{"id":189070,"date":"2023-10-26T15:37:04","date_gmt":"2023-10-26T11:37:04","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=189070","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7\u0131x\u0131\u015f\u0131 g\u00fcnd\u0259m olan psixoloq dan\u0131\u015fd\u0131:"},"content":{"rendered":"

ARB telekanal\u0131nda yay\u0131mlanan "Gün\u0259 son” verili\u015find\u0259 qonaq olan psixoloq \u018ffsan\u0259 Rüst\u0259movan\u0131n s\u0259sl\u0259ndirdiyi fikirl\u0259r\u0259 birm\u0259nal\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lanmay\u0131b.<\/strong>
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\nPsixoloq canl\u0131 efird\u0259 "Emosional ehtiyac\u0131 öd\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131n bo\u015fanmaq kimi bir hüququ var” ifad\u0259sini i\u015fl\u0259dib. 
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\nOnun proqramda s\u0259sl\u0259ndirdiyi fikirl\u0259r müzakir\u0259l\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259b\u0259b olub v\u0259 t\u0259nqid h\u0259d\u0259fin\u0259 çevrilib.<\/p>\n

Bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 Azxeber.com-a aç\u0131qlama ver\u0259n \u018ffsan\u0259 Rüst\u0259mova t\u0259nqidl\u0259rd\u0259n narahat olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 deyib: <\/p>\n

"\u018fslind\u0259, m\u0259n bu tip mövzularda q\u0259tiyy\u0259n aç\u0131qlama verm\u0259yin t\u0259r\u0259fdar\u0131 deyil\u0259m. Ona gör\u0259 ki, biz h\u0259r birimiz ist\u0259r t\u0259hsil, ist\u0259r dünyagörü\u015fü bax\u0131m\u0131ndan f\u0259rqli m\u0259rt\u0259b\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259yik. M\u0259n onuncu m\u0259rt\u0259b\u0259d\u0259y\u0259ms\u0259, bu m\u0259nim yax\u015f\u0131, ya da birinci m\u0259rt\u0259b\u0259d\u0259y\u0259ms\u0259 pis oldu\u011fum m\u0259nas\u0131na g\u0259lmir. Bu çox normal hald\u0131r ki, birinci m\u0259rt\u0259b\u0259d\u0259n dediyin söz, onuncu m\u0259rt\u0259b\u0259d\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 e\u015fidilmir. Burada dey\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r ki, y\u0259qin o özü çox inki\u015faf edib, öz dediyini ancaq özü ba\u015fa dü\u015für. M\u0259n bu cür ç\u0131x\u0131\u015flar\u0131 kütl\u0259nin ixtiyar\u0131na burax\u0131ram ki, onlar n\u0259yi nec\u0259 ist\u0259yirl\u0259r el\u0259 d\u0259 anlas\u0131nlar. Amma g\u0259lin bu m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259y\u0259 bir az da praktik baxaq. Y\u0259qin ki, bizim c\u0259miyy\u0259timiz üçün üç min manat böyük m\u0259bl\u0259\u011f imi\u015f ki, bu söhb\u0259t bel\u0259 böyüdü. H\u0259r k\u0259s pula fokusland\u0131, mövzu qald\u0131 k\u0259narda. Burada \u0259sas m\u0259na, qad\u0131n\u0131n emosional ehtiyaclar\u0131 öd\u0259nilm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259 ki\u015finin bundan g\u0259rginl\u0259\u015fib özünü ki\u015fi kimi hiss etm\u0259m\u0259sidir. Buna gör\u0259 d\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t meydana g\u0259lir. Dem\u0259k ist\u0259diyim bu idi ki, növb\u0259ti m\u0259rh\u0259l\u0259 \u015fidd\u0259t olmas\u0131n dey\u0259, emosional ehtiyaclar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 öd\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015f\u0131n. V\u0259 \u0259n ön\u0259mlisi, sizin ist\u0259kl\u0259rinizi öd\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259c\u0259k bir insanla b\u0259rab\u0259r olun. Dem\u0259k ist\u0259diyim bu idi. Amma insanlar\u0131n xo\u015fu g\u0259lir bel\u0259 mövzunu ba\u015fqa yön\u0259 ç\u0259ksinl\u0259r. Çünki onlar üçün h\u0259yatda daha maraql\u0131 heç n\u0259 yoxdur. Bu da onlar\u0131n h\u0259yat keyfiyy\u0259tinin a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 olmas\u0131ndan v\u0259 maraqs\u0131z h\u0259yat ya\u015famas\u0131ndan ir\u0259li g\u0259lir”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 onu bu fikrin\u0259 gör\u0259 q\u0131naq obyektin\u0259 çevir\u0259nl\u0259r\u0259 s\u0259sl\u0259nib:<\/p>\n

