{"id":50445,"date":"2017-09-21T18:55:50","date_gmt":"2017-09-21T14:55:50","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=50445","title":{"rendered":"Zaman\u0131 o\u011furlayan, psixoloji g\u0259rginlik a\u015f\u0131layan… sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r"},"content":{"rendered":"

Elnur Rüst\u0259mov: “R\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 ged\u0259n insanlarla \u015f\u0259kil ç\u0259kib payla\u015fma\u011f\u0131 f\u0259rd\u0259 ba\u011flanan bir problem kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirir”<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu: “Düzgün istifad\u0259 ed\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259rmand\u0131r, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 istifad\u0259 etdikd\u0259 is\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259r verir”<\/strong><\/p>\n

\nSosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r bu gün h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ayr\u0131lmaz hiss\u0259sin\u0259 çevrilib. Biz xo\u015f v\u0259 ya b\u0259d günl\u0259rimizi, h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir statusla, \u015f\u0259kill\u0259 payla\u015faraq oradak\u0131  dostlar\u0131m\u0131za, bizi izl\u0259y\u0259n adamlara da çatd\u0131rm\u0131\u015f oluruq. Amma son vaxtlar sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259ki payla\u015f\u0131mlardan \u015fikay\u0259t ed\u0259nl\u0259r d\u0259 var. \u018fn çox insanlar\u0131n q\u0131naq obyekti olan payla\u015f\u0131mlar is\u0259 meyitl\u0259rl\u0259 \u015f\u0259kil ç\u0259kdirib payla\u015fmaqd\u0131r. Bu kimi naraz\u0131l\u0131qlar haql\u0131 olaraq müxt\u0259lif suallar yarad\u0131r. Biz sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n n\u0259 d\u0259r\u0259cd\u0259 düzgün istifad\u0259 edirik v\u0259 \u0259slind\u0259, yararlanmal\u0131y\u0131qm\u0131? Meyitl\u0259 \u015f\u0259kil payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 onlar\u0131 gör\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 nec\u0259 t\u0259sir edir? Ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, payla\u015f\u0131m ed\u0259rk\u0259n n\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 diqq\u0259t etm\u0259liyik?
\nPsixoloq Elnur Rüst\u0259mov “Üç nöqt\u0259”y\u0259 aç\u0131qlamas\u0131nda bildirdi ki, günümüzün mövcud probleml\u0259rind\u0259n biri sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 v\u0259 orda veril\u0259n informasiyalard\u0131r. Bu da h\u0259r insana eyni cür t\u0259sir göst\u0259rmir: “B\u0259z\u0259n görürük ki, mövcud psixoloji narahatl\u0131qlar\u0131n bir qismi d\u0259, m\u0259hz sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 v\u0259 orada veril\u0259n m\u0259lumatlardan qaynaqlan\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259nin dig\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fi is\u0259 odur ki, art\u0131q bir qisim insanlarda sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q yaran\u0131b. Onlar sanki sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259siz qala bilmirl\u0259r. Gec\u0259 yatanda da sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259y\u0259 bax\u0131b yat\u0131rlar, s\u0259h\u0259r oyananda da ilk i\u015f payla\u015f\u0131mlara n\u0259z\u0259r yetirm\u0259k olur. Bu, bir növ as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q formas\u0131na keçib art\u0131q. Bu özü d\u0259 insanda mü\u0259yy\u0259n probleml\u0259r yarad\u0131r. Bunu aradan qald\u0131rmaq üçün birinci növb\u0259d\u0259 zaman\u0131n idar\u0259 edilm\u0259sini qabartmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Y\u0259ni, Q\u0259rb v\u0259 inki\u015faf etmi\u015f Avropa ölk\u0259l\u0259ri bu prosesi mü\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r keçibl\u0259r. Bu prosesl\u0259ri t\u0259nziml\u0259m\u0259k üçün onlar özl\u0259rin\u0259 mü\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259tl\u0259r qoyurlar. O m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259tl\u0259r daha çox kimisin\u0259 intern\u0259t\u0259 ç\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131 olmayan telefon i\u015fl\u0259tm\u0259k formas\u0131nda t\u0259tbiq olunur. H\u0259min adam z\u0259rur\u0259t olanda kompüter vasit\u0259sil\u0259 internet\u0259 daxil olub sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n istifad\u0259 edir. Bir qisim is\u0259 ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 aktiv i\u015ftirak el\u0259mir, yaln\u0131z öz f\u0259aliyy\u0259tini i\u015f\u0131qland\u0131rmaq, h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir m\u0259lumat\u0131 ötürm\u0259k üçün istifad\u0259 edir. Bu gün Az\u0259rbaycanda i\u015fl\u0259y\u0259n-i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259n, f\u0259rqi yoxdur, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 istifad\u0259çil\u0259ri çoxdur. V\u0259 burada azya\u015fl\u0131lar da var. Hans\u0131 ki, orada 14 ya\u015fdan a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ya\u015f m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259ti qoyulsa da, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ya\u015fda olan yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 var”.
