{"id":54193,"date":"2017-12-07T18:36:37","date_gmt":"2017-12-07T14:36:37","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=54193","title":{"rendered":"\u201cG\u0259nc q\u0131zlar\u0131n \u00e7oxu evl\u0259nib \u00f6lk\u0259d\u0259n getm\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn can at\u0131rlar\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lal\u0259 Mehral\u0131: “Q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u0259cn\u0259bil\u0259rl\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 maraql\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131n bir s\u0259b\u0259bi d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rimizin qad\u0131nlar\u0131na qoydu\u011fu qada\u011falard\u0131r”
\nOrxan Oruc: “B\u0259zi xan\u0131mlar h\u0259yat\u0131n türk filml\u0259rind\u0259ki kimi göz\u0259l v\u0259 romantik oldu\u011funu dü\u015fünürl\u0259r”<\/strong><\/p>\n

\n2016-c\u0131 ild\u0259 \u0259cn\u0259bil\u0259rl\u0259 ail\u0259 quran Türkiy\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n statistikas\u0131ndan m\u0259lum olur ki, Türkiy\u0259y\u0259 g\u0259lin köç\u0259n qad\u0131nlar\u0131n say\u0131na gör\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan üçüncü yerd\u0259dir. \u018fcn\u0259bi g\u0259linl\u0259rin çoxu suriyal\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259kc\u0259 2016-c\u0131 il \u0259rzind\u0259 türk ki\u015fil\u0259r 6 min 495 suriyal\u0131 qad\u0131nla ail\u0259 qurublar. \u0130kinci yerd\u0259 2 min 644 g\u0259linl\u0259 Almaniya, üçüncü yerd\u0259 is\u0259 2 min 170 g\u0259linl\u0259 Az\u0259rbaycan g\u0259lir. 
\nÜmumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, öt\u0259n il suriyal\u0131larla ail\u0259 quran türk v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131 7 min n\u0259f\u0259ri keçib. Bu r\u0259q\u0259min böyüklüyü is\u0259 Suriyada ged\u0259n müharib\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n Türkiy\u0259y\u0259 s\u0131\u011f\u0131nan 4 milyona yax\u0131n suriyal\u0131 qaçq\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131 il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dard\u0131r. 
\n2016-c\u0131 ild\u0259 Türkiy\u0259y\u0259 xaricd\u0259n 22 min 583 g\u0259lin g\u0259tirilib. \u018fcn\u0259bil\u0259rl\u0259 evl\u0259n\u0259n türk qad\u0131nlar\u0131n say\u0131 is\u0259 bundan xeyli az – 3 min 777 n\u0259f\u0259r t\u0259\u015fkil edib. Bu r\u0259smi m\u0259lumatda bizi maraqland\u0131ran türkl\u0259rl\u0259 ail\u0259 quran az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qad\u0131nlard\u0131. Onlar\u0131n h\u0259r il say\u0131 art\u0131r.  Ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, xarici ölk\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131ar\u0131 il\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmaq ist\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nlar az deyil. 
\nMövzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 “Üç nöqt\u0259”y\u0259 aç\u0131qlama ver\u0259n jurnalist-sosioloq Lal\u0259 Mehral\u0131 bildirdi ki, g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti evl\u0259nib ölk\u0259d\u0259n getm\u0259k üçün can at\u0131rlar. S\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri is\u0259 müxt\u0259lifdir: “Kimisin\u0259 gör\u0259 xaricd\u0259  pul qazanmaq asand\u0131r, imtiyazlar rahatl\u0131qla \u0259ld\u0259 edilir. Ax\u0131 uzaqdan döyü\u015f asan g\u0259lir… Bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 el\u0259 fikir formala\u015fd\u0131r\u0131blar ki, bizim ölk\u0259d\u0259n ba\u015fqa h\u0259r yerd\u0259 maddi v\u0259ziyy\u0259t \u0259lad\u0131r. \u0130nsanlar rifah içind\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131r, 8-10 min dollar maa\u015f al\u0131r, ham\u0131 öz \u015f\u0259xsi evind\u0259 oturur, bir ail\u0259d\u0259 ham\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsi avtomobili olur v\u0259 s. Bunlar uzun ill\u0259r özünü oda, köz\u0259 vurub durmadan-dayanmadan i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n insanlar üçün \u0259lçatan ola bil\u0259r, amma \u0259cn\u0259bi il\u0259 evl\u0259n\u0259n kimi ham\u0131 milyonçu olsayd\u0131, onda ölk\u0259d\u0259 q\u0131z qalmazd\u0131, ham\u0131s\u0131 xaric\u0259 qaçard\u0131”. <\/p>\n

