{"id":205679,"date":"2024-07-17T06:35:16","date_gmt":"2024-07-17T02:35:16","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=205679","title":{"rendered":"D\u0131rnaq yem\u0259 x\u0259st\u0259liyinin s\u0259b\u0259bi bu ola bil\u0259r!"},"content":{"rendered":"

D\u0131rnaq yem\u0259 u\u015faqlarda tez-tez rast g\u0259lin\u0259n uy\u011funla\u015fma pozuntusudur. U\u015faqlar\u0131n 30% v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin 45% -ind\u0259 mü\u015fahid\u0259 olunan v\u0259rdi\u015f poz\u011funlu\u011fudur. Emosional çat\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qlar\u0131 olan 4 ya\u015fdan yuxar\u0131 u\u015faqlarda daha çox rast g\u0259linir v\u0259 çox vaxt u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n özünü etibars\u0131z hiss etdiyini göst\u0259rir. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, müt\u0259x\u0259ssis klinik psixoloq Müjde Yah\u015fi mövzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli m\u0259lumatlar verib.
\nQarda\u015f q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011f\u0131, duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131 ifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259, ail\u0259d\u0259 zülmkar v\u0259 avtoritar münasib\u0259t, danlamaq v\u0259 daim t\u0259nqid edilm\u0259k, kifay\u0259t q\u0259d\u0259r diqq\u0259t v\u0259 sevgi görm\u0259m\u0259k, güclü narahatl\u0131q d\u0131rnaq di\u015fl\u0259m\u0259nin \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259ndir.<\/p>\n

 Bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n formala\u015fmas\u0131nda valideynl\u0259rin bir-biri il\u0259 münasib\u0259tl\u0259ri v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa münasib\u0259ti mühüm rol oynay\u0131r, çünki bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n \u0259sas s\u0259b\u0259bi valideyn münaqi\u015f\u0259l\u0259ri v\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259zyiqçi v\u0259 ya qoruyucu yana\u015fmalard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, valideynl\u0259rinin mübahis\u0259sin\u0259 \u015fahid olan u\u015faq güclü stress keçirir v\u0259 özünü t\u0259hlük\u0259siz hiss etmir, buna gör\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faq d\u0131rnaqlar\u0131n\u0131 di\u015fl\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k stresin öhd\u0259sind\u0259n g\u0259lm\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015fa bil\u0259r.
\nBundan \u0259lav\u0259, valideynin h\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q qoruyucu v\u0259 narahat münasib\u0259ti u\u015faqda özün\u0259 inams\u0131zl\u0131q hissi yarada bil\u0259r, ona gör\u0259 d\u0259 bir müdd\u0259t sonra u\u015faq d\u0131rnaqlar\u0131n\u0131 di\u015fl\u0259y\u0259r\u0259k köçürülmü\u015f narahatç\u0131l\u0131qdan xilas olma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015fa bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Bundan \u0259lav\u0259, valideynl\u0259rin övladlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda \u0259dal\u0259tli davranmamas\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n görül\u0259n bac\u0131-qarda\u015f q\u0131sqancl\u0131\u011f\u0131 da u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 d\u0131rnaqaras\u0131 davran\u0131\u015fa sövq ed\u0259 bil\u0259r.
\nH\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 s\u0259hv ed\u0259nd\u0259 t\u0259nqidl\u0259r\u0259 m\u0259ruz qalan u\u015faq özünü laz\u0131ms\u0131z v\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259rsiz hiss edir, ed\u0259c\u0259yi bir i\u015fd\u0259 “m\u0259n bacara bilm\u0259r\u0259m” dü\u015fünc\u0259si u\u015faqda özün\u0259 inams\u0131zl\u0131q hissi yarada bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Eyni \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 zal\u0131m bir ail\u0259nin münasib\u0259ti u\u015faqda güv\u0259nsizlik hissi yarada bil\u0259r, buna gör\u0259 d\u0259 u\u015faq d\u0131rnaq yem\u0259 davran\u0131\u015fa \u0259l ataraq özünü rahatlama\u011fa çal\u0131\u015fa bil\u0259r.
\n\u018fg\u0259r u\u015faq 4 ya\u015f\u0131ndan kiçik d\u0131rnaqlar\u0131n\u0131 di\u015fl\u0259yirs\u0259, bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi ümumiyy\u0259tl\u0259 t\u0259qlid ola bil\u0259r, çünki u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n inki\u015faf dövrün\u0259 gör\u0259 bu ya\u015fda olan u\u015faqlar modell\u0259\u015fdirm\u0259 yolu il\u0259 öyr\u0259nirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259nin h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir üzvü d\u0131rnaq yem\u0259m\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 nümayi\u015f etdirirs\u0259, bu, u\u015faqdan yan keçm\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259r v\u0259 u\u015faq q\u0131sa müdd\u0259td\u0259 h\u0259min davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 t\u0259krarlaya bil\u0259r. T\u0259krarlanan davran\u0131\u015flara qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259dbir görülm\u0259zs\u0259, bu t\u0259krarlanan davran\u0131\u015f zamanla v\u0259rdi\u015f\u0259 çevril\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

