{"id":256098,"date":"2026-08-27T07:35:49","date_gmt":"2026-08-27T03:35:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=256098"},"modified":"2026-08-27T00:18:35","modified_gmt":"2026-08-26T20:18:35","slug":"niy%c9%99-kisi-basqalari-il%c9%99-danisqan-evd%c9%99-is%c9%99-susqun-olur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=256098","title":{"rendered":"Niy\u0259 ki\u015fi ba\u015fqalar\u0131 il\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fqan, evd\u0259 is\u0259 susqun olur?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>B\u0259z\u0259n qad\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, ki\u015fi dostlar\u0131 il\u0259 rahat dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, zarafat edir, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fl\u0259ri il\u0259 maraqlan\u0131r, amma ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 susur. Suallara q\u0131sa cavab verir, \u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6hb\u0259t a\u00e7m\u0131r, qucaqla\u015fmaq v\u0259 mehriban s\u00f6zl\u0259r \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 telefon, televizor v\u0259 ya s\u0259ssizliy\u0259 \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ucnoqta.az bildirir ki, bu, asanl\u0131qla laqeydlik kimi q\u0259bul edil\u0259 bil\u0259r. Lakin bel\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 hissl\u0259rin bitdiyi anlam\u0131na g\u0259lmir.<br \/>\nNiy\u0259 evd\u0259 susur?<br \/>\n\u0130\u015fd\u0259 v\u0259 ya dostlarla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t zaman\u0131 s\u00f6hb\u0259t \u00e7ox vaxt emosional d\u0259rinlik t\u0259l\u0259b etmir. Zarafat etm\u0259k, x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259ri v\u0259 ya i\u015fi m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259k daha asand\u0131r. Evd\u0259 is\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r daha \u00e7ox emosional i\u015ftirak t\u0259l\u0259b edir.<br \/>\nB\u0259z\u0259n insan g\u00fcn \u0259rzind\u0259 yoruldu\u011fu \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn evd\u0259 s\u0259ssiz qalma\u011fa \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck verir. G\u00fcn boyu q\u0259rarlar q\u0259bul etm\u0259k, m\u0259suliyy\u0259t da\u015f\u0131maq v\u0259 diqq\u0259tini c\u0259ml\u0259m\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 olan biri ax\u015fam saatlar\u0131nda s\u00f6hb\u0259t\u0259 d\u0259rhal k\u00f6kl\u0259nm\u0259kd\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlik \u00e7\u0259k\u0259 bil\u0259r.<br \/>\nBa\u015fqa s\u0259b\u0259b m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131b qalan inciklikl\u0259r ola bil\u0259r. \u018fg\u0259r h\u0259r s\u00f6hb\u0259t m\u00fcbahis\u0259, t\u0259nqid v\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 iradlarla n\u0259tic\u0259l\u0259nirs\u0259, insan zamanla \u00fcnsiyy\u0259td\u0259n qa\u00e7ma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r.<br \/>\nB\u0259z\u0259n is\u0259 problem daha d\u0259rindir: t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r emosional olaraq bir-birind\u0259n uzaqla\u015f\u0131b v\u0259 bir-birinin daxili d\u00fcnyas\u0131 il\u0259 maraqlanma\u011f\u0131 dayand\u0131r\u0131blar.<br \/>\nS\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259ri nec\u0259 b\u0259rpa etm\u0259k olar?<br \/>\nS\u00f6hb\u0259t\u0259 \u201cS\u0259n m\u0259niml\u0259 he\u00e7 vaxt dan\u0131\u015fm\u0131rsan\u201d kimi ittihamla ba\u015flamaqdansa, \u00f6z hissl\u0259rinizi ifad\u0259 etm\u0259k daha faydal\u0131d\u0131r.<br \/>\nM\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n: \u201cS\u0259ninl\u0259 s\u00f6hb\u0259tl\u0259rimiz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn dar\u0131x\u0131ram. Aram\u0131zdak\u0131 yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n yenid\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259lki kimi olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259yir\u0259m.\u201d<br \/>\nH\u0259r ax\u015fam\u0131 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r haqq\u0131nda ciddi m\u00fczakir\u0259y\u0259 \u00e7evirm\u0259k d\u0259 laz\u0131m deyil. Birlikd\u0259 q\u0259hv\u0259 i\u00e7m\u0259k, g\u0259zm\u0259k, yem\u0259k haz\u0131rlamaq v\u0259 ya \u201cG\u00fcn\u00fcn nec\u0259 ke\u00e7di?\u201d sual\u0131 \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 \u201cBu g\u00fcn s\u0259ni n\u0259 sevindirdi?\u201d dem\u0259k kimi ki\u00e7ik add\u0131mlar da yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 b\u0259rpa ed\u0259 bil\u0259r.<br \/>\nB\u0259s fiziki yax\u0131nl\u0131q?<br \/>\nYax\u0131nl\u0131q da ki\u00e7ik jestl\u0259rd\u0259n ba\u015flay\u0131r: g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 qucaqla\u015fmaq, \u0259lind\u0259n tutmaq, mehriban toxunu\u015f v\u0259 birlikd\u0259 vaxt ke\u00e7irm\u0259k. Amma qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n bunu t\u0259l\u0259b etm\u0259k d\u00fczg\u00fcn deyil. T\u0259zyiq hissi yaranarsa, h\u0259tta sad\u0259 toxunu\u015f bel\u0259 narahatl\u0131q yarada bil\u0259r.<br \/>\nM\u00fcnasib\u0259ti t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na xilas etm\u0259k m\u00fcmk\u00fcn deyil<br \/>\nYax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaln\u0131z bir t\u0259r\u0259fin s\u0259yi il\u0259 b\u0259rpa etm\u0259k \u00e7\u0259tindir. S\u0259mimi s\u00f6hb\u0259t ittiham deyil, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 d\u0259v\u0259t olmal\u0131d\u0131r: \u201cM\u0259n s\u0259n\u0259 yax\u0131n olmaq ist\u0259yir\u0259m. S\u0259n n\u0259 ist\u0259yirs\u0259n? M\u00fcnasib\u0259timizd\u0259 s\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259 \u00e7atm\u0131r?\u201d<br \/>\nB\u0259z\u0259n bel\u0259 bir s\u00f6hb\u0259t d\u0259yi\u015fiklik \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn ba\u015flan\u011f\u0131c olur. Problem uzun m\u00fcdd\u0259t davam edirs\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r \u00f6zl\u0259ri h\u0259ll yolu tapa bilmirl\u0259rs\u0259, ail\u0259 psixoloqundan d\u0259st\u0259k almaq faydal\u0131 ola bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u0259z\u0259n qad\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fcr ki, ki\u015fi dostlar\u0131 il\u0259 rahat dan\u0131\u015f\u0131r, zarafat edir, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fl\u0259ri il\u0259 maraqlan\u0131r, amma ev\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259nd\u0259 susur. Suallara q\u0131sa cavab verir, \u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6hb\u0259t a\u00e7m\u0131r, qucaqla\u015fmaq v\u0259 mehriban s\u00f6zl\u0259r&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":256099,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[100],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-256098","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diger"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/256098","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=256098"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/256098\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/256099"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=256098"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=256098"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=256098"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}