{"id":203436,"date":"2024-06-05T06:45:42","date_gmt":"2024-06-05T02:45:42","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=203436","title":{"rendered":"\u0130nsan\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l sonuncu d\u0259f\u0259 dediyi"},"content":{"rendered":"

H\u0259r birimizin f\u0259rqli h\u0259yat\u0131 var, amma heç kim ölümd\u0259n s\u0131\u011fortalanmay\u0131b. Pulitzer mükafatl\u0131 mü\u0259llif v\u0259 onkoloq Siddhartha Mukherjee deyir ki, insanlar\u0131n çoxu ölm\u0259zd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l dörd ümumi ifad\u0259d\u0259n birini deyir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, bu bar\u0259d\u0259 CNBC yaz\u0131b. Bel\u0259 anlarda insanlar sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda dem\u0259y\u0259 vaxt tapmad\u0131qlar\u0131 h\u0259r \u015feyi dem\u0259k ist\u0259yirl\u0259r.
\nM\u0259hz:
\n“M\u0259n s\u0259n\u0259 dem\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, s\u0259ni sevir\u0259m”.
\n“S\u0259n\u0259 dem\u0259k ist\u0259yir\u0259m ki, s\u0259ni ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131ram”.
\n“M\u0259ni sevdiyini dey\u0259c\u0259ks\u0259n?”
\n“M\u0259ni ba\u011f\u0131\u015flayacaqsanm\u0131?”<\/strong><\/em>
\nMukherjeey\u0259 gör\u0259, öldüyünü bil\u0259n insanlar ba\u015fqalar\u0131na minn\u0259tdarl\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 göst\u0259rm\u0259k v\u0259 ya s\u0259hvl\u0259rini düz\u0259ltm\u0259k üçün bu dörd mövzudan birinin d\u0259yi\u015fikliyini tez-tez ifad\u0259 edirl\u0259r.
\nMukherjee deyir ki, onlar ill\u0259rl\u0259 kin saxlam\u0131\u015f, h\u0259ll olunmam\u0131\u015f günah hissi il\u0259 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f v\u0259 ya h\u0259ssas olmaqdan qorxmu\u015flar. <\/p>\n

“Sevgi v\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanma, ölüm v\u0259 keçid. Özünü ifad\u0259 etm\u0259k üçün gözl\u0259m\u0259k sad\u0259c\u0259 qaç\u0131lmaz olan\u0131 gecikdirir”, – onkoloq vur\u011fulay\u0131b.
\nO \u0259lav\u0259 edib ki, g\u0259ncl\u0259r bu \u015feyl\u0259r\u0259 ciddi yana\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131rlar, çünki onlar art\u0131q sevgi v\u0259 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flaman\u0131n “m\u0259nas\u0131z, köhn\u0259lmi\u015f bo\u015f sözl\u0259r\u0259 çevrildiyi bir dünyada ya\u015fay\u0131rlar… \u0130nsanlar bu sözl\u0259r\u0259 gülm\u0259yi öyr\u0259nibl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n

Eyni zamanda, kimis\u0259 incitdiyinizl\u0259 bar\u0131\u015fmaq ç\u0259tin ola bil\u0259r. Buna gör\u0259 d\u0259 Harvard Universitetinin K\u0259miyy\u0259t Sosial Elml\u0259r \u0130nstitutunun \u0130nsan Çiç\u0259kl\u0259nm\u0259si Proqram\u0131ndan sosial-\u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t psixoloqu Riçard Kovden köm\u0259k etm\u0259k üçün dörd add\u0131m\u0131 tövsiy\u0259 edir:
\nH\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259riniz üçün m\u0259suliyy\u0259t da\u015f\u0131y\u0131n.
\nÖzünüz\u0259 pe\u015fmanl\u0131q v\u0259 günahkarl\u0131q kimi m\u0259nfi hissl\u0259ri ya\u015fama\u011fa icaz\u0259 verin.
\nS\u0259mimi olaraq ba\u011f\u0131\u015flanma dil\u0259yin v\u0259 düz\u0259li\u015f etm\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015f\u0131n.
\nBu t\u0259crüb\u0259d\u0259n öyr\u0259nin v\u0259 davam edin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

H\u0259r birimizin f\u0259rqli h\u0259yat\u0131 var, amma heç kim ölümd\u0259n s\u0131\u011fortalanmay\u0131b. Pulitzer mükafatl\u0131 mü\u0259llif v\u0259 onkoloq Siddhartha Mukherjee deyir ki, insanlar\u0131n çoxu ölm\u0259zd\u0259n \u0259vv\u0259l dörd ümumi ifad\u0259d\u0259n birini deyir. Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[97],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-203436","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maraqli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/203436","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=203436"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/203436\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=203436"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=203436"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=203436"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}