"M\u0259n çox sevinir\u0259m ki, onlar anlamad\u0131qlar\u0131 mövzuda bel\u0259 fikir söyl\u0259m\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar. Bu da özünü ifad\u0259y\u0259 c\u0259hddir. Bel\u0259 – bel\u0259 öyr\u0259n\u0259c\u0259kl\u0259r özl\u0259rini daha düzgün ifad\u0259 etm\u0259yin yolunu. Bu gün üçün onlarda al\u0131nmad\u0131, çünki onlar motivi anlamad\u0131lar. Çünki onlar, qad\u0131n a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131 açanda susduran insanlard\u0131r. M\u0259n sad\u0259c\u0259 orada apar\u0131c\u0131n\u0131n verdiyi suala cavab vermi\u015f\u0259m. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n bir sözün ucundan tutub s\u0259n\u0259ti, savad\u0131, \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259ti yarq\u0131lama\u011f\u0131 toplumun c\u0259hal\u0259tind\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r verir. Biz ba\u015fa dü\u015fm\u0259liyik ki, insanlar f\u0259rqli dü\u015fün\u0259 bil\u0259r. Bu f\u0259rqlilikl\u0259r bir-birimizi narahat etm\u0259m\u0259lidir. Biz o halda narahat ola bil\u0259rik ki, kims\u0259 bu sözü e\u015fidib, gedib bo\u015fans\u0131n. Dem\u0259li o insanda zat\u0259n ail\u0259 d\u0259y\u0259ri yox imi\u015f ki, k\u0259nardak\u0131n\u0131n sözü il\u0259 bo\u015fan\u0131r. M\u0259nim yan\u0131mda h\u0259r gün desinl\u0259r ki, yolda\u015f\u0131na ma\u015f\u0131n almayan ki\u015fi, yax\u015f\u0131 ki\u015fi deyil. M\u0259n h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131m\u0131n sevgisind\u0259n \u0259min\u0259ms\u0259 v\u0259 büdc\u0259sini d\u0259 bilir\u0259ms\u0259 m\u0259n onu heç vaxt narahat el\u0259m\u0259r\u0259m ki, m\u0259n\u0259 niy\u0259 ma\u015f\u0131n alm\u0131rsan? Bilir\u0259m ki, pulu olsa alacaq olmasa almayacaq. \u018fg\u0259r t\u0259r\u0259fl\u0259r emosional balanslar\u0131n\u0131 nizamlamadan n\u0259s\u0259 ist\u0259yirs\u0259, dem\u0259li onlar do\u011fru partnyorlar deyill\u0259r. Bel\u0259 mövzular h\u0259mi\u015f\u0259 mediada ajataj yarad\u0131r. Bu m\u0259ni q\u0259tiyy\u0259n narahat el\u0259mir. Heç bir sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 qeydiyyat\u0131m yoxdur v\u0259 s\u0259kkiz ildir ki, bel\u0259 f\u0259aliyy\u0259t göst\u0259rir\u0259m. Burada art\u0131q ba\u015fqa izaha ehtiyac yoxdur.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

ARB telekanal\u0131nda yay\u0131mlanan "Gün\u0259 son” verili\u015find\u0259 qonaq olan psixoloq \u018ffsan\u0259 Rüst\u0259movan\u0131n s\u0259sl\u0259ndirdiyi fikirl\u0259r\u0259 birm\u0259nal\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lanmay\u0131b.   Psixoloq canl\u0131 efird\u0259 "Emosional ehtiyac\u0131 öd\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131n\u0131n bo\u015fanmaq kimi bir hüququ var” ifad\u0259sini i\u015fl\u0259dib. …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[92],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-189070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/189070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=189070"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/189070\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=189070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=189070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=189070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}