{"id":223776,"date":"2025-05-20T09:14:34","date_gmt":"2025-05-20T05:14:34","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=223776","title":{"rendered":"Niy\u0259 qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n daha \u00e7ox t\u0259k qalma\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7irl\u0259r?"},"content":{"rendered":"

C\u0259miyy\u0259t \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi olaraq qad\u0131n\u0131n ail\u0259 rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 üçün s\u0259y göst\u0259rm\u0259li v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 olaca\u011f\u0131 romantik t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f\u0131 gözl\u0259m\u0259li oldu\u011funa inan\u0131r. Yaln\u0131z i\u015f, hobbi v\u0259 ya dostlar\u0131 il\u0259 ünsiyy\u0259tl\u0259 kifay\u0259tl\u0259n\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n daha çox qad\u0131nlar üçün t\u0259kliyin daha böyük problem olmas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 bir stereotip var.
\nDo\u011frudanm\u0131 bu fikirl\u0259r müasir reall\u0131\u011fa v\u0259 dünyagörü\u015fün\u0259 uy\u011fundur v\u0259 h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259nmi qad\u0131nlar ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n daha çox romantik münasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 can at\u0131rlar? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 PsychologyToday m\u0259lumat yay\u0131b.<\/p>\n

Qad\u0131nlar yaln\u0131zl\u0131qlar\u0131nda xo\u015fb\u0259xtdirl\u0259r
\nQ\u0259rib\u0259dir ki, subay qad\u0131nlar çox vaxt subay ki\u015fil\u0259r\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n statuslar\u0131ndan daha çox h\u0259zz al\u0131rlar. Qad\u0131nlar çox vaxt t\u0259klikd\u0259n h\u0259zz al\u0131r v\u0259 yeni t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f tapmaq üçün t\u0259cili ehtiyac hiss etmirl\u0259r. Onlar h\u0259m d\u0259 sadiq münasib\u0259td\u0259 olmad\u0131qda v\u0259 ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 h\u0259yatdan h\u0259zz ald\u0131qlar\u0131nda cinsi bax\u0131mdan daha çox m\u0259mnun olurlar.
\nÜst\u0259lik, h\u0259tta münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 olsa da, qad\u0131nlar ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n daha yüks\u0259k s\u0259viyy\u0259d\u0259 h\u0259yat m\u0259mnuniyy\u0259ti bildirirl\u0259r. Ancaq bu, onlar\u0131n romantik münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259n daha çox raz\u0131 olduqlar\u0131 anlam\u0131na g\u0259lmir – bu bax\u0131mdan onlar ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n heç bir f\u0259rqi yoxdur. Çoxlar\u0131 qeyd edir ki, onlar subay h\u0259yatlar\u0131ndan kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r raz\u0131d\u0131rlar v\u0259 romantik t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f tapmaqda çox da maraql\u0131 deyill\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Niy\u0259 subay qad\u0131nlar daha xo\u015fb\u0259xtdir
\nNiy\u0259 subayl\u0131\u011f\u0131n qad\u0131nlar üçün ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n daha yax\u015f\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131n bir neç\u0259 mümkün izah\u0131 var.
\nBirincisi, ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 qad\u0131nlar daha çox sosial \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ri qoruyur v\u0259 dostluq münasib\u0259tl\u0259ri qurma\u011fa daha çox meyllidirl\u0259r. Bu, onlara z\u0259ngin sosial h\u0259yat sürm\u0259y\u0259 v\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015fa daha az ehtiyac hiss etm\u0259y\u0259 imkan verir. Qad\u0131nlar heteroseksual münasib\u0259tl\u0259ri özl\u0259ri üçün daha az faydal\u0131 hesab edirl\u0259r, çünki onlar ad\u0259t\u0259n daha çox ev i\u015fl\u0259ri görürl\u0259r.
\nQad\u0131nlar\u0131n g\u0259lirl\u0259ri t\u0259dric\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259rinkin\u0259 yax\u0131nla\u015fd\u0131qca, onlar\u0131n evlilikd\u0259n \u0259ld\u0259 etdiyi maddi fayda azal\u0131r. Subay ki\u015fil\u0259r ortaql\u0131\u011fa gir\u0259nd\u0259 daha çox iqtisadi fayda \u0259ld\u0259 edirl\u0259r. Bu, b\u0259zi qad\u0131nlar\u0131n, \u0259ksin\u0259, t\u0259kba\u015f\u0131na ya\u015fayark\u0259n niy\u0259 maddi müst\u0259qillik ya\u015famalar\u0131n\u0131 da izah ed\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Qad\u0131nlar öz azadl\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 özl\u0259rini realla\u015fd\u0131rmaq imkanlar\u0131n\u0131 qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirirl\u0259r
\nQad\u0131n nöqteyi-n\u0259z\u0259rind\u0259n subay h\u0259yatda mühüm rolu t\u0259kc\u0259 sosial \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259r deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 öz m\u0259nafeyini realla\u015fd\u0131rmaq imkan\u0131, t\u0259nqid\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalmadan, n\u0259yis\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 icaz\u0259 verm\u0259d\u0259n, ist\u0259diyi kimi ya\u015famaq azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u0259y\u0259rl\u0259ndirm\u0259k imkan\u0131 oynay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, qad\u0131nlar öz maraqlar\u0131na, hobbil\u0259rin\u0259, t\u0259hsill\u0259rin\u0259 v\u0259 ya i\u015fl\u0259rin\u0259 daha çox vaxt s\u0259rf etm\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r v\u0259 eyni zamanda onlar üçün vacib olan insanlarla yax\u0131n dostluq münasib\u0259tl\u0259rini davam etdirm\u0259k \u015fanslar\u0131 daha yüks\u0259kdir. Ev i\u015fl\u0259ri d\u0259 onlar üçün problem deyil, çünki bir çoxlar\u0131 yem\u0259k bi\u015firm\u0259k v\u0259 t\u0259mizlik kimi ev i\u015fl\u0259rinin vacibliyini d\u0259rk ed\u0259r\u0259k böyümü\u015fl\u0259r, ona gör\u0259 d\u0259 müst\u0259qil ya\u015famaq çox vaxt onlar üçün daha t\u0259bii görünür.<\/p>\n