L.Mehral\u0131 deyir ki, m\u0259nc\u0259 q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u0259cn\u0259bil\u0259rl\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 maraql\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131n bir s\u0259b\u0259bi d\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r: “Y\u0259ni, aç\u0131q des\u0259m, bir s\u0259b\u0259b d\u0259 bizim ki\u015fil\u0259rimizin qad\u0131nlar\u0131na qoydu\u011fu qada\u011falard\u0131r. Tutaq ki, dar geyim\u0259 icaz\u0259 vermir, ç\u0131x q\u0131sa \u0259t\u0259k olmaz deyir, boyal\u0131 dodaq görm\u0259k ist\u0259mir, sarald\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, q\u0131zard\u0131lm\u0131\u015f saçlardan xo\u015flanm\u0131r v\u0259 öz xan\u0131m\u0131na bu qada\u011falar\u0131 qoyur. B\u0259zi xan\u0131mlar buna \u0259m\u0259l edir, b\u0259zisi is\u0259 üsyan… Qohum-qon\u015fusunda, tan\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bu cür qada\u011fa il\u0259 üzl\u0259\u015f\u0259n qad\u0131nlar\u0131n naraz\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 gör\u0259n, e\u015fid\u0259n g\u0259nc q\u0131zlar da "\u0259cn\u0259bil\u0259rd\u0259 bel\u0259 kompleks yoxdur” dey\u0259 evlilik üçün onlar\u0131 ideal hesab edir”. <\/p>\n

Jurnalist-sosioloq qeyd etdi ki, yax\u0131nlar\u0131, tan\u0131d\u0131qlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda  \u0259cn\u0259bi il\u0259 ail\u0259 quranlar var: “Çox möhk\u0259m ail\u0259si olub xo\u015fb\u0259xt olan da var, ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fmay\u0131b ayr\u0131lan da… Ayr\u0131landa övlad\u0131ndan uzaq dü\u015f\u0259nl\u0259r d\u0259 çoxdur. Çünki \u0259cn\u0259biy\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 gedib onun ölk\u0259sind\u0259, onun qanunlar\u0131na uy\u011fun ya\u015famaqla bunu el\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n göz\u0259 alm\u0131\u015f olurlar. O ölk\u0259d\u0259 do\u011fulan u\u015faq oran\u0131n v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131 olur v\u0259 ail\u0259 da\u011f\u0131landa qanun onu öz ölk\u0259sinin v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131 olan ataya verir. 5 barma\u011f\u0131n 5-i d\u0259 bir olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 kimi Az\u0259rbaycan ki\u015fil\u0259rinin d\u0259 ham\u0131s\u0131 eyni deyil. Q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z seçimi dügün ets\u0259, g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259k h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259m a\u011fl\u0131na, h\u0259m m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131na gör\u0259 seçs\u0259 ail\u0259si d\u0259 möhk\u0259m olacaq”.<\/p>\n

