\u0259ncl\u0259r maddi durumu, x\u0259yan\u0259ti s\u0259b\u0259b kimi göst\u0259rir. Bu ya\u015fl\u0131lar is\u0259 ill\u0259rdir öz ayaqlar\u0131 üz\u0259rind\u0259 dayan\u0131b, bütün ç\u0259tinlikl\u0259ri a\u015f\u0131blar, övladlar\u0131na t\u0259hsil veribl\u0259r, evl\u0259ndiribl\u0259r. S\u0259b\u0259bi soru\u015fanda b\u0259yin, yaxud qad\u0131n\u0131n sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n, telefondan, televiziordan çox istifad\u0259 etdiyini deyirl\u0259r. Burada çox zaman ittiham olunan t\u0259r\u0259f b\u0259yl\u0259r olur. Onlar özl\u0259ri d\u0259 bunu etiraf edir. \u0130nan\u0131n, i\u015fl\u0259diyimiz ail\u0259l\u0259rin problemini ara\u015fd\u0131randa onlar\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 gör\u0259 bo\u015fand\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131n \u015fahidi oluruq.  Bu zaman ortaya sual ç\u0131x\u0131r. Bu insan \u0259vv\u0259l x\u0259yan\u0259t etmirdi,  indi ortaya ç\u0131xd\u0131? Xeyr. Qad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z c\u0259fake\u015fdir, z\u0259hm\u0259tke\u015fdir. Ba\u015flar\u0131 övladlar\u0131n\u0131 böyütm\u0259y\u0259, evin s\u0131x\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259ll etm\u0259y\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 özl\u0259rin\u0259 baxm\u0131rlar. O cüml\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259, h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 diqq\u0259td\u0259n k\u0259narda qoyurlar.<\/p>\n

Bel\u0259 olanda is\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r ba\u015fqa liman axtar\u0131r. Xan\u0131m övladlar\u0131n\u0131 böyüdür, evl\u0259ndirir. Evi il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 bütün i\u015fl\u0259ri qaydas\u0131na qoyur v\u0259 bax\u0131r ki, ömür gedir, h\u0259yatda ist\u0259diyi çox \u015fey\u0259 nail olub. Övladlar\u0131 xo\u015fb\u0259xtdir, özü is\u0259 m\u0259n\u0259vi olaraq h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 itirib, o ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131ndad\u0131r.
\nBu zaman xan\u0131m bunu q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilmir. \u0130ll\u0259rdir c\u0259fa ç\u0259k\u0259n, \u0259zab ç\u0259k\u0259n, yolda\u015f\u0131na sevginin z\u0259rr\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r azalmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dey\u0259n qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259ti q\u0259bul etmir. Övlad dünyaya g\u0259ldikd\u0259n sonra qad\u0131nlar h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 2ci, 3-cü plana at\u0131r. Övlad dünyaya g\u0259tirdikd\u0259n sonra onlara bir rahatl\u0131q g\u0259lir ki, art\u0131q h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m heç yer\u0259 ged\u0259 bilm\u0259z, m\u0259ni ata bilm\u0259z. Xan\u0131mlar ilk növb\u0259d\u0259 bütün sevgi, diqq\u0259t v\u0259 qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131  h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na verm\u0259lidirl\u0259r. Çünki onlar\u0131n h\u0259r an bir qad\u0131n t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n diqq\u0259t\u0259, qay\u011f\u0131ya, n\u0259vazi\u015f\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 var. Çünki onlar\u0131 bir qad\u0131n dünyaya g\u0259tirib, naz\u0131n\u0131 ç\u0259kib, qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qal\u0131b. Ail\u0259 qurduqdan sonra h\u0259r bir b\u0259y evl\u0259ndiyi qad\u0131n\u0131 anas\u0131n\u0131n yerin\u0259 qoyur. Anas\u0131 v\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n etdiyini özü d\u0259 bilm\u0259d\u0259n \u015füuralt\u0131 hesablay\u0131r. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n diqq\u0259tinin az oldu\u011funu gördükd\u0259 ba\u015fqas\u0131na meyl edir.<\/p>\n

Bir m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259tim var, ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 gör\u0259 heç bir qad\u0131n z\u0259if olmas\u0131n, üçüncü t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 \u015fans verm\u0259sin. Öz h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na sahib ç\u0131xs\u0131nlar, heç vaxt heç n\u0259 gec deyil. Sevgi, qay\u011f\u0131, diqq\u0259tl\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 geri qaytarma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015fs\u0131nlar. Bo\u015fanmaq çar\u0259 deyil, ilk növb\u0259d\u0259 üçüncü \u015f\u0259xs\u0259 \u015fans verm\u0259kdir. \u018fksin\u0259 güclü olub h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na sahib ç\u0131xamaq laz\u0131md\u0131r.  