{"id":251200,"date":"2026-07-24T09:30:30","date_gmt":"2026-07-24T05:30:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=251200"},"modified":"2026-07-24T16:08:06","modified_gmt":"2026-07-24T12:08:06","slug":"qadinin-daha-yasli-oldugu-cutlukl%c9%99rd%c9%99-anlasilmazliqlarin-qarsisini-nec%c9%99-almali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=251200","title":{"rendered":"Qad\u0131n\u0131n daha ya\u015fl\u0131 oldu\u011fu c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259 anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131qlar\u0131n qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 nec\u0259 almal\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r haqq\u0131nda \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131n t\u0259dric\u0259n ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 qald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bug\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcnyada qad\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fid\u0259n daha b\u00f6y\u00fck oldu\u011fu c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r art\u0131q t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u00fc deyil.<\/strong>
\nLakin ya\u015f f\u0259rqi anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131q m\u0259nb\u0259yi ola bil\u0259r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, psixoloq \u0130rina \u015eenyer bel\u0259 bir c\u00fctl\u00fckd\u0259 ah\u0259ngdar m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin nec\u0259 qurulaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 izah edib.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015f f\u0259rqi h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n vacibdirmi?
\n“Ya\u015f f\u0259rqinin \u00f6z\u00fc m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259nin s\u0259b\u0259bi deyil. Daha vacib olan t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259rin bu f\u0259rqi nec\u0259 q\u0259bul etm\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 hans\u0131 m\u00f6vqel\u0259r\u0259 sahib olmalar\u0131d\u0131r”, – dey\u0259 \u015eenyer qeyd edir.<\/p>\n

C\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fcy\u0259 t\u0259zyiq g\u00f6st\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259k bir \u00e7ox stereotip var: ya\u015fl\u0131 qad\u0131n\u0131n g\u0259nc ki\u015fini “idar\u0259 etm\u0259si” v\u0259 ya onun “eqoist s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rd\u0259n” m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 olmas\u0131. Bu q\u0259r\u0259zl\u0259rd\u0259n qa\u00e7\u0131nmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn onlar\u0131n h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 nec\u0259 t\u0259sir etdiyini v\u0259 bir-birini nec\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259diyini birlikd\u0259 m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259k vacibdir.<\/p>\n

A\u00e7\u0131q \u00fcnsiyy\u0259t
\nM\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259nin \u0259n \u00e7ox yay\u0131lm\u0131\u015f s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri a\u00e7\u0131ql\u0131\u011f\u0131n olmamas\u0131d\u0131r. T\u0259r\u0259fda\u015flar emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131 bo\u011fa v\u0259 ya narahat hesab etdikl\u0259ri m\u00f6vzular\u0131 m\u00fczakir\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259n \u00e7\u0259kin\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r.
\n“\u018fg\u0259r qad\u0131n ya\u015f f\u0259rqi s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n s\u0259hv ba\u015fa d\u00fc\u015f\u00fclm\u0259kd\u0259n qorxursa, bu, daxili g\u0259rginliy\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. Ki\u015fil\u0259r is\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n ictimai g\u00f6zl\u0259ntil\u0259rin t\u0259zyiqi alt\u0131nda qal\u0131rlar”, – dey\u0259 \u0130rina \u015eenyer bildirib.
\nC\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rin rol b\u00f6hranlar\u0131n\u0131 aradan qald\u0131rmaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259l\u0259rini a\u00e7\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 b\u00f6l\u00fc\u015fm\u0259l\u0259ri vacibdir.
\nB\u0259z\u0259n bel\u0259 c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259rd\u0259 h\u0259yat m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259l\u0259rind\u0259ki f\u0259rql\u0259r\u0259 g\u00f6r\u0259 m\u00fcnaqi\u015f\u0259 yaran\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, qad\u0131n sabitlik axtara bil\u0259r, ki\u015fi is\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259 aparmaq v\u0259 ya \u00f6z kimliyini tapmaq ist\u0259yir.<\/p>\n

