{"id":201974,"date":"2024-05-13T08:03:03","date_gmt":"2024-05-13T04:03:03","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=201974","title":{"rendered":"30 ya\u015fdan sonra qad\u0131n v\u0259 ki\u015fi tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 niy\u0259 \u00e7\u0259tindir?"},"content":{"rendered":"

30 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r subay ki\u015fil\u0259r v\u0259 qad\u0131nlar üçün can yolda\u015f\u0131 tapmaq daha ç\u0259tindir. Bu, i\u015fd\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaqdan v\u0259 hormonal pik h\u0259ddinin ötm\u0259sind\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259 tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011fa 20 ya\u015f\u0131nda oldu\u011funuz kimi yana\u015fmaq mümkün deyil.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, “Ekoloji psixoloq” Zen kanal\u0131n\u0131n mü\u0259llifi, klinik psixoloq Stanislav Samburski bu bar\u0259d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b.<\/p>\n

“Bunun s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n biri oxunaql\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r. 30 ya\u015f\u0131ndan sonra insan ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 ist\u0259kl\u0259rini ayd\u0131n ba\u015fa dü\u015für. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, qad\u0131n bundan sonra h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 düz dan\u0131\u015fan, v\u0259din\u0259 \u0259m\u0259l ed\u0259n ki\u015fiy\u0259 "tanr\u0131" kimi baxmayacaq. O, \u0259m\u0259ll\u0259ri qiym\u0259tl\u0259ndir\u0259c\u0259k v\u0259 yaln\u0131z h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 inanacaq. Ki\u015fi bax\u0131m t\u0259rzin\u0259, bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131n v\u0259 m\u0259qs\u0259dl\u0259rin ox\u015farl\u0131\u011f\u0131na daha çox diqq\u0259t yetir\u0259c\u0259k. Q\u0131samüdd\u0259tli romanlarla doyma g\u0259lir, siz art\u0131q t\u0259sadüfi bir insana qiym\u0259tli vaxt s\u0259rf etm\u0259k ist\u0259mirsiniz v\u0259 "can yolda\u015f\u0131" axtarmaq vaxt\u0131 g\u0259lir. Ümumi maraqlar güclü birliyin \u0259n vacib elementidir”, – dey\u0259 o, izah edib.<\/p>\n

Keçmi\u015f münasib\u0259tl\u0259rin t\u0259crüb\u0259si d\u0259 iz burax\u0131r v\u0259 s\u0259rb\u0259st tan\u0131\u015f olma\u011fa imkan vermir.<\/p>\n

“Qad\u0131nlar buna daha çox h\u0259ssasd\u0131rlar. M\u0259nfi ssenarini t\u0259krarlamaq qorxusu insanlar\u0131 tez-tez özl\u0259rini etiketl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 sövq edir: “bütün ki\u015fil\u0259r aldad\u0131r”, “bütün qad\u0131nlar eynidir” v\u0259 s. Etibars\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 aradan qald\u0131rmaq ç\u0259tindir. \u0130nsan\u0131 yoxlamaq is\u0259 daha çox vaxt t\u0259l\u0259b edir”, – ekspert \u0259lav\u0259 edib.<\/p>\n

Bundan \u0259lav\u0259, tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131q üçün \u0259sas probleml\u0259rd\u0259n biri \u0259vv\u0259lki münasib\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 kökl\u0259nm\u0259kdir.<\/p>\n

“Uzun bir münasib\u0259td\u0259n sonra t\u0259nhal\u0131q sizi keçmi\u015fd\u0259 dü\u015fünm\u0259y\u0259 vadar edir. Ancaq keçmi\u015f partnyorlar\u0131 haqq\u0131nda uzun-uzad\u0131 v\u0259 r\u0259ngar\u0259ng dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131qlar\u0131 bir tarix ilk v\u0259 sonuncu olur. Ancaq h\u0259tta bir s\u0131ra u\u011fursuz tarixl\u0259r d\u0259 ümidl\u0259ri itirm\u0259k üçün s\u0259b\u0259b deyil”, – Samburski vur\u011fulay\u0131b.<\/p>\n

Çox vaxt, bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f v\u0259 u\u015faqlar\u0131 olan qad\u0131nlar münasib\u0259t ist\u0259yirl\u0259r, lakin heç kim\u0259 "qo\u015fqu il\u0259" ehtiyac duymayaca\u011f\u0131ndan qorxurlar, buna gör\u0259 d\u0259 kimis\u0259 tuturlar.<\/p>\n

“30 ya\u015fdan sonra tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131q h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n u\u015faqlar\u0131n varl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 müzakir\u0259 etm\u0259yi n\u0259z\u0259rd\u0259 tutur. Bundan qorxmaq laz\u0131m deyil. Yeni evlilikl\u0259rind\u0259 birlikd\u0259 u\u015faq sahibi olan cütlükl\u0259r d\u0259 az deyil.
\nH\u0259r halda, özünüzü t\u0259nha saxlamaq pis fikirdir. \u0130nsan\u0131n neç\u0259 ya\u015f\u0131nda olmas\u0131n\u0131n \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259ti yoxdur – 30, 40, 50. Müsb\u0259t yana\u015fma, özünü d\u0259rk etm\u0259k v\u0259 ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131 oldu\u011fu kimi q\u0259bul etm\u0259kl\u0259, ruh yolda\u015f\u0131 tapmaq \u015fans\u0131 \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259tli d\u0259r\u0259c\u0259d\u0259 art\u0131r. Müasir dünya bunun üçün çoxlu imkanlar t\u0259klif edir: onlayn tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131qdan tutmu\u015f tematik t\u0259dbirl\u0259rd\u0259 i\u015ftiraka q\u0259d\u0259r”, – dey\u0259 psixoloq yekunla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131b.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

30 ya\u015f\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r subay ki\u015fil\u0259r v\u0259 qad\u0131nlar üçün can yolda\u015f\u0131 tapmaq daha ç\u0259tindir. Bu, i\u015fd\u0259 m\u0259\u015f\u011ful olmaqdan v\u0259 hormonal pik h\u0259ddinin ötm\u0259sind\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259 tan\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011fa 20 ya\u015f\u0131nda oldu\u011funuz…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[100],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-201974","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-diger"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201974","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=201974"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/201974\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=201974"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=201974"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=201974"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}