{"id":223540,"date":"2025-05-16T00:55:37","date_gmt":"2025-05-15T20:55:37","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=223540","title":{"rendered":"Uzunm\u00fcdd\u0259tli m\u00fcnasib\u0259td\u0259 cinsiyy\u0259t v\u0259 ehtiraslar\u0131 nec\u0259 saxlamaq olar:"},"content":{"rendered":"

Seksuall\u0131q verilmi\u015f deyil, praktikad\u0131r. Ehtiras ya var, ya da olmayan bir q\u0131\u011f\u0131lc\u0131m deyil, odun, oksigen v\u0259 m\u0259kana ehtiyac\u0131 olan bir at\u0259\u015fdir.
\nCinsi q\u0131\u011f\u0131lc\u0131m\u0131 uzunmüdd\u0259tli \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 saxlamaq mümkündür. Ancaq bunun üçün t\u0259kc\u0259 hissl\u0259r deyil, h\u0259m d\u0259 s\u0259y, dürüstlük, özünüzü v\u0259 t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 t\u0259krar-t\u0259krar ara\u015fd\u0131rmaq ist\u0259yi laz\u0131md\u0131r. 10, 20 v\u0259 ya h\u0259tta 30 ild\u0259n sonra evlilikd\u0259 seks dar\u0131xd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 v\u0259 ya tamamil\u0259 yox olmaq m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 deyil. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, Amerika Cinsi Sa\u011flaml\u0131q Assosiasiyas\u0131 nikah\u0131n\u0131zda v\u0259 ya uzunmüdd\u0259tli t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131, seksuall\u0131\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 d\u0259rin \u0259laq\u0259ni qoruma\u011f\u0131n\u0131za köm\u0259k etm\u0259k üçün be\u015f t\u0259sirli m\u0259sl\u0259h\u0259t payla\u015f\u0131b.<\/p>\n

D\u0259rhal t\u0259rk etm\u0259yin – bir az daha qal\u0131n
\nH\u0259r cütlüyün yor\u011funluq, soyuma v\u0259 ya h\u0259tta m\u0259yusluq anlar\u0131 olur. Geri ç\u0259kilm\u0259k ist\u0259yi t\u0259bii bir reaksiyad\u0131r. Amma m\u0259hz bu m\u0259qamlarda münasib\u0259tl\u0259rin yeni s\u0259viyy\u0259sinin t\u0259m\u0259li qoyulur. Böhranlar\u0131 s\u0259birli v\u0259 aç\u0131q \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ya\u015fayan h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n g\u0259l\u0259c\u0259kd\u0259 cinsi m\u0259mnunluq s\u0259viyy\u0259si daha yüks\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n

“T\u0259slim olmaq” \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259, münasib\u0259td\u0259 qalma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015f\u0131n v\u0259 özünüzd\u0259n soru\u015fun: M\u0259nd\u0259 n\u0259 d\u0259yi\u015fir? indi m\u0259n\u0259 n\u0259 laz\u0131md\u0131r? Çox vaxt f\u0131rt\u0131nadan sonra yaln\u0131z sakitlik deyil, yeni bir arzu g\u0259lir.<\/p>\n

Erotik m\u0259xfilik üçün bir yer yarad\u0131n
\n\u018fn intim cütlükl\u0259r özl\u0259ri üçün mü\u0259yy\u0259n bir yer saxlay\u0131rlar. Bu, paradoksal ola bil\u0259r, amma raz\u0131la\u015fd\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f qaydalar ç\u0259rçiv\u0259sind\u0259 m\u0259hz f\u0259rdi cinsi azadl\u0131q yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u0259\u015fviq edir.
\nPsixoloji olaraq buna erotik muxtariyy\u0259t deyilir. Ehtiras tam birl\u0259\u015fm\u0259d\u0259n deyil, mü\u0259yy\u0259n bir “m\u0259saf\u0259d\u0259n” yaran\u0131r. Öz fantaziyalar\u0131n\u0131za, öz erotik rituallar\u0131n\u0131za sahib olmaq bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131 – onlar\u0131 payla\u015fmasan\u0131z bel\u0259 – seksuall\u0131\u011f\u0131n daxili al\u0259mini gücl\u0259ndirir, sonra is\u0259 cütlükl\u0259r\u0259 qay\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu ola bil\u0259r:
\nöz b\u0259d\u0259ninin müst\u0259qil k\u0259\u015ffi;
\nerotik filml\u0259r\u0259 baxmaq;
\narzu günd\u0259liyini saxlamaq;
\nh\u0259yata keçirm\u0259k m\u0259cburiyy\u0259tind\u0259 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z fantaziyalar, lakin onlar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 q\u0259bul etm\u0259k.
\nQ\u0259sd\u0259n cinsi \u0259laq\u0259: h\u0259v\u0259si gözl\u0259m\u0259yin, onu yarad\u0131n<\/p>\n