M\u0259h\u0259mm\u0259d pey\u011f\u0259mb\u0259r “c\u0259nn\u0259t analar\u0131n ayaqlar\u0131 alt\u0131ndad\u0131r” deyib. M\u0259n xan\u0131mlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 çiç\u0259y\u0259, q\u0131z\u0131lgül l\u0259ç\u0259yin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259dir\u0259m. H\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 çal\u0131\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, o göz\u0259lliyi, t\u0259rav\u0259ti qorusunlar. H\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l xan\u0131m özün\u0259 baxmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bel\u0259 olduqda h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131 onu qoyub ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131na getm\u0259z.<\/p>\n

– X\u0259yan\u0259t n\u0259dir? Kimis\u0259 sevm\u0259k v\u0259 buna gör\u0259 ail\u0259ni t\u0259rk etm\u0259k x\u0259yan\u0259tdir?<\/strong>
\n – Bu söz insana a\u011f\u0131r g\u0259ls\u0259 d\u0259, unutmayaq ki, hiss h\u0259m d\u0259 bir \u015f\u0259hv\u0259t, heyvani, fiziki hissdir.  Bu, ruhi olarsa, ora sevgi, ist\u0259k, xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik daxil olar v\u0259 uzun müdd\u0259t davam ed\u0259r.  Biz\u0259 bo\u015fanma il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 müraci\u0259t ed\u0259n qad\u0131nlar sual verirl\u0259r ki, x\u0259yan\u0259ti ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamaq olarm\u0131? \u018flb\u0259tt\u0259 olar.<\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r bu fiziki, hans\u0131sa bir t\u0259l\u0259bat\u0131 öd\u0259m\u0259k üçündürs\u0259, niy\u0259 d\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanmas\u0131n? \u018frinin x\u0259yan\u0259tini ba\u011f\u0131\u015flamamaq xan\u0131m\u0131n z\u0259ifliyidir. Sev\u0259n insan sevdiyini bütün qüsurlar\u0131 il\u0259 q\u0259bul edir. Yax\u015f\u0131 günd\u0259, pis günd\u0259 b\u0259rab\u0259r olmaq ist\u0259yiriks\u0259, dü\u015fün\u0259k ki, tamah\u0131 güc g\u0259lib x\u0259yan\u0259t edib. Dü\u015fün\u0259k ki, bu, bir x\u0259st\u0259likdir. Bir övlad dünyaya x\u0259st\u0259 g\u0259ldikd\u0259 onu atm\u0131r\u0131q, \u0259ksin\u0259 daha çox qay\u011f\u0131 göst\u0259rir, sevgimizl\u0259 qoruyuruq. X\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n haqq\u0131nda da bel\u0259 dü\u015fün\u0259k, daha çox qay\u011f\u0131 göst\u0259r\u0259k, ona. Onu bu x\u0259st\u0259likd\u0259n qurtarma\u011f\u0131n yolu bo\u015fanmaq deyil. Burada diqq\u0259timi ç\u0259k\u0259n bir m\u0259qam da var. Niy\u0259 müdrikliy\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259m qoyduqda ki\u015fil\u0259r x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 daha çox meyilli olur? Ki\u015fil\u0259r ya\u015fa dolduqca onlarda g\u0259nclik, yeniyetm\u0259lik dövründ\u0259ki kimi cins\u0259l ist\u0259kl\u0259r çoxalma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. Onlar dü\u015fünür ki, h\u0259yatlar\u0131nda n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r çox qad\u0131n olsa, o q\u0259d\u0259r çox qazanarlar. O s\u0259b\u0259bd\u0259n d\u0259 meyillilikl\u0259ri art\u0131r. Qad\u0131nlar güclü olsun, h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na sahib ç\u0131xs\u0131n. Özl\u0259rini sevm\u0259yi, diqq\u0259t etm\u0259yi bacars\u0131nlar. Qad\u0131nlar özl\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r versinl\u0259r v\u0259 göz\u0259llikl\u0259rini qorusunlar.<\/p>\n

– Dem\u0259k hissl\u0259rin, sevginin ya\u015fa d\u0259xli yoxdur? H\u0259r zaman h\u0259r k\u0259sin qap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 döy\u0259 bil\u0259r?<\/strong>
\n– B\u0259z\u0259n deyirl\u0259r ki, filank\u0259s ikinci bahar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015fay\u0131r. Ola bil\u0259r ki, bu sözü vaxt\u0131 il\u0259 ail\u0259si t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n m\u0259cbur evl\u0259ndiril\u0259nl\u0259r deyir. G\u0259nclik ya\u015f\u0131nda bir \u015f\u0259xs ail\u0259nin seçdiyi bir q\u0131zla evl\u0259nir. \u0130lk vaxtlar sevdiyini dü\u015fünür. Amma görür ki, h\u0259r \u015fey ideal deyil. Müsb\u0259tl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, m\u0259nfi t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rimiz d\u0259 var v\u0259 qad\u0131n bunlar\u0131 çox mü\u0259yy\u0259n ed\u0259 bilmir. Çünki m\u0259i\u015f\u0259t qay\u011f\u0131lar\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 qat\u0131r. B\u0259yl\u0259r is\u0259 xan\u0131m\u0131n kiçik qüsurunu böyük görür.