H\u0259r k\u0259sin \u00f6z inki\u015faf tempin\u0259 haqq\u0131 oldu\u011funu anlamaq vacibdir. C\u00fctl\u00fcy\u00fcn v\u0259zif\u0259si h\u0259r ikisinin ehtiyaclar\u0131 aras\u0131nda tarazl\u0131q tapmaqd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

H\u00f6rm\u0259t
\nBir-birinin \u015f\u0259xsi m\u0259kan\u0131na, q\u0259rarlar\u0131na v\u0259 x\u0259yallar\u0131na h\u00f6rm\u0259t etm\u0259k, ya\u015f\u0131ndan as\u0131l\u0131 olmayaraq m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rin qurulmas\u0131na k\u00f6m\u0259k ed\u0259n t\u0259m\u0259ldir. H\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259fin bir-birini b\u0259rab\u0259r q\u0259bul etm\u0259si vacibdir.<\/p>\n

B\u0259z\u0259n ya\u015fl\u0131 qad\u0131nlar \u015f\u00fcuralt\u0131 olaraq m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 “ana” rolunu \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rin\u0259 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u0259r. Bu, balanss\u0131zl\u0131q yarada v\u0259 ki\u015fi t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n q\u0131c\u0131qlanmaya s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r. Bunun qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 almaq \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn, romantika v\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 d\u0259st\u0259k \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn yer buraxaraq, partnyor v\u0259 ana rollar\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259qiq \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ay\u0131rmaq vacibdir.<\/p>\n

Bir-birind\u0259n \u00f6yr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rl\u0131q
\nBu c\u00fcr m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 u\u011furun \u0259sas elementi qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 z\u0259nginl\u0259\u015fm\u0259dir. G\u0259nc partnyor m\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 t\u0259rav\u0259t v\u0259 yeni bir perspektiv g\u0259tir\u0259 bil\u0259r, ya\u015fl\u0131 partnyor is\u0259 t\u0259cr\u00fcb\u0259 v\u0259 m\u00fcdriklik g\u0259tirir.
\n“H\u0259r iki partnyor ya\u015f f\u0259rqini problem deyil, f\u00fcrs\u0259t kimi q\u0259bul etdikd\u0259, bu, onlar\u0131n ba\u011flar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00fccl\u0259ndirir. Ax\u0131 sevgi ill\u0259r deyil, qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 anla\u015fma il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r”, – dey\u0259 ekspert yekunla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Qad\u0131n\u0131n daha ya\u015fl\u0131 oldu\u011fu c\u00fctl\u00fckd\u0259 harmoniyan\u0131n a\u00e7ar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131q dan\u0131\u015fmaq, bir-birini d\u0259st\u0259kl\u0259m\u0259k v\u0259 f\u0259rql\u0259ri mane\u0259l\u0259r deyil, inki\u015faf \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn imkanlar kimi g\u00f6rm\u0259k bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u018fg\u0259r partnyorlar \u00f6z \u00fcz\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tinlikl\u0259ri birlikd\u0259 d\u0259f etm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131rlarsa, he\u00e7 bir ya\u015f f\u0259rqi \u0259sl xo\u015fb\u0259xtliy\u0259 mane olmayacaq.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

M\u00fcnasib\u0259tl\u0259r haqq\u0131nda \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131n t\u0259dric\u0259n ke\u00e7mi\u015fd\u0259 qald\u0131\u011f\u0131 bug\u00fcnk\u00fc d\u00fcnyada qad\u0131n\u0131n ki\u015fid\u0259n daha b\u00f6y\u00fck oldu\u011fu c\u00fctl\u00fckl\u0259r art\u0131q t\u0259\u0259cc\u00fcbl\u00fc deyil. Lakin ya\u015f f\u0259rqi anla\u015f\u0131lmazl\u0131q m\u0259nb\u0259yi ola bil\u0259r. Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, psixoloq…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":251201,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-251200","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/251200","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=251200"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/251200\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251201"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=251200"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=251200"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=251200"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}