Seksd\u0259 kort\u0259biilik göz\u0259l bir \u015feydir, amma t\u0259k \u015fey deyil. Uzun müdd\u0259tli cütl\u0259rin \u0259ks\u0259riyy\u0259ti 5-7 illik \u0259laq\u0259d\u0259n sonra spontan cinsi \u0259laq\u0259nin nadir hala g\u0259ldiyini bildirir. Bu yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Bunun \u0259v\u0259zin\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259dyönlü yax\u0131nl\u0131q i\u015fl\u0259yir.<\/p>\n

Yax\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ax\u015fam yem\u0259yi v\u0259 ya görü\u015fl\u0259 eyni \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 planla\u015fd\u0131rmaq daha yax\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. M\u0259cburi davam etm\u0259d\u0259n \u015f\u0259hv\u0259tli masaj, ortaq du\u015f, qucaqla\u015fma ax\u015fam\u0131 edin.
\nCinsi ist\u0259yin daimi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 bunun normal oldu\u011funu q\u0259bul edin.<\/p>\n

Ehtiras dayan\u0131ql\u0131 bir alov deyil. \u018fn isti cütlükl\u0259rd\u0259 bel\u0259 soyutma dövrl\u0259ri var. Bu, \u0259laq\u0259nin bitdiyini deyil, yaln\u0131z yeni bir m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259ni göst\u0259rir. \u018fn dözümlü cütlükl\u0259r cinsi “pauzalar” zaman\u0131 panikaya dü\u015fm\u0259y\u0259n, lakin onlarla nec\u0259 i\u015fl\u0259m\u0259yi bil\u0259nl\u0259rdir.<\/p>\n

Arzu itibs\u0259, m\u0259cbur etm\u0259yin. Özünüzd\u0259n soru\u015fun: M\u0259nim ist\u0259yimi n\u0259 azald\u0131b? Stress, inciklik v\u0259 ya sad\u0259c\u0259 yor\u011funluq ola bil\u0259r.
\nSeksuall\u0131q öz b\u0259d\u0259niniz\u0259 sevgi il\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r
\n\u018fsl erotizm t\u0259kc\u0259 partnyorla ba\u011fl\u0131 deyil, h\u0259r \u015feyd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l insan\u0131n öz fizikiliyi v\u0259 özünü q\u0259bul etm\u0259si il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Bir çox qad\u0131n, xüsus\u0259n d\u0259 ya\u015fland\u0131qca, b\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259yi\u015fiklikl\u0259ri, özün\u0259 inam itkisi v\u0259 hormonal dal\u011falanmalar ya\u015fay\u0131r.<\/p>\n

"Cinsi \u0259laq\u0259ni geri qaytarmaqdan" \u0259vv\u0259l, cins\u0259lliyi özünüz\u0259 qaytarmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. B\u0259d\u0259nin f\u0259rqin\u0259 varma t\u0259crüb\u0259l\u0259ri – yoqa, b\u0259d\u0259n terapiyas\u0131, r\u0259qs, mastürbasyon – özünüzü yenid\u0259n canl\u0131, h\u0259ssas v\u0259 arzuolunan hiss etm\u0259y\u0259 köm\u0259k edir.
\nBu, yer v\u0259 d\u0259st\u0259k t\u0259l\u0259b ed\u0259n d\u0259rin bir prosesdir. Bir t\u0259r\u0259fda\u015f\u0131n bir qad\u0131n\u0131n bu yola sahib olmas\u0131na icaz\u0259 verm\u0259si, f\u0259rqli v\u0259 h\u0259l\u0259 d\u0259 sevilm\u0259k hüququ il\u0259 ona etibar etm\u0259si vacibdir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Seksuall\u0131q verilmi\u015f deyil, praktikad\u0131r. Ehtiras ya var, ya da olmayan bir q\u0131\u011f\u0131lc\u0131m deyil, odun, oksigen v\u0259 m\u0259kana ehtiyac\u0131 olan bir at\u0259\u015fdir. Cinsi q\u0131\u011f\u0131lc\u0131m\u0131 uzunmüdd\u0259tli \u0259laq\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 saxlamaq mümkündür. Ancaq bunun üçün…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[100],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-223540","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diger"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/223540","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=223540"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/223540\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=223540"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=223540"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=223540"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}