{"id":229488,"date":"2025-08-27T00:41:23","date_gmt":"2025-08-26T20:41:23","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=229488","title":{"rendered":"Niy\u0259 b\u0259zi insanlar \u00f6p\u00fc\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259n imtina edirl\u0259r"},"content":{"rendered":"

Bir öpü\u015f h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 dodaqlara toxunmaqdan daha çox \u015feydir. Bu, inc\u0259lik jesti, ehtiras\u0131n t\u0259zahürü, etibar \u0259lam\u0259ti v\u0259 ya h\u0259tta yax\u0131nla\u015fma\u011fa imkan ver\u0259nl\u0259r aras\u0131nda bir növ "raz\u0131l\u0131q" ola bil\u0259r.
\nRomantik münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 öpü\u015fm\u0259k çox vaxt \u0259n intim an hesab olunur. B\u0259s niy\u0259 b\u0259zi insanlar t\u0259sadüfi cinsi \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259 bu jestd\u0259n imtina edirl\u0259r, hans\u0131 ki, müasir c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259 çoxdan tabu olmaqdan ç\u0131x\u0131b.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 Psychology Today ara\u015f\u0131d\u0131rb.
\nYax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n simvolu kimi öpü\u015f<\/strong>
\nM\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259td\u0259 öpü\u015f dem\u0259k olar ki, \u0259sl yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u015far\u0259si kimi q\u0259bul edilir. Bir çox cütlükd\u0259 münasib\u0259tl\u0259rin yeni s\u0259viyy\u0259y\u0259 keçdiyini göst\u0259r\u0259n seks deyil, öpü\u015fdür.
\nAncaq b\u0259zi insanlar üçün v\u0259ziyy\u0259t f\u0259rqlidir. T\u0259sadüfi seks\u0259 haz\u0131rd\u0131rlar, amma öpü\u015fm\u0259y\u0259 yox. V\u0259 burada s\u0259b\u0259b ehtiras\u0131n olmamas\u0131 deyil, fiziki h\u0259zzi emosional yax\u0131nl\u0131qdan ay\u0131ran bir növ psixoloji “x\u0259tt”dir. 
\nÖpü\u015fm\u0259d\u0259n seks<\/strong>
\nB\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar t\u0259sadüfi bir partnyorla cinsi \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259 ola bildikl\u0259rini etiraf edirl\u0259r, lakin öpü\u015f\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. Bu, onlar üçün çox \u015f\u0259xsidir. Dig\u0259rl\u0259ri is\u0259 \u0259ksin\u0259 qeyd edirl\u0259r ki, h\u0259tta q\u0131sa görü\u015fl\u0259ri daha ehtirasl\u0131 ed\u0259n öpü\u015fdür.
\nSeks i\u015find\u0259 v\u0259ziyy\u0259t daha ayd\u0131nd\u0131r. S\u0259nayenin bir çox i\u015fçisi mü\u015ft\u0259ril\u0259rin dodaqlar\u0131ndan öpm\u0259kd\u0259n imtina edir, çünki bu, satma\u011fa haz\u0131r olmayan "h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q yax\u0131nl\u0131q" hesab olunur. Eyni zamanda, "q\u0131z yolda\u015f\u0131 t\u0259crüb\u0259si" adlanan fenomen ortaya ç\u0131xd\u0131 – mü\u015ft\u0259ril\u0259r xüsusi olaraq yaln\u0131z seks deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 öpü\u015fl\u0259r, qucaqla\u015fmalar, inc\u0259lik sifari\u015f etdikd\u0259, heç olmasa bir anl\u0131q münasib\u0259td\u0259 olduqlar\u0131n\u0131 hiss etm\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar.
\nBunu “m\u0259hdud orijinall\u0131q” adland\u0131rmaq olar, insanlar sanki emosional yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 al\u0131b sat\u0131rlar, \u0259sl sevgi illüziyas\u0131n\u0131 yarad\u0131rlar.
\nNiy\u0259 öpü\u015fm\u0259kd\u0259n ç\u0259kinirik?<\/strong>
\nH\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q yax\u0131nl\u0131q qorxusu. Öpü\u015f seksd\u0259n daha intim bir \u015fey kimi q\u0259bul edilir. Çoxlar\u0131 üçün d\u0259rin hissl\u0259ri olmayan bir insanla keçm\u0259k ist\u0259m\u0259dikl\u0259ri x\u0259tt dodaqlard\u0131r.
\nDuy\u011fulara n\u0259zar\u0259t. Seks t\u0259sadüfi olduqda, insanlar ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131q hissind\u0259n qaçma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bir öpü\u015f inc\u0259lik illüziyas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r, sonra onu atmaq ç\u0259tin olacaq.
\nNifr\u0259t hissi. B\u0259zil\u0259ri etiraf edirl\u0259r ki, emosional \u0259laq\u0259si olmayan frans\u0131z öpü\u015fü (dill\u0259) onlar üçün cinsi \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259n daha “çirkli” görünür.
\nSosial ssenaril\u0259r. M\u0259d\u0259niyy\u0259td\u0259 tez-tez bel\u0259 bir fikir var ki, öpü\u015fl\u0259r “özününkü”, cütlük üçündür, seks is\u0259 h\u0259zz almaq üçün “texniki” bir yol ola bil\u0259r.
\nN\u0259tic\u0259d\u0259 m\u0259lum olur ki, t\u0259sadüfi seksd\u0259 öpü\u015f sad\u0259c\u0259 bir h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t deyil, seçimdir. B\u0259zil\u0259ri üçün bu, emosiyalar olmadan keçm\u0259y\u0259 haz\u0131r olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir x\u0259ttdir. Dig\u0259rl\u0259ri üçün bu, h\u0259tta sür\u0259tli görü\u015fü canl\u0131 v\u0259 dol\u011fun etm\u0259k üçün bir yoldur.
\nV\u0259 bunda “do\u011fru” v\u0259 ya “yanl\u0131\u015f” yoxdur. Ax\u0131, yax\u0131nl\u0131q h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 b\u0259d\u0259n, duy\u011fular v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsi s\u0259rh\u0259dl\u0259r aras\u0131ndak\u0131 tarazl\u0131qdan ibar\u0259tdir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bir öpü\u015f h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 dodaqlara toxunmaqdan daha çox \u015feydir. Bu, inc\u0259lik jesti, ehtiras\u0131n t\u0259zahürü, etibar \u0259lam\u0259ti v\u0259 ya h\u0259tta yax\u0131nla\u015fma\u011fa imkan ver\u0259nl\u0259r aras\u0131nda bir növ "raz\u0131l\u0131q" ola bil\u0259r. Romantik münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 öpü\u015fm\u0259k…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[97],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-229488","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maraqli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229488","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=229488"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229488\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=229488"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=229488"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=229488"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}