\nSosioloq \u018fhm\u0259d Mansurov bildirir ki, \u0259cn\u0259bil\u0259rl\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurmaq qlobal problem kimi qar\u015f\u0131lanmamal\u0131d\u0131r: "Xaric\u0259 oxuma\u011fa, çal\u0131\u015fma\u011fa ged\u0259n az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131lar az deyil. Onlar getdikl\u0259ri ölk\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 müdd\u0259td\u0259 insanlarla tan\u0131\u015f olur, onlar\u0131n davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na, ad\u0259t-\u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Sevirl\u0259r, kims\u0259 xo\u015flar\u0131na g\u0259lir v\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurma\u011fa q\u0259rar verirl\u0259r. Burada heç bir problem yoxdur. H\u0259r bir insan\u0131n haqq\u0131d\u0131r ki, ist\u0259diyi, seçdiyi insanla ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qursun".
\nMansurov h\u0259mçinin qeyd edir ki, \u0259cn\u0259bi ki\u015fil\u0259r az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qad\u0131nlara çox maraql\u0131 olur. Çünki az\u0259rbaycanl\u0131 qad\u0131nlar ail\u0259 q\u0259dri bil\u0259n, s\u0259mimi olurlar: "H\u0259r bir ölk\u0259nin ki\u015fil\u0259rinin \u0259cn\u0259bi qad\u0131nlara mara\u011f\u0131 olur. Onlar tan\u0131d\u0131qlar\u0131 \u0259cn\u0259bi qad\u0131nlar\u0131 öz mill\u0259tinin qad\u0131nlar\u0131 il\u0259 müqayis\u0259 edirl\u0259r. T\u0259bii ki, son olaraq ür\u0259kl\u0259ri ist\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nla ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qururlar. Az\u0259rbaycan qad\u0131n\u0131 da sevgi dolu olur. Ona bir q\u0259d\u0259r n\u0259vazi\u015f, bir q\u0259d\u0259r diqq\u0259t göst\u0259rdins\u0259, ömür boyu qullu\u011funda durur. Ki\u015fil\u0259r d\u0259 bunu sevir".
\nMüsahibimiz bildirir ki, \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r Az\u0259rbaycan ki\u015fisi \u0259cn\u0259bi qad\u0131nlara üstünlük verm\u0259zdi. Amma zaman keçdikc\u0259, ki\u015fil\u0259r aras\u0131nda da \u0259cn\u0259bi qad\u0131nlarla ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 quranlar\u0131n say\u0131 artma\u011fa ba\u015flad\u0131: "Bu bir seçimdir, kims\u0259 qar\u0131\u015fa bilm\u0259z".
\nSosioloq h\u0259mçinin qeyd edir ki, \u0259cn\u0259bi il\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 quran q\u0131zlarn aldanma ehtimal\u0131 da böyük olur: "B\u0259z\u0259n o\u011flan\u0131 yax\u0131ndan tan\u0131madan, bilm\u0259d\u0259n ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa q\u0259rar verirl\u0259r. Getdikl\u0259ri ölk\u0259d\u0259 n\u0259 il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015facaqlar\u0131ndan x\u0259b\u0259rsiz ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 quran q\u0131zlar insan alveri qurban\u0131na da çevril\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. Buna gör\u0259 d\u0259 ehtiyyatl\u0131 olmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r".
\nMüt\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r\u0259 gör\u0259, q\u0131zlar daha çox 30 ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra \u0259cn\u0259bi il\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurma\u011fa üstünlük verir. Bunun da s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259ri var.
\nPsixoloq Fidan \u018fliyevan\u0131n sözl\u0259rin\u0259 gör\u0259, n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0259rib\u0259 olsa da, Az\u0259rbaycanda q\u0131z\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131 bir az çoxdursa, onunla ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurmaq ist\u0259y\u0259nl\u0259rin say\u0131 çox az olur: "Mü\u0259yy\u0259n ya\u015fa q\u0259d\u0259r ona elçi dü\u015f\u0259nl\u0259ri b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n b\u0259zi q\u0131zlar, mü\u0259yy\u0259n ya\u015fdan sonra m\u0259cbur qal\u0131b \u0259cn\u0259bi il\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qururlar. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, türk ki\u015fil\u0259ri qad\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131na deyil, bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131na, sevgisin\u0259 üstünlük verirl\u0259r. Bir q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 romantik olduqlar\u0131 üçün Az\u0259rbaycan q\u0131zlar\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n seçilirl\u0259r".
\nPsixoloqun sözl\u0259rin\u0259 gör\u0259, b\u0259zi q\u0131zlar h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131n mü\u0259yy\u0259n hiss\u0259sini karyera qurma\u011fa s\u0259rf edir, ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurma\u011fa gecikirl\u0259r. Bu q\u0131zlar üçün d\u0259 \u0259cn\u0259bil\u0259r ideal seçim olur.
\n"Ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, q\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u0259cn\u0259bi il\u0259 ail\u0259 qurmas\u0131nda ki\u015fil\u0259rin d\u0259 bir az günah\u0131 ar. Ki\u015fil\u0259rimiz bir az mehriban, ba\u015fadü\u015f\u0259n olsalar, heç bir q\u0131z öz ist\u0259yi il\u0259 \u0259cn\u0259bi \u0259r seçm\u0259z" — dey\u0259 psixoloq \u0259lav\u0259 edir.<\/p>\n

