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Qad\u0131n sirl\u0259r dünyas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu vaxtad\u0259k qad\u0131nlar\u0131n hisl\u0259rini, ist\u0259kl\u0259rini v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 elm tam öyr\u0259n\u0259 bilm\u0259yib. Ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n f\u0259qrli olaraq qad\u0131nlar\u0131 anlamaq h\u0259r zaman çox ç\u0259tin olub. Ki\u015fil\u0259r h\u0259r zaman öz hisl\u0259rini çox asanl\u0131qla ifad\u0259 edibl\u0259r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Qad\u0131nlarsa b\u0259z\u0259n h\u0259tta uzun ill\u0259r bir yerd\u0259 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 h\u0259yat yolda\u015flar\u0131na bel\u0259 öz hisl\u0259rini, ist\u0259kl\u0259rini v\u0259 sevgil\u0259rini tam ifad\u0259 ed\u0259 bilmirl\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, h\u0259r bir ki\u015fi arzulay\u0131r ki, h\u0259tta küç\u0259d\u0259 rastla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131 göz\u0259l qad\u0131n onu süzsün, ona baxs\u0131n. Lakin, qad\u0131n\u0131n bax\u0131\u015flar\u0131 çox sirli v\u0259 i\u015f\u0131q sür\u0259tli oldu\u011fu üçün ki\u015fil\u0259r bunu anlamaqda ç\u0259tinlik ç\u0259kirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Elm sübut edib ki, qad\u0131nlara qar\u015f\u0131lar\u0131ndak\u0131 ki\u015fini süzm\u0259k üçün bir an bel\u0259 b\u0259s edir. Qad\u0131n\u0131n bir bax\u0131\u015f\u0131 fotoaparat\u0131n saçd\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015f\u0131qdan da sür\u0259tlidir.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s, qad\u0131nlar öz sevgil\u0259rini, ist\u0259kl\u0259rini nec\u0259 biruz\u0259 verirl\u0259r?<\/p>\n

Tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f psixoloq Gülnar Orucova bununla ba\u011fl\u0131 Bizim.Media-ya maraql\u0131 aç\u0131qlamalar verib.<\/p>\n

O bildirib ki, qad\u0131nlar öz hissl\u0259rini ifad\u0259 etm\u0259kd\u0259 h\u0259r zaman ç\u0259tinlik ç\u0259kibl\u0259r:<\/p>\n

“Amma zaman d\u0259yi\u015fir. Qad\u0131nlar daha \u0259vv\u0259lki kimi c\u0259sar\u0259tsiz v\u0259 utancaq deyill\u0259r. 20-30 il bundan qabaq qad\u0131nlar öz hissl\u0259rini daha çox b\u0259d\u0259n dili il\u0259 ifad\u0259 edirdil\u0259r. \u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r qad\u0131nlar xo\u015fland\u0131qlar\u0131 ki\u015finin yoluna tez-tez ç\u0131xard\u0131lar. M\u0259\u015fhur “bulaq ba\u015f\u0131” ifad\u0259si d\u0259 bunun sübutudur. V\u0259 üst\u0259lik d\u0259 bunun da bir t\u0259sadüf oldu\u011funu formala\u015fd\u0131rma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015f\u0131rd\u0131lar.<\/p>\n

Lakin, qad\u0131nlar n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r sirli-sehirli olsalar da onlar da b\u0259z\u0259n hissl\u0259rini çox asanl\u0131qla biruz\u0259 verirl\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, qad\u0131nlar xo\u015fland\u0131qlar\u0131 ki\u015finin gözünün için\u0259 baxma\u011fa cür\u0259t etmirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Qar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndak\u0131 il\u0259 dan\u0131\u015fanda gözl\u0259rini müxt\u0259lif istiqam\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 qaç\u0131rd\u0131r, \u0259ll\u0259rini ovu\u015fdurur, saçlar\u0131n\u0131 oynad\u0131rlar. H\u0259tta h\u0259yacanland\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131 da çox asanl\u0131qla biruz\u0259 verirl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n