\u018fg\u0259r u\u015faq t\u0259qlid s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n d\u0131rnaqlar\u0131n\u0131 yem\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131rsa, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t verilm\u0259m\u0259li v\u0259 diqq\u0259ti ba\u015fqa sah\u0259y\u0259 yön\u0259ldilm\u0259lidir. \u018fg\u0259r bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 v\u0259rdi\u015f hal\u0131na g\u0259tir\u0259n \u015f\u0259xs valideynl\u0259rd\u0259ndirs\u0259, ilk növb\u0259d\u0259 bu mövzuda t\u0259dbir görülm\u0259lidir.
\nY\u0259ni \u0259trafda d\u0131rnaq yem\u0259 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 göst\u0259r\u0259n bir yetkin oldu\u011fu müdd\u0259tc\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n da bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 göst\u0259rm\u0259si ehtimal\u0131 yüks\u0259kdir.
\nDavran\u0131\u015f\u0131n s\u0259b\u0259bi psixolojidirs\u0259; Ail\u0259d\u0259 t\u0259zyiq, t\u0259nqidi mühit, bigan\u0259lik, sevgisizlik olub-olmamas\u0131 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 ara\u015fd\u0131rma apar\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n t\u0259krarlanmas\u0131 hal\u0131nda ail\u0259nin bu prosesd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa t\u0259tbiq ed\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259yi \u0259n t\u0259sirli üsul problemli davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 “görm\u0259zlik” etm\u0259kdir.
\nAil\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 danlamaqdan, h\u0259d\u0259l\u0259m\u0259kd\u0259n, c\u0259zaland\u0131rmaqdan mütl\u0259q ç\u0259kinm\u0259lidir, çünki bu m\u0259cburedici üsullar u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015fdan ç\u0259kindirm\u0259y\u0259 bilm\u0259z, \u0259ksin\u0259, ba\u015fqa davran\u0131\u015f pozuntular\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b ola bil\u0259r.\/\/\/cnnturk<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

D\u0131rnaq yem\u0259 u\u015faqlarda tez-tez rast g\u0259lin\u0259n uy\u011funla\u015fma pozuntusudur. U\u015faqlar\u0131n 30% v\u0259 yeniyetm\u0259l\u0259rin 45% -ind\u0259 mü\u015fahid\u0259 olunan v\u0259rdi\u015f poz\u011funlu\u011fudur. Emosional çat\u0131\u015fmazl\u0131qlar\u0131 olan 4 ya\u015fdan yuxar\u0131 u\u015faqlarda daha çox rast g\u0259linir v\u0259…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[100],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-205679","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diger"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/205679","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=205679"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/205679\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=205679"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=205679"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=205679"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}