\nPsixoloq deyir ki, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 aradan qald\u0131rmaq üçün birinci növb\u0259d\u0259 maarifl\u0259ndirm\u0259 i\u015fi aparmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r: “Valideynl\u0259r bu m\u0259sl\u0259d\u0259 xüsusil\u0259 diqq\u0259tli olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar. \u0130kinci növb\u0259d\u0259 o valideynl\u0259rdin özl\u0259ri bel\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n as\u0131l\u0131 v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259dirl\u0259rs\u0259, özl\u0259rin\u0259 m\u0259hdudiyy\u0259t qoysunlar. Özl\u0259rin\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n istifad\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 vaxt qoysunlar v\u0259 o vaxtdan sonra ordan uzaqla\u015fs\u0131nlar. Çünki, bunlar f\u0259rdi inki\u015fafda zaman o\u011frular\u0131 adlan\u0131rlar. Y\u0259ni sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r daha çox insanlar\u0131n zaman\u0131n\u0131 o\u011furlayan, vaxt\u0131n\u0131 aparan bir \u015feyl\u0259rdir. N\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 insan vaxt\u0131n\u0131n sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r\u0259, m\u0259hsuldar olmayan i\u015fl\u0259r\u0259 getdiyini hiss ed\u0259nd\u0259 aqressiv v\u0259 \u0259s\u0259bi olur. Bu aqressivlik özün\u0259 v\u0259 \u0259trafa münasib\u0259t\u0259 d\u0259 yans\u0131y\u0131r. Yaxud, dig\u0259r bir \u015feyi götür\u0259k, ail\u0259daxili konfiliktl\u0259ri, bo\u015fanmalar. Onun bir s\u0259b\u0259bi sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 dayan\u0131r. V\u0259 onun üz\u0259rind\u0259n yaranan s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n görürük ki, bo\u015fanmalar olur. Bütün hallarda zaman\u0131n idar\u0259 edilm\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 insanlar maarifl\u0259nm\u0259li, zaman\u0131n\u0131 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 keçirm\u0259m\u0259li, \u0259g\u0259r keçirs\u0259l\u0259r bel\u0259 m\u0259hsuldar, faydal\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rind\u0259n yararlans\u0131nlar. H\u0259m özl\u0259rin\u0259 faydal\u0131 olsun, h\u0259m d\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259t\u0259”.
