{"id":175222,"date":"2023-04-20T13:46:33","date_gmt":"2023-04-20T09:46:33","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=175222","title":{"rendered":"\u201cG\u00fcya m\u0259nim ail\u0259md\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey \u0259lad\u0131r?!\u201d –"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mü\u011f\u0259nni Nadir Qafarzad\u0259nin "S\u0259h\u0259r m\u0259rk\u0259zi” proqram\u0131nda qonaq olark\u0259n, bo\u015fanmalarla ba\u011fl\u0131 s\u0259sl\u0259ndirdiyi fikirl\u0259r birm\u0259nal\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lanamy\u0131b. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, ifaç\u0131 ah\u0131l ya\u015fda bo\u015fanan insanlar\u0131 t\u0259nqid edib: "Ah\u0131l ya\u015fda bo\u015fan\u0131rlar, sonra da deyirl\u0259r ki, insan h\u0259yat\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015famal\u0131d\u0131r. H\u0259yat\u0131n bitib, n\u0259 ya\u015famaq!? Sevginin d\u0259 h\u0259ddi var". <\/p>\n

Statistikaya n\u0259z\u0259r yetirs\u0259k, bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131n\u0131n say\u0131n\u0131n öt\u0259n ill\u0259r\u0259 nisb\u0259t\u0259n artd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 gör\u0259 bil\u0259rik. Öt\u0259n ilin müvafiq dövrü il\u0259 müqayis\u0259d\u0259 \u0259halinin h\u0259r 1000 n\u0259f\u0259rin\u0259 nikahlar\u0131n say\u0131 azalaraq 5,9-dan 4,6-ya dü\u015füb, bo\u015fanmalar\u0131n say\u0131 is\u0259 1,5-d\u0259n 1,8-\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r art\u0131b. <\/p>\n

Mövzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Yenisabah.az-a dan\u0131\u015fan Nadir Qafarzad\u0259 aç\u0131qlamas\u0131nda deyib ki, bizim xalq harda pis varsa, onu özün\u0259 nümun\u0259 götürür:<\/p>\n

“\u018fvv\u0259ll\u0259r insanlar “qon\u015fudan dala qalma” prinsipi il\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 \u015feyl\u0259rl\u0259 b\u0259hs\u0259 gir\u0259rdil\u0259r. M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, biri özün\u0259 t\u0259z\u0259 ma\u015f\u0131n, ev alan zaman, dig\u0259ri dü\u015fün\u0259rdi ki, m\u0259nim ondan n\u0259yim \u0259ksikdi? M\u0259n d\u0259 çal\u0131\u015f\u0131m-vuru\u015fum özüm\u0259 ev al\u0131m. Yaxud insanlar dü\u015fünürdül\u0259r ki, filank\u0259sin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 ali m\u0259kt\u0259b\u0259 q\u0259bul olub, el\u0259 m\u0259n d\u0259 öz u\u015fa\u011f\u0131m\u0131n üz\u0259rind\u0259 durum, onu oxudum, o da ali t\u0259hsil sahibi olsun. \u0130ndiki z\u0259man\u0259d\u0259 d\u0259 deyirl\u0259r ki, filank\u0259s bo\u015fand\u0131, m\u0259n niy\u0259 bo\u015fanmay\u0131m? Bo\u015fanmalar art\u0131q d\u0259b hal\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131b. Dü\u015fünür\u0259m ki, b\u0259zi insanlar el\u0259 kefind\u0259n bo\u015fan\u0131r. Biz bo\u015fanma hallar\u0131na baxsaq heç birind\u0259 maksimum s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259r görm\u0259rik. El\u0259l\u0259ri d\u0259 var ki, 2 ay evli qal\u0131r, sonra da ç\u0131x\u0131b deyir ki, xasiyy\u0259timiz uy\u011funla\u015fmad\u0131, bo\u015fand\u0131q. Heç el\u0259 \u015fey olar? Camaat heç 1-2 il\u0259 xasiyy\u0259tl\u0259r\u0259 adaptasiya ola bilmir, qald\u0131 ki, 2 ay… Ail\u0259 oyuncaq deyil. Amma buna baxmayaraq, camaat ail\u0259 qurma\u011fa oyuncaq kimi bax\u0131r. Çox t\u0259\u0259ssüf edir\u0259m. Ona qalsa, ham\u0131n\u0131n h\u0259yat\u0131nda probleml\u0259ri var. Ç\u0259tinlikl\u0259r onlara dözm\u0259k üçündür, n\u0259inki bo\u015fanmaq üçün. B\u0259s insanlar evl\u0259n\u0259n zaman niy\u0259 bir-birin\u0259 söz verir ki, ç\u0259tin v\u0259 yax\u015f\u0131 günl\u0259rind\u0259 daim yan\u0131ndayam? Ç\u0259tinliy\u0259 dözm\u0259y\u0259n insanlar ad\u0259t\u0259n, evliliyin nec\u0259 d\u0259 müq\u0259dd\u0259s oldu\u011fun d\u0259rk etmirl\u0259r. Ail\u0259d\u0259n çox \u015fey as\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. U\u015faqlar ail\u0259sind\u0259 n\u0259yi görürs\u0259, onu da götürür. Bo\u015fananlar\u0131n b\u0259zil\u0259ri d\u0259 y\u0259qin ail\u0259sind\u0259n bel\u0259 görüb. Güya m\u0259nim ail\u0259md\u0259 h\u0259r \u015fey \u0259lad\u0131r?! El\u0259 bir ail\u0259 yoxdur. Heç n\u0259 asanl\u0131qla \u0259ld\u0259 edilmir. Ail\u0259dir, n\u0259s\u0259 ola da bil\u0259r, olmaya da bil\u0259r. Ail\u0259 müqavil\u0259si deyil\u0259n bir \u015fey yoxdur ki, kefin\u0259 dü\u015f\u0259nd\u0259 dey\u0259s\u0259n ki, s\u0259nd\u0259n bo\u015fan\u0131ram. Bir daha deyir\u0259m ail\u0259 oyuncaq deyil”. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mü\u011f\u0259nni Nadir Qafarzad\u0259nin "S\u0259h\u0259r m\u0259rk\u0259zi” proqram\u0131nda qonaq olark\u0259n, bo\u015fanmalarla ba\u011fl\u0131 s\u0259sl\u0259ndirdiyi fikirl\u0259r birm\u0259nal\u0131 qar\u015f\u0131lanamy\u0131b.  Qeyd ed\u0259k ki, ifaç\u0131 ah\u0131l ya\u015fda bo\u015fanan insanlar\u0131 t\u0259nqid edib: "Ah\u0131l ya\u015fda bo\u015fan\u0131rlar, sonra da deyirl\u0259r…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[92],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-175222","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-maqazin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175222","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=175222"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/175222\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=175222"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=175222"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=175222"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}