\nÇünki sevm\u0259d\u0259n ail\u0259 qurur v\u0259 bunu q\u0259bul ed\u0259 bilmir. Zaman keçdikc\u0259, 40 ya\u015fdan sonra ikinci bahar\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yir, sevm\u0259k, sevilm\u0259k ist\u0259yir. Bunun  tam bioloji, fizioloji, yoxsa psixoloji oldu\u011fu mü\u0259yy\u0259n edilm\u0259yib.  Amma m\u0259n bunun psixoloji oldu\u011funu dü\u015fünür\u0259m. D\u0259d\u0259-babalar\u0131m\u0131zdan g\u0259l\u0259n bu söz \u015füuralt\u0131m\u0131za bu cür oturub. Ah\u0131ll\u0131\u011fa do\u011fru getdiyini görür v\u0259 g\u0259nclik ill\u0259rind\u0259 tam ya\u015faya bilm\u0259diyi duy\u011fular\u0131 doya-doya ya\u015famaq ist\u0259yir. Yeni enerji il\u0259 sevgiy\u0259, qay\u011f\u0131ya ehtiyac duyurlar. El\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259rin d\u0259 \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti yen\u0259 buradan qaynaqlan\u0131r. Qad\u0131n onu anlam\u0131r, ba\u015fa dü\u015fmürs\u0259 ba\u015fqa biri il\u0259 münasib\u0259t qurur. Çox d\u0259y\u0259r verdiyim bir mü\u0259llimim Vaqif \u018fbdülhüseynov h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 deyirdi ki, qad\u0131nlar ömürünün sonuna kimi bir ki\u015fini sev\u0259r\u0259k ya\u015faya bilir, amma ki\u015fil\u0259r bir qad\u0131nla heç vaxt kifay\u0259tl\u0259n\u0259 bilmir. Çünki onlar m\u0259n\u0259vi, ruhi olaraq acd\u0131rlar.
\nBiz h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zdak\u0131 insan\u0131 görm\u0259k ist\u0259diyimiz kimi görm\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. Amma unutmayaq ki, h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131z Allah\u0131n biz\u0259 bir mesaj\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Biz onlarla küs\u0259nd\u0259, stress ya\u015fadanda sanki bunlar\u0131 Allaha edirik. Bu Allah\u0131n biz\u0259 fürs\u0259ti, s\u0131na\u011f\u0131d\u0131r. Onu yox, özümüzü d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q.
\nBir insanda n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r qüsur axtarsan, o q\u0259d\u0259r probleml\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015farsan. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259 çal\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q ki, ail\u0259 münasib\u0259tl\u0259rind\u0259 az qüsur axtaraq. N\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r az qüsur, o q\u0259d\u0259r çox xo\u015fb\u0259xtlik g\u0259tir\u0259r. Buna üstünlük vers\u0259k, ail\u0259 probleml\u0259rimiz o q\u0259d\u0259r tez h\u0259ll olunar. Birind\u0259 axtard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z qüsur öz \u015füuralt\u0131m\u0131zda, özümüzd\u0259 daha çox oldu\u011fu üz\u0259 ç\u0131x\u0131r. Bir ki\u015fi, yaxud qad\u0131n öz h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131nda bir problem axtar\u0131rsa, bu, psixoloji amildir. O dem\u0259kdir ki,  onun \u015füuralt\u0131nda daha d\u0259rin problem var. Nec\u0259 ki,  biz yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n qay\u011f\u0131s\u0131na qal\u0131r, yem\u0259k verir, paltarlar\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259miz edirik, onun m\u0259n\u0259vi \u0259ziyy\u0259tl\u0259rini ç\u0259kirik , amma bir \u015feyi unuduruq ki,  ruhunu doyurtmuruq. Ruhu ac olduqda insan\u0131n fikri ba\u015fqa yerd\u0259 olur. Ruhu tox insan sevdiyi qad\u0131na da, ail\u0259sin\u0259, dostuna da sadiq olur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Az\u0259rbaycanda g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r aras\u0131nda bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n art\u0131\u011f\u0131 bildirilir. Lakin  haz\u0131rda \u0259n diqq\u0259t ç\u0259k\u0259n  ba\u015fqa m\u0259qam var, g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r deyil, ill\u0259rdir bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fayan ya\u015fl\u0131 ail\u0259l\u0259r bo\u015fan\u0131r. V\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t  g\u0259nc ail\u0259l\u0259r…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-70775","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70775","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=70775"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70775\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=70775"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=70775"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=70775"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}