\nE.Rüst\u0259mov qeyd etdi ki, r\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 ged\u0259n insanlarla \u015f\u0259kil ç\u0259kib payla\u015fma\u011f\u0131 f\u0259rd\u0259 ba\u011flanan bir problem kimi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirir: “Gün \u0259rzind\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n insanlar\u0131n, ba\u015f ver\u0259n a\u011f\u0131r avtoq\u0259zalar\u0131n say\u0131 çox olur. Gün \u0259rzind\u0259 hardasa 1 faiz insan\u0131n yan\u0131nda kims\u0259 dünyas\u0131n\u0131  d\u0259yi\u015fir. H\u0259r k\u0259s bu \u015f\u0259kli ç\u0259kib payla\u015fm\u0131r. Bu insana, f\u0259rd\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 bir \u015feydir v\u0259 tövsiyy\u0259 edilmir.  Bu cür \u015feyl\u0259r dig\u0259r insanlara psixoloji travma verir. Ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir payla\u015f\u0131mlar ed\u0259rk\u0259n, h\u0259r hans\u0131 m\u0259lumat, informasiya ötürül\u0259rk\u0259n psixi sa\u011flaml\u0131q mütl\u0259q qorunmal\u0131d\u0131r. Bu n\u0259 dem\u0259kdir? Y\u0259ni, m\u0259nim payla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131ma kiml\u0259r, hans\u0131 ya\u015f qruplar\u0131nda olan insanlar baxacaq v\u0259 ötürdüyüm mesaj onlara n\u0259 cür t\u0259sir göst\u0259r\u0259c\u0259k? Onlara hans\u0131 müsb\u0259t v\u0259 m\u0259nfi t\u0259sirl\u0259ri olacaq? Dolay\u0131s\u0131 il\u0259 bu bir q\u0259d\u0259r d\u0259, niyy\u0259t\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 prosesdir. Pozitiv \u015feyl\u0259ri, insanlar\u0131 yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011fa, göz\u0259l \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 sövq ed\u0259n \u015feyl\u0259ri payla\u015fma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. \u0130nternetd\u0259 bel\u0259 m\u0259lumatlar çoxdur. B\u0259z\u0259n neqativl\u0259r payla\u015f\u0131mlar görürük. Bu da insanlarda m\u0259nfi emosiyalar, insan\u0131n insandan uzaqla\u015fmas\u0131, aqressiyan\u0131n artmas\u0131na g\u0259tirib ç\u0131xar\u0131r. Daha çox pozitiv \u015feyl\u0259r payla\u015fs\u0131nlar. Ölü adamla \u015f\u0259kil payla\u015fmaq n\u0259 m\u0259na verir ki…”.
\nSosioloq \u018fhm\u0259d Q\u0259\u015f\u0259mo\u011flu internet, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259ri ilan z\u0259h\u0259rin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259dir, düzgün istifad\u0259 ed\u0259nd\u0259 d\u0259rmand\u0131r, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 istifad\u0259 etdikd\u0259 is\u0259 z\u0259r\u0259r verir: “B\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259, adam\u0131 m\u0259hv edir. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259, birba\u015fa olaraq ancaq sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259ri, interneti t\u0259nqid etm\u0259k düzgün deyil. Bunlar ham\u0131s\u0131 inki\u015faf edir, bizim üçün çoxlu rahatl\u0131q yarad\u0131r. Bu sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r vasit\u0259sil\u0259 dünyan\u0131n h\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259 olan do\u011fmalar\u0131m\u0131zla, dostlar\u0131m\u0131zla \u0259laq\u0259 saxlay\u0131r\u0131q. \u015e\u0259h\u0259rin daxilind\u0259 bel\u0259 bizim n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r i\u015fimizi asanla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Biz sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259ni öz t\u0259yinat\u0131na, bizim üçün faydal\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na gör\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259timiz\u0259, m\u0259n\u0259viyyat\u0131m\u0131za, günd\u0259lik h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za ziyan vurmamaq \u015f\u0259rtil\u0259 istifad\u0259 eliy\u0259k. Y\u0259ni, bir az k\u0259nardan da g\u0259zm\u0259k olar. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r bizim h\u0259yat\u0131m\u0131za daxil olub v\u0259 biz ondan düzgün istifad\u0259 etm\u0259liyik. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 yana\u015f\u0131, internet resurslar\u0131n\u0131n özünü d\u0259 bura qo\u015fmaq laz\u0131md\u0131r. Y\u0259ni, bu el\u0259 bir vasit\u0259dir ki, bundan özümüz a\u011f\u0131ll\u0131 istifad\u0259 ed\u0259nd\u0259 faydal\u0131d\u0131r, amma imkan ver\u0259nd\u0259 ki, bundan dü\u015fm\u0259m biz\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 istifad\u0259 el\u0259sin, o zaman t\u0259hlük\u0259li olur. Eyni zamanda, dü\u015fm\u0259n yox, bir növ \u0259xlaq\u0131, m\u0259n\u0259vi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ri yerind\u0259 olmayan adamlar da, bir-biril\u0259rin\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 k\u0259l\u0259k g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r. \u0130ndi e\u015fidirik ki, ki\u015fil\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131, o\u011flanlar q\u0131zlar\u0131 aldad\u0131r. V\u0259 bu hesaba t\u0259hlük\u0259l\u0259r aiddir. E\u015fitdiyim\u0259 gör\u0259, bo\u015fanmala\u0131r\u0131n 30 faizi sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259kl\u0259rin hesab\u0131nad\u0131r. Dem\u0259li, burada da, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259 düzgün istifad\u0259 olunmamaq m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si var. O biri t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n, dediyim kimi, indi daha çox dünyada bel\u0259 bir proses yay\u0131l\u0131r ki, bizim \u0259xlaqi d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259rimizi a\u015f\u0131nd\u0131rs\u0131nlar. Çünki \u0259xlaqi d\u0259y\u0259ri a\u015f\u0131nan ölk\u0259ni idar\u0259 etm\u0259k asand\u0131r. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259, internetd\u0259 minl\u0259rl\u0259 pornoqrafik filml\u0259r yerl\u0259\u015fdirirl\u0259r. Burda heç a\u011flag\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259n, arzuolunmayan sujetli filml\u0259r ç\u0259kilir. Bunlar internet v\u0259 sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r vasit\u0259sil\u0259 ölk\u0259mizd\u0259 g\u0259ncl\u0259r v\u0259 na\u015f\u0131 adamlar aras\u0131nda çox yay\u0131l\u0131r. V\u0259 art\u0131q bunun n\u0259tic\u0259sind\u0259 ölk\u0259mizd\u0259 eyb\u0259c\u0259r bir hal yaran\u0131b. Biri qarda\u015f\u0131 q\u0131z\u0131  il\u0259 evl\u0259nir, biri q\u0131z\u0131na t\u0259cavüz edir. Bnlar h\u0259l\u0259 üz\u0259 ç\u0131xan faktlard\u0131r. Görün h\u0259l\u0259 üz\u0259 ç\u0131xmayan n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r bel\u0259 eyb\u0259c\u0259r hallar ba\u015f verm\u0259kd\u0259dir. Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259r mühüm bir vasit\u0259dir. Amma sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259n istifad\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tin\u0259 malik olmal\u0131y\u0131q. Biz, ist\u0259r televiziya, ist\u0259r q\u0259zetl\u0259r, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 saytlar çal\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131q ki, \u0259hali aras\u0131nda sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n istifad\u0259 etm\u0259k m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259tini formala\u015fd\u0131raq”.
\nSosioloq onu da \u0259lav\u0259 etdi ki, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 ictimai bir yerdir. Orada ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n \u0259s\u0259bl\u0259ri il\u0259 oynayan, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131na m\u0259nfi t\u0259sir ed\u0259n, m\u0259nfi enerji ver\u0259n, q\u0131c\u0131q yaradan \u015feyl\u0259r etm\u0259k düz deyil: “Y\u0259ni, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259, status yayanlar sanki öz portretl\u0259rini ç\u0259kirl\u0259r. \u0130nsanlar o q\u0259d\u0259r m\u0259nas\u0131z v\u0259 yüngül \u015feyl\u0259r payla\u015f\u0131rlar ki… R\u0259hm\u0259t\u0259 ged\u0259nl\u0259 \u015f\u0259kil ç\u0259kdirm\u0259k, yediyi yem\u0259yi hiss\u0259-hiss\u0259 ç\u0259kib payla\u015fmaq v\u0259 sair\u0259, bunlar ham\u0131s\u0131 göst\u0259rir ki, bizim \u0259hali aras\u0131nda mü\u0259yy\u0259n q\u0259d\u0259r a\u015f\u0131nma var”.<\/p>\n

\nKönül \u018fhm\u0259dova<\/strong>
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