{"id":229487,"date":"2025-08-27T07:50:23","date_gmt":"2025-08-27T03:50:23","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=229487","title":{"rendered":"Eyni t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015flar\u0131 se\u00e7m\u0259yiniz \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn \u00fc\u00e7 s\u0259b\u0259b"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u0259hv etm\u0259k insan t\u0259bi\u0259tidir. Xüsusil\u0259 g\u0259nclikd\u0259. A\u015fiq olmaq, romantik hissl\u0259r b\u0259z\u0259n q\u0259ddar bir zarafat oynay\u0131r v\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015fda x\u0259yal q\u0131r\u0131ql\u0131\u011f\u0131na v\u0259 münasib\u0259tl\u0259rin pozulmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, ancaq t\u0259nhal\u0131q nadir hallarda uzan\u0131r v\u0259 tezlikl\u0259 bir insan yeni bir t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f tap\u0131r, indi h\u0259r \u015feyin f\u0259rqli olaca\u011f\u0131na \u0259mindir. Amma…
\nBir müdd\u0259t sonra m\u0259lum olur ki, yeni seçilmi\u015f \u0259vv\u0259lkil\u0259rd\u0259n heç bir f\u0259rqi yoxdur. Bu, “bütün ki\u015fil\u0259r \u0259clafd\u0131r” v\u0259 ya “arvad d\u0259yi\u015fm\u0259k sad\u0259c\u0259 vaxt itkisidir” v\u0259 u\u011fursuz t\u0259sadüf\u0259 gör\u0259 ba\u015f vermir.
\nBirind\u0259n ayr\u0131lan insanlar\u0131n yenid\u0259n keçmi\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259r bir t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f seçm\u0259l\u0259rinin bir neç\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259bi var. Eyni tip xarakter, davran\u0131\u015f, \u0259d\u0259b, h\u0259yata bax\u0131\u015f, b\u0259z\u0259n h\u0259tta xarici görünü\u015fl\u0259. Bu n\u0259dir – tale, t\u0259qdir, \u015füurlu v\u0259 ya \u015füursuz seçim? B\u0259lk\u0259 d\u0259 bu suallar\u0131n cavab\u0131 g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 keçmi\u015fin s\u0259hvl\u0259rini t\u0259krarlamama\u011fa köm\u0259k ed\u0259c\u0259k.<\/p>\n

\u018fn sevdiyim ölçü<\/strong>
\nTan\u0131\u015f xüsusiyy\u0259tl\u0259r, davran\u0131\u015f nümun\u0259l\u0259ri, v\u0259rdi\u015fl\u0259r v\u0259 ümumi maraqlar tan\u0131nma effektini yarad\u0131r. H\u0259r \u015fey ayd\u0131nd\u0131r, izah edil\u0259 bil\u0259r, parametrl\u0259rin d\u0259yi\u015fdirilm\u0259sini v\u0259 buna gör\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q s\u0259yl\u0259ri t\u0259l\u0259b etmir. Yeni t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f eynidir, yaln\u0131z daha yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r.
\nO, bizim b\u0259y\u0259ndiyimiz h\u0259r \u015fey\u0259 sahibdir v\u0259 siz çat\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qlar\u0131 görm\u0259m\u0259zlikd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259rsiniz. Onlar kimd\u0259 yoxdur? Üst\u0259lik, onlar “o keçi” v\u0259 ya “o qoyun” kimi a\u015fkar v\u0259 q\u0259buledilm\u0259z deyill\u0259r.
\nH\u0259r \u015feyin \u0259n az\u0131 üçd\u0259 biri gerç\u0259kl\u0259\u015fsin<\/strong>
\n\u018fvv\u0259lki münasib\u0259ti ideala yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131rmaq v\u0259 ya heç olmasa rahat etm\u0259k üçün çox s\u0259y göst\u0259rdik. Amma görünür, n\u0259y\u0259s\u0259 vaxt\u0131m\u0131z yox idi, bacarmad\u0131q, çata bilm\u0259dik v\u0259 keç\u0259 bilm\u0259dik. Yeni bir obyekt, yar\u0131mç\u0131q qalan \u015feyl\u0259r üz\u0259rind\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k üçün bir s\u0259b\u0259bdir.
