{"id":243821,"date":"2026-05-19T06:44:00","date_gmt":"2026-05-19T02:44:00","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=243821","title":{"rendered":"Daha \u00e7ox qad\u0131n g\u0259nc partnyor se\u00e7ir?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Romantik münasib\u0259tl\u0259r çoxdan köhn\u0259 qaydalar\u0131 pozub. Bu yax\u0131nlarda "tipik ssenari" hesab edil\u0259n \u015fey indi qad\u0131nlar üçün getdikc\u0259 daha çox \u015füurlu seçim\u0259 çevrilir, t\u0259xribat kimi deyil, münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 daha çox azadl\u0131q, özün\u0259inam v\u0259 zövq almaq üçün bir yol kimi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, "Psychology Today" jurnal\u0131 g\u0259nc ki\u015fil\u0259rl\u0259 münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 qad\u0131nlar\u0131n tez-tez \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi gender rollar\u0131nda d\u0259yi\u015fiklik, cinsiyy\u0259tl\u0259ri üz\u0259rind\u0259 daha çox n\u0259zar\u0259t v\u0259 daha yüks\u0259k emosional v\u0259 fiziki özün\u0259inam s\u0259viyy\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131la\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131 fenomen haqq\u0131nda m\u0259lumat verib.<\/p>\n

Bu mövzuda elmi t\u0259dqiqatlar h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 m\u0259hdud olsa da, mövcud m\u0259lumatlar göst\u0259rir ki, bu cür münasib\u0259tl\u0259r cütlük daxilind\u0259 gender, cinsiyy\u0259t v\u0259 güc haqq\u0131nda m\u0259d\u0259ni narrativl\u0259ri h\u0259m poza, h\u0259m d\u0259 gücl\u0259ndir\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Populyar m\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259td\u0259 daha g\u0259nc partnyor seç\u0259n qad\u0131na tez-tez "cougar" deyilir – mü\u0259llif Linda Louen t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n populyarla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lan bu termin. Bu, ad\u0259t\u0259n, \u0259n az\u0131 s\u0259kkiz ya\u015f kiçik bir ki\u015fi il\u0259 romantik v\u0259 ya cinsi \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259 olan 35 ya\u015fdan yuxar\u0131 bir qad\u0131na aiddir. Bu termin mübahis\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olur, çünki b\u0259zil\u0259ri onu t\u0259hqiramiz v\u0259 seksist hesab edir, dig\u0259rl\u0259ri is\u0259 qad\u0131n muxtariyy\u0259tinin, özün\u0259inam\u0131n\u0131n v\u0259 cinsi azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n simvolu kimi q\u0259bul edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Mövzunun populyarl\u0131\u011f\u0131na baxmayaraq, bu cür münasib\u0259tl\u0259r haqq\u0131nda elmi m\u0259lumatlar m\u0259hdud olaraq qal\u0131r. Bir neç\u0259 t\u0259dqiqatdan biri gender v\u0259 cinsiyy\u0259t t\u0259dqiqatlar\u0131 professoru Maylayn Alari t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n apar\u0131l\u0131b v\u0259 o, Monreal \u0259razisind\u0259n olan 55 qad\u0131nla müsahib\u0259l\u0259ri t\u0259hlil edib.<\/p>\n

Onun \u0259sas sual\u0131 sad\u0259, lakin t\u0259xribatç\u0131 idi: bu cür münasib\u0259tl\u0259r qad\u0131nlara cinsiyy\u0259tl\u0259rini ifad\u0259 etm\u0259k üçün daha çox azadl\u0131q verirmi, yoxsa sad\u0259c\u0259 köhn\u0259 gender ssenaril\u0259rini yenid\u0259n \u015f\u0259rh edirmi?<\/p>\n

Güc v\u0259 cinsi azadl\u0131q hiss\u0259si<\/strong>
\nQad\u0131nlar\u0131n daha g\u0259nc partnyorlar\u0131 seçm\u0259sinin \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 daha çox cinsi azadl\u0131q v\u0259 n\u0259zar\u0259t hissi il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.
\nBu cür cütlükl\u0259rd\u0259 yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n dinamikas\u0131 tez-tez d\u0259yi\u015fir – y\u0259ni qad\u0131nlar ist\u0259kl\u0259rini aç\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ifad\u0259 ed\u0259, daha asanl\u0131qla yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa ba\u015flaya v\u0259 "h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q aktiv" v\u0259 ya "h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q t\u0259crüb\u0259li" olmaqdan qorxmurlar.<\/p>\n