Gender stereotipl\u0259ri v\u0259 cinsi h\u0259zz
\nM\u0259lum olub ki, qad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti münasib\u0259tl\u0259rd\u0259 cinsi ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131n çox vaxt laz\u0131m\u0131nca qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirilm\u0259diyini hiss edir. Ancaq subay h\u0259yatda cinsi m\u0259mnunluq m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259si f\u0259rqli bir m\u0259na k\u0259sb edir, burada qad\u0131nlar öz ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 daha yax\u015f\u0131 öd\u0259y\u0259 bilirl\u0259r v\u0259 ya bel\u0259 bir ehtiyac hiss etm\u0259dikd\u0259 onlara sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq xüsusi diqq\u0259t yetirmirl\u0259r. Subay insanlar aras\u0131nda seçim aspekti xüsusil\u0259 qiym\u0259tlidir: cinsi h\u0259yat\u0131n intensivliyini v\u0259 formas\u0131n\u0131 seçm\u0259k, el\u0259c\u0259 d\u0259 h\u0259r hans\u0131 t\u0259zyiqd\u0259n qaçmaq bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131.<\/p>\n

Xo\u015fb\u0259xt subay ki\u015fil\u0259r
\nÜmumi tendensiyaya baxmayaraq, subay h\u0259yatlar\u0131ndan zövq alan ki\u015fil\u0259r d\u0259 az deyil. Onlar öz azadl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, müst\u0259qilliyini, t\u0259k qalmaq qabiliyy\u0259tini, günd\u0259lik v\u0259zif\u0259l\u0259rini yerin\u0259 yetir\u0259rk\u0259n partnyorunun köm\u0259yin\u0259 arxalanmamaq v\u0259 sosiall\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 qoruyub saxlamaq qabiliyy\u0259tini yüks\u0259k qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndirirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 ki\u015fil\u0259r çox vaxt özl\u0259rini "ür\u0259kd\u0259 t\u0259nha" hesab edir v\u0259 romantik t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f olmadan h\u0259yatdan h\u0259zz al\u0131rlar.
\nBel\u0259 ç\u0131x\u0131r ki, qad\u0131nlar daha çox subay h\u0259yat\u0131 seçirl\u0259r, lakin subay olmaq mütl\u0259q ortaql\u0131\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 bir seçim deyil, öz m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259ri, ehtiraslar\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259ri il\u0259 dolu bir h\u0259yat yaratmaq imkan\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u0259miyy\u0259t \u0259n\u0259n\u0259vi olaraq qad\u0131n\u0131n ail\u0259 rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 üçün s\u0259y göst\u0259rm\u0259li v\u0259 h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131n m\u0259rk\u0259zind\u0259 olaca\u011f\u0131 romantik t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f\u0131 gözl\u0259m\u0259li oldu\u011funa inan\u0131r. Yaln\u0131z i\u015f, hobbi v\u0259 ya dostlar\u0131 il\u0259 ünsiyy\u0259tl\u0259 kifay\u0259tl\u0259n\u0259n ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n daha çox…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-223776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/223776","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=223776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/223776\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=223776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=223776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=223776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}