{"id":163515,"date":"2022-11-25T11:33:54","date_gmt":"2022-11-25T07:33:54","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=163515","title":{"rendered":"Valideynin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6ym\u0259y\u0259 meyllilik \u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcn d\u00fczg\u00fcn t\u0259rbiy\u0259 almad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6st\u0259rir – Sosioloq<\/b><\/font>"},"content":{"rendered":"

U\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131za düzgün davran\u0131\u015f öyr\u0259tm\u0259k dedikd\u0259, çox vaxt insanlar aras\u0131nda c\u0259zaland\u0131rma, v\u0259 ya onlarla s\u0259rt davranmaq kimi anlay\u0131\u015flar ba\u015fa dü\u015fülür. Bildiyimiz kimi, h\u0259r bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259 ail\u0259nin böyük rolu var.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sosioloq Lal\u0259 Mehral\u0131 Ucnoqta.az-a bildirdi ki, bu, h\u0259r valideyn\u0259 gör\u0259 f\u0259rqli m\u0259na da\u015f\u0131yan bir v\u0259ziyy\u0259tdir: 
\n“Kimisi sözl\u0259, kimisi c\u0259za il\u0259 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ed\u0259 bil\u0259r. H\u0259tta bir az da ir\u0259li gedib zorak\u0131l\u0131qla t\u0259rbiy\u0259 ed\u0259n valideynl\u0259r d\u0259 t\u0259\u0259ssüf ki, aram\u0131zda var. El\u0259 \u0259vv\u0259ld\u0259n görmü\u015fük ki, döyül\u0259n, zorak\u0131l\u0131q t\u0259tbiq edil\u0259n u\u015faq heç bir halda nümun\u0259vi olmur. B\u0259z\u0259n valideynl\u0259r deyir ki, m\u0259ni döyübl\u0259r pis olmu\u015fam b\u0259y\u0259m? M\u0259n d\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131m\u0131 döy\u0259c\u0259m. Y\u0259ni o u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131 döym\u0259y\u0259 meyllilikl\u0259 \u0259slind\u0259 özünün zaman\u0131nda düzgün t\u0259rbiy\u0259 almad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sübut edir. Zaman\u0131nda ona \u015fidd\u0259t t\u0259tbiq edibl\u0259r, zorak\u0131l\u0131qla üz-üz\u0259 olub. O da bunun yax\u015f\u0131 t\u0259rbiy\u0259 metodu oldