{"id":258507,"date":"2026-09-14T06:06:07","date_gmt":"2026-09-14T02:06:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=258507"},"modified":"2026-09-14T00:07:18","modified_gmt":"2026-09-13T20:07:18","slug":"qadinlar-niy%c9%99-m%c9%99suq%c9%99-olmaga-razilasirlar-4-%c9%99sas-s%c9%99b%c9%99b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=258507","title":{"rendered":"Qad\u0131nlar niy\u0259 m\u0259\u015fuq\u0259 olma\u011fa raz\u0131la\u015f\u0131rlar? 4 \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259b"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>He\u00e7 bir qad\u0131n u\u015faql\u0131qdan ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u201cikinci qad\u0131n\u201d olma\u011f\u0131 arzulam\u0131r. Buna baxmayaraq, yetkinlik d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini sevgi \u00fc\u00e7buca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259 tap\u0131rlar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, b\u0259z\u0259n qad\u0131n bel\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti bitirm\u0259k ist\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259, d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 h\u0259min \u0259laq\u0259y\u0259 geri qay\u0131d\u0131r.<br \/>\nC\u0259miyy\u0259t bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 \u00e7ox vaxt \u201c\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc t\u0259r\u0259fi\u201d g\u00fcnahland\u0131r\u0131r. Lakin psixoloji bax\u0131mdan m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 daha m\u00fcr\u0259kk\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. B\u0259zi hallarda qad\u0131n\u0131n bel\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti q\u0259bul etm\u0259sinin arxas\u0131nda \u00f6z\u00fcn\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259ti v\u0259 ke\u00e7mi\u015f t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259ri dayan\u0131r.<br \/>\n1. He\u00e7 kimin onu h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n se\u00e7m\u0259y\u0259c\u0259yind\u0259n qorxmaq<br \/>\n\u018fn geni\u015f yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n biri qad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc tam \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 sevilm\u0259y\u0259 layiq g\u00f6rm\u0259m\u0259sidir. O, \u00f6z\u00fcnd\u0259 \u201cn\u0259s\u0259 \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr v\u0259 daha ciddi m\u00fcnasib\u0259t g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259yin m\u0259nas\u0131z oldu\u011funa inan\u0131r.<br \/>\nN\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 ki\u015fi ona g\u00f6st\u0259rdiyi diqq\u0259tin yaln\u0131z bir hiss\u0259si il\u0259 kifay\u0259tl\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r. Qad\u0131n \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u0259sas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 ki\u015finin h\u0259yat\u0131nda olmas\u0131 olur, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259yinin nec\u0259 g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259c\u0259yi is\u0259 ikinci plana ke\u00e7ir.<br \/>\n2. \u00d6z\u00fcn\u00fc d\u0259y\u0259rsizl\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259k v\u0259 sevgini \u0259zabla qar\u0131\u015fd\u0131rmaq<br \/>\nB\u0259zi hallarda bunun k\u00f6k\u00fcnd\u0259 u\u015faql\u0131q v\u0259 ya ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 ya\u015fanan a\u011f\u0131r m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r dayana bil\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r insan vaxtil\u0259 sevgini a\u011fr\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259zabla birlikd\u0259 ya\u015fay\u0131bsa, beynind\u0259 \u201csevm\u0259k \u0259ziyy\u0259t \u00e7\u0259km\u0259kdir\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259si formala\u015fa bil\u0259r.<br \/>\nBu halda sakit v\u0259 sa\u011flam m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r insana qeyri-real g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u0259 bil\u0259r. Gizli g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259r, g\u00f6zl\u0259m\u0259k v\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin qaydalar\u0131na uy\u011funla\u015fmaq is\u0259 q\u0259rib\u0259 \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 tan\u0131\u015f v\u0259 rahat hiss edil\u0259 bil\u0259r.