\nPsixoloq Orxan Oruc bildirdi ki, insanlar s\u0259rb\u0259st \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ya\u015fama\u011fa meyil edir v\u0259 xaricd\u0259 bu s\u0259rb\u0259stliyi hiss ed\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259rini dü\u015fünürl\u0259r: “\u0130nsan ad\u0259t\u0259n öz \u015f\u0259xsi problem, kompleks v\u0259 ç\u0259tinlikl\u0259rinin kökünd\u0259 özünd\u0259n  çox \u0259traf\u0131n\u0131 q\u0131nama\u011fa meyillidir. El\u0259 \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n biri c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 olan bu probleml\u0259rd\u0259n qaçmaq üçün ola bil\u0259r. Dig\u0259r s\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 günd\u0259lik h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131zda olan türk seriallar\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Haz\u0131rda Az\u0259rbaycan c\u0259miyy\u0259ti üçün \u0259n çox izl\u0259nil\u0259n v\u0259 bax\u0131lan kanallar türk seriallar\u0131 yay\u0131mlanan kanallard\u0131r. Bunun t\u0259sirini vur\u011fulamamaq mümkün deyil. Çünki b\u0259zi xan\u0131mlar h\u0259yat\u0131n türk filml\u0259rind\u0259ki kimi göz\u0259l v\u0259 romantik oldu\u011funu dü\u015fünürl\u0259r. \u0130ndiki dövrd\u0259 art\u0131q \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259k, evl\u0259nm\u0259k ya\u015f\u0131na çatm\u0131\u015f g\u0259nc xan\u0131mlar \u015füuralt\u0131 olaraq neç\u0259 ill\u0259rdir ki, yeniyetm\u0259lik ya\u015f\u0131ndan türk filml\u0259rinin psixoloji t\u0259sirl\u0259rin\u0259 m\u0259ruz qal\u0131rlar”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq deyir ki, amma q\u0131zlar\u0131n xaric\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 getm\u0259y\u0259 meyilli olmas\u0131n\u0131n  yax\u015f\u0131, yaxud pis bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu dem\u0259k bir az ç\u0259tindir: “Çünki, bu insanlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259xsi seçimidir, \u0259g\u0259r xan\u0131m özünü orada daha xo\u015fb\u0259xt hiss ed\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259, Az\u0259rbaycan\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bir ev xan\u0131m\u0131 kimi t\u0259msil ed\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259, niy\u0259 d\u0259 evl\u0259nm\u0259sin? Xan\u0131mlar\u0131n b\u0259zil\u0259ri is\u0259 i\u015fi il\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259dar olaraq xaric\u0259 \u0259r\u0259 ged\u0259 bil\u0259r. Yaxud da h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n sevir v\u0259 buna gör\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurur. Y\u0259ni, s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r müxt\u0259lifdir. H\u0259min o xan\u0131mlar\u0131n ham\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 dinl\u0259s\u0259k, h\u0259r birinin bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 öz h\u0259yat hekay\u0259si var”. <\/p>\n

O.Oruc \u0259lav\u0259 etdi ki, insanlar\u0131n xarici ölk\u0259 v\u0259t\u0259nda\u015f\u0131 il\u0259 ail\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131 qurmas\u0131 bütün zamanlarda olub: “Bizd\u0259n xaric\u0259, xaricd\u0259n d\u0259 ölk\u0259miz\u0259 g\u0259lin köçüb. N\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 alsaq ki, 9 milyon \u0259halinin 50 faizi xan\u0131md\u0131r, bu q\u0259d\u0259r r\u0259q\u0259min qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda  2 min 170 r\u0259q\u0259mi o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 böyük deyil. Fikrimc\u0259, bunu qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 müqayis\u0259 ets\u0259l\u0259r çox yax\u015f\u0131 olar. B\u0259s gör\u0259s\u0259n, Türkiy\u0259d\u0259n Az\u0259rbaycana n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r g\u0259lin köçüb? Bu zaman h\u0259min r\u0259q\u0259min o q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259 böyük olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259lum olar”. <\/p>\n

\nKönül \u018fhm\u0259dova<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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