\nKeçmi\u015f v\u0259ziyy\u0259t\u0259 qay\u0131tmaq v\u0259 onu yax\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011fa çevirm\u0259k üçün \u015füursuz bir c\u0259hd çox yayg\u0131n bir hekay\u0259dir. Bir insan itirilmi\u015f hissl\u0259ri yenid\u0259n ya\u015famaq, \u0259vv\u0259lki münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259ki s\u0259hvl\u0259ri düz\u0259ltm\u0259k v\u0259 sevil\u0259n bir insanla sonsuza q\u0259d\u0259r xo\u015fb\u0259xt olmaqdan zövq almaq ist\u0259yi il\u0259 idar\u0259 olunur.
\nBa\u015fqa bir, bir q\u0259d\u0259r ox\u015far, motiv var – bir insan, keçmi\u015fin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259r bir t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f seç\u0259r\u0259k, \u015füuralt\u0131 olaraq özün\u0259 v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131na n\u0259yis\u0259 sübut etm\u0259k üçün yeni \u015fansdan istifad\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015f\u0131r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, onun haql\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131. Biz buna gör\u0259 kimis\u0259 müzakir\u0259 etm\u0259k v\u0259 ya q\u0131namaq öhd\u0259liyi götürmürük, sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq fakt\u0131 bildiririk. Bununla nec\u0259 ya\u015famaq olar – özünüz q\u0259rar verin.
\nÖyr\u0259nilm\u0259mi\u015f d\u0259rsl\u0259r ölk\u0259sind\u0259<\/strong>
\nBu da ba\u015f verir (psixoloqlar çoxlu misallar ver\u0259 bil\u0259r) – insan qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f görür, onun keçmi\u015fin\u0259 b\u0259nz\u0259diyini anlay\u0131r. Davran\u0131\u015flar, ifad\u0259l\u0259r, davran\u0131\u015flar, günd\u0259lik üstünlükl\u0259r v\u0259 h\u0259tta qoxu. Münasib\u0259tin yax\u015f\u0131 bir \u015fey\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u0259vv\u0259lc\u0259d\u0259n güman edir, amma …
\nM\u0259ntiqin \u0259ksin\u0259 olaraq "n\u0259 olarsa!" ba\u015f\u0131nda yaran\u0131r<\/strong>
\nPrinsipc\u0259 – \u0259vv\u0259ll\u0259r yax\u015f\u0131 idi. Keçmi\u015fi qaytara bilm\u0259zs\u0259n, amma ba\u015fqa, f\u0259rqli, lakin b\u0259nz\u0259r bir insanla yenid\u0259n c\u0259hd ed\u0259 bil\u0259rs\u0259n!
\nB\u0259s bir d\u0259f\u0259 n\u0259tic\u0259 verm\u0259s\u0259ydi, iki d\u0259f\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259s\u0259ydi… gec-tez b\u0259xtiniz g\u0259tirm\u0259lidir! Bel\u0259likl\u0259, h\u0259yat biz\u0259 heç n\u0259 öyr\u0259tm\u0259diyini öyr\u0259dir.
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S\u0259hv etm\u0259k insan t\u0259bi\u0259tidir. Xüsusil\u0259 g\u0259nclikd\u0259. A\u015fiq olmaq, romantik hissl\u0259r b\u0259z\u0259n q\u0259ddar bir zarafat oynay\u0131r v\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015fda x\u0259yal q\u0131r\u0131ql\u0131\u011f\u0131na v\u0259 münasib\u0259tl\u0259rin pozulmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur. Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, ancaq t\u0259nhal\u0131q…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-229487","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229487","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=229487"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/229487\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=229487"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=229487"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=229487"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}