<br \/>\n3. X\u00fcsusi olmaq v\u0259 t\u0259sdiq g\u00f6rm\u0259k ist\u0259yi<br \/>\nB\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 saxlayan dig\u0259r amil \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc \u201cse\u00e7ilmi\u015f\u201d v\u0259 x\u00fcsusi hiss etm\u0259k arzusudur.<br \/>\nKi\u015finin \u201cs\u0259nin \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n ke\u00e7\u0259rdim\u201d, \u201cs\u0259ni he\u00e7 kiml\u0259 m\u00fcqayis\u0259 etm\u0259k olmaz\u201d kimi s\u00f6zl\u0259ri qad\u0131nda onun dig\u0259rl\u0259rind\u0259n f\u0259rqli oldu\u011fu hissini yarada bil\u0259r. Lakin bu hiss b\u0259z\u0259n d\u0259rin sevgid\u0259n \u00e7ox, ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131lanmam\u0131\u015f diqq\u0259t v\u0259 t\u0259sdiq ehtiyac\u0131n\u0131 m\u00fcv\u0259qq\u0259ti \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 kompensasiya edir.<br \/>\n4. Yax\u0131nl\u0131qdan qorxmaq v\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t ill\u00fcziyas\u0131<br \/>\nBel\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 qad\u0131n b\u0259z\u0259n h\u0259r \u015feyin onun n\u0259zar\u0259tind\u0259 oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fl\u0259rin vaxt\u0131n\u0131, m\u00fcnasib\u0259tin intensivliyini \u00f6z\u00fc m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n etdiyini hiss edir.<br \/>\n\u018fslind\u0259 is\u0259 bu, yax\u0131nl\u0131q qorxusunun arxas\u0131nda gizl\u0259n\u0259n n\u0259zar\u0259t ill\u00fcziyas\u0131 ola bil\u0259r. Tam m\u00fcnasib\u0259t insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc emosional bax\u0131mdan a\u00e7mas\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 h\u0259ssas olmas\u0131n\u0131 t\u0259l\u0259b edir. Gizli m\u00fcnasib\u0259t is\u0259 yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u00fc\u0259yy\u0259n h\u0259dd\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r q\u0259bul etm\u0259y\u0259 imkan verir.<br \/>\nBu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n nec\u0259 \u00e7\u0131xmaq olar?<br \/>\nBel\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olan qad\u0131n\u0131 q\u0131namaq v\u0259 ya \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00fcnahland\u0131rma\u011fa m\u0259cbur etm\u0259k problemin h\u0259lli deyil. \u018fsas m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 insan\u0131n \u00f6z hissl\u0259rin\u0259 s\u0259mimi yana\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r.<br \/>\nM\u00fct\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259rin fikrinc\u0259:<br \/>\n\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00fcnahland\u0131rmay\u0131n;<br \/>\nhissl\u0259rinizi g\u00fcv\u0259ndiyiniz insanla b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn;<br \/>\nm\u00fcnasib\u0259tin siz\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n n\u0259 verdiyini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn;<br \/>\nv\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259n t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131xa bilmirsinizs\u0259, psixoloqa m\u00fcraci\u0259t edin;<br \/>\n\u0259g\u0259r daim m\u0259hz evli v\u0259 ya m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olan ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verirsinizs\u0259, bunun arxas\u0131nda hans\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f modelinin dayand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131n.<br \/>\n\u018fsas m\u0259qam is\u0259 budur: insan\u0131n \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 hans\u0131 rolda g\u00f6rm\u0259si d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259z tale deyil. \u00d6z davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnc\u0259 v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259rini d\u0259rk etm\u0259kl\u0259 bu d\u00f6vr\u0259ni d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>He\u00e7 bir qad\u0131n u\u015faql\u0131qdan ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda \u201cikinci qad\u0131n\u201d olma\u011f\u0131 arzulam\u0131r. Buna baxmayaraq, yetkinlik d\u00f6vr\u00fcnd\u0259 b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar \u00f6zl\u0259rini sevgi \u00fc\u00e7buca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7ind\u0259 tap\u0131rlar. 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