{"id":188275,"date":"2023-10-16T19:11:50","date_gmt":"2023-10-16T15:11:50","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=188275","title":{"rendered":"U\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 \u0259n b\u00f6y\u00fck \u015fidd\u0259t, onlara qar\u015f\u0131 k\u00fcsm\u0259kdir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Müt\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011fa küsm\u0259yin psixoloji zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u0259n m\u0259krli formas\u0131 oldu\u011funu bildirir v\u0259 istifad\u0259 olunacaq üsulun \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015fm\u0259k deyil, daha çox ünsiyy\u0259t yolu il\u0259 hissl\u0259rini çatd\u0131rmaq oldu\u011funu bildirirl\u0259r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqta.az Türkiy\u0259 m\u0259tbuat\u0131na istinad\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, müt\u0259x\u0259ssis Klinik Psixoloq Müjde Yah\u015fi mövzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 deyib:<\/p>\n

"Zorak\u0131l\u0131q deyil\u0259nd\u0259, y\u0259qin ki, a\u011fl\u0131ma "döym\u0259" g\u0259lir. Hücum, vurmaq, it\u0259l\u0259m\u0259k, t\u0259pikl\u0259m\u0259k, di\u015fl\u0259m\u0259k, silk\u0259l\u0259m\u0259k, \u015faplamaq, çimdikl\u0259m\u0259k, saç yolmaq, bir sözl\u0259, bütün fiziki x\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259r fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Duy\u011fular\u0131 v\u0259 psixi sa\u011flaml\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u0259d\u0259f alan, davran\u0131\u015f v\u0259 \u015f\u0259xsiyy\u0259t poz\u011funluqlar\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olan, çox vaxt insanda psixopatoloji t\u0259sir buraxan, fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131q q\u0259d\u0259r z\u0259r\u0259r ver\u0259n, lakin fiziki zorak\u0131l\u0131q q\u0259d\u0259r görünm\u0259y\u0259n bir \u015fidd\u0259t növü d\u0259 var. Bu da psixoloji zorak\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r…"<\/p>\n

Q\u0131\u015fq\u0131r\u0131qlar, s\u0259rt bax\u0131\u015flar, s\u0259rt s\u0259s tonu, b\u0259dah\u0259t\u0259n olmayan ç\u0131x\u0131\u015flar, sanksiyalar, t\u0259hqirl\u0259r, qorxutmalar, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lamalar, t\u0259zyiql\u0259r, c\u0259zalar, müqayis\u0259l\u0259r, etiketl\u0259m\u0259l\u0259r, emosional al\u0259md\u0259 iz qoyan bütün h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tl\u0259r psixoloji zorak\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Küsm\u0259k bir c\u0259za növüdür v\u0259 h\u0259msöhb\u0259tinin emosiyalar\u0131n\u0131 h\u0259d\u0259f\u0259 al\u0131r, y\u0259ni s\u0259ssiz psixoloji zorak\u0131l\u0131qd\u0131r. \u018fslind\u0259 inciy\u0259r\u0259k "m\u0259ni ba\u015fa dü\u015fm\u0259k" ist\u0259y\u0259 bil\u0259rik, amma bu üsulla "empatiya" dediyimiz "ba\u015fqas\u0131n\u0131n hissl\u0259rini anlama bacar\u0131\u011f\u0131" h\u0259r iki t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n i\u015f\u0259 dü\u015fmür. \u0130nciklik münasib\u0259tl\u0259ri z\u0259ifl\u0259dir, problem böyüyür, etibar sars\u0131l\u0131r, h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 bir-birind\u0259n uzaqla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r, m\u0259nfi emosiyalar\u0131n y\u0131\u011f\u0131lmas\u0131na s\u0259b\u0259b olur.<\/p>\n

Ancaq duy\u011fular ifad\u0259 olunduqca probleml\u0259r h\u0259ll oluna bil\u0259r v\u0259 sevgi ba\u011f\u0131 daha da möhk\u0259ml\u0259nir. \u0130stifad\u0259 etm\u0259li oldu\u011funuz üsul hirsl\u0259nm\u0259k deyil, daha çox ünsiyy\u0259t quraraq hissl\u0259rinizi çatd\u0131rmaq olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Xüsus\u0259n d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011fa q\u0259z\u0259bl\u0259nirsinizs\u0259, bu, daha çox z\u0259r\u0259rlidir, çünki valideyn övlad\u0131na q\u0259z\u0259blidir; Duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011flay\u0131r, davran\u0131\u015f probleml\u0259ri göst\u0259rm\u0259y\u0259 ba\u015flay\u0131r, hirs y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131r, güv\u0259n hissi, aidiyy\u0259t hissi v\u0259 özünü qavray\u0131\u015f\u0131 z\u0259d\u0259l\u0259nir, t\u0259nhala\u015f\u0131r, virtual al\u0259m\u0259 dal\u0131r, yanl\u0131\u015f dostluqlar qurur v\u0259 bir çox ba\u015fqa probleml\u0259rl\u0259 üzl\u0259\u015f\u0259 bil\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Ail\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n u\u015fa\u011fa \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015f\u0259r\u0259k hadis\u0259d\u0259n d\u0259rs alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dü\u015fünür; \u018fksin\u0259, övlad\u0131n\u0131n duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131 üz\u0259 ç\u0131xararaq övlad\u0131 il\u0259 ünsiyy\u0259t qurmal\u0131, ona yol göst\u0259rm\u0259li, problemi birlikd\u0259 h\u0259ll etm\u0259li, düzgün nümun\u0259 göst\u0259rm\u0259lidir.<\/p>\n

H\u0259r v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 siz\u0259 v\u0259 \u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131lara \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015f\u0259n, ünsiyy\u0259t\u0259 qapanan, evliliyind\u0259 h\u0259yat yolda\u015f\u0131na hirsl\u0259n\u0259r\u0259k çar\u0259 axtaran bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n olmas\u0131n\u0131 ist\u0259mirsinizs\u0259, “U\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131za hirsl\u0259nm\u0259yin".<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Müt\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r u\u015fa\u011fa küsm\u0259yin psixoloji zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u0259n m\u0259krli formas\u0131 oldu\u011funu bildirir v\u0259 istifad\u0259 olunacaq üsulun \u0259s\u0259bil\u0259\u015fm\u0259k deyil, daha çox ünsiyy\u0259t yolu il\u0259 hissl\u0259rini çatd\u0131rmaq oldu\u011funu bildirirl\u0259r. Ucnoqta.az Türkiy\u0259 m\u0259tbuat\u0131na istinad\u0259n x\u0259b\u0259r…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-188275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=188275"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/188275\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=188275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=188275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=188275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}