Bu ssenarid\u0259 g\u0259nc partnyor tez-tez yeni yax\u0131nl\u0131q formalar\u0131na daha aç\u0131q v\u0259 t\u0259crüb\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131r kimi q\u0259bul edilir ki, bu da \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi hetero münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 b\u0259z\u0259n tabu olaraq qal\u0131r.
\nCütlükd\u0259 tarazl\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u0259yi\u015fdir\u0259n biologiya<\/strong>
\nT\u0259dqiqat g\u0259nc ki\u015fil\u0259rin tez-tez daha çox cinsi dözümlülüy\u0259, sabit ereksiyaya v\u0259 daha çox fiziki enerjiy\u0259 sahib oldu\u011funu vur\u011fulay\u0131r. T\u0259dqiqat i\u015ftirakç\u0131lar\u0131na gör\u0259, bu amill\u0259r qad\u0131nlar\u0131n cinsi m\u0259mnuniyy\u0259tin\u0259 müsb\u0259t t\u0259sir göst\u0259r\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Ya\u015fl\u0131 partnyorlarla müqayis\u0259d\u0259 g\u0259nc ki\u015fil\u0259rin öz "ki\u015filikl\u0259ri" il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 narahatl\u0131q keçirm\u0259 ehtimal\u0131 daha azd\u0131r ki, bu da münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 g\u0259rginliyi azald\u0131r v\u0259 yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 daha rahat edir.<\/p>\n

Qad\u0131n "passiv rol" deyil, aktiv i\u015ftirakç\u0131 kimi<\/strong>
\nDig\u0259r vacib aspekt cinsi qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259 rollar\u0131n t\u0259rs çevrilm\u0259sidir. Bel\u0259 münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n n\u0259 ist\u0259diyini mü\u0259yy\u0259n etm\u0259si, yax\u0131nl\u0131q tempini t\u0259yin etm\u0259si v\u0259 fantaziyalar\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 üstünlükl\u0259rini aç\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 müzakir\u0259 etm\u0259si daha çox ehtimal olunur.<\/p>\n

Bu, yaln\u0131z klassik yax\u0131nl\u0131q ssenaril\u0259rin\u0259 deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 ünsiyy\u0259t, etibar v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rin qar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ql\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n vacib oldu\u011fu daha geni\u015f cinsi t\u0259crüb\u0259 spektrin\u0259 aiddir.
\nBir çox qad\u0131n üçün bu, onlar\u0131n ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131n sad\u0259c\u0259 "icaz\u0259 verilm\u0259diyi", h\u0259m d\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259n n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk t\u0259crüb\u0259dir.<\/p>\n

"M\u0259n seçilir\u0259m, çünki n\u0259 ist\u0259diyimi bilir\u0259m"<\/strong>
\nB\u0259zi t\u0259dqiqat i\u015ftirakç\u0131lar\u0131 g\u0259nc partnyorlar\u0131n cinsi inamlar\u0131na v\u0259 t\u0259crüb\u0259l\u0259rin\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259r verdikl\u0259rini hiss etdikl\u0259rini t\u0259svir etdil\u0259r. Bu kontekstd\u0259 qad\u0131nlar daha yetkin, emosional c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n m\u0259lumatl\u0131, cinsi c\u0259h\u0259td\u0259n özün\u0259inaml\u0131 v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rini ifad\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259n ç\u0259kinm\u0259y\u0259n kimi q\u0259bul edilirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

B\u0259zi respondentl\u0259r qeyd etdil\u0259r ki, g\u0259nc ki\u015fil\u0259r daha az t\u0259crüb\u0259li h\u0259mya\u015f\u0131dlar\u0131ndan f\u0259rqli olaraq tez-tez bu cür t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015flar axtar\u0131rlar.
\nT\u0259dqiqatç\u0131 h\u0259mçinin b\u0259zi g\u0259nc ki\u015fil\u0259r üçün bu cür münasib\u0259tl\u0259rin daha strukturla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f v\u0259 özün\u0259inaml\u0131 cinsi t\u0259crüb\u0259 qazanma\u011f\u0131n bir yolu ola bil\u0259c\u0259yini ir\u0259li sürür.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Romantik münasib\u0259tl\u0259r çoxdan köhn\u0259 qaydalar\u0131 pozub. Bu yax\u0131nlarda "tipik ssenari" hesab edil\u0259n \u015fey indi qad\u0131nlar üçün getdikc\u0259 daha çox \u015füurlu seçim\u0259 çevrilir, t\u0259xribat kimi deyil, münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 daha çox azadl\u0131q, özün\u0259inam…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[100],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-243821","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-diger"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243821","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=243821"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/243821\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=243821"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=243821"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=243821"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}