Gülnar Orucova onu da qeyd edib ki, indiki qad\u0131nlar, xüsus\u0259n q\u0131zlar öz hisl\u0259rini ifad\u0259 etm\u0259k üçün sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rin verdiyi  fürs\u0259td\u0259n çox ustal\u0131qla yararlan\u0131rlar:<\/p>\n

“Sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 üz\u0259rind\u0259n xo\u015fland\u0131qlar\u0131 ki\u015fiy\u0259 bu v\u0259 ya dig\u0259r \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 mesaj verirl\u0259r. Bel\u0259 ki, ki\u015finin sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 hesab\u0131n\u0131 daima izl\u0259yir, onun payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131na status yaz\u0131r, layk edirl\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, son günl\u0259r sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 \u0259n çox müzakir\u0259 olunan mövzulardan biri mü\u011f\u0259nni Nura Surinin Türkiy\u0259 prezidentliyin\u0259 namiz\u0259d Sinan O\u011fana sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259 üz\u0259rind\u0259n evlilik t\u0259klif etm\u0259sidir.<\/p>\n

\u018fminlikl\u0259 dey\u0259 bil\u0259r\u0259m ki, üzb\u0259üz \u015f\u0259raitd\u0259 mü\u011f\u0259nni heç zaman özünd\u0259 bu c\u0259sar\u0259ti tapa bilm\u0259zdi. Lakin, sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259ki gizlinlik ixtiyari qad\u0131n\u0131 xeyli c\u0259sar\u0259tl\u0259ndirir. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, ist\u0259nil\u0259n ki\u015fi onun sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259ki dostu olan qad\u0131nlardan hans\u0131n\u0131n ona gizli sevgi b\u0259sl\u0259diyini çox asanl\u0131qla anlaya bil\u0259r. Bunun üçün qad\u0131nlar\u0131n smaylikl\u0259rin\u0259 baxmaq kifay\u0259tdir”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq klassik \u0259n\u0259n\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n d\u0259 dan\u0131\u015f\u0131b:<\/p>\n

“Qad\u0131n xo\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fiy\u0259 qar\u015f\u0131 çox diqq\u0259tcil olur. Söhb\u0259t \u0259snas\u0131nda ona çox diqq\u0259tl\u0259 qulaq as\u0131r. V\u0259 h\u0259tta qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259fin bunu anlamas\u0131n\u0131 da ist\u0259yir. Qad\u0131n xo\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131 ki\u015finin zövqünü öyr\u0259nm\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015f\u0131r, daha sonra onun zövqün\u0259 uy\u011fun geyinir. H\u0259tta istifad\u0259 etdiyi \u0259tri v\u0259 yem\u0259yi d\u0259 ki\u015finin zövqün\u0259 uy\u011funla\u015fd\u0131r\u0131r. Bir sözl\u0259, qad\u0131nlar n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r sirli olsa da, onlar\u0131 anlamaq üçün alim olmaq laz\u0131m deyil. Sad\u0259c\u0259 bir q\u0259d\u0259r diqq\u0259tli olan ki\u015fi \u0259traf\u0131ndak\u0131 hans\u0131 qad\u0131n\u0131n ondan xo\u015fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 öyr\u0259n\u0259 bil\u0259r”.<\/p>\n

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  Qad\u0131n sirl\u0259r dünyas\u0131d\u0131r. Bu vaxtad\u0259k qad\u0131nlar\u0131n hisl\u0259rini, ist\u0259kl\u0259rini v\u0259 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 elm tam öyr\u0259n\u0259 bilm\u0259yib. Ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259n f\u0259qrli olaraq qad\u0131nlar\u0131 anlamaq h\u0259r zaman çox ç\u0259tin olub. Ki\u015fil\u0259r h\u0259r zaman öz hisl\u0259rini…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-179929","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/179929","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=179929"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/179929\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=179929"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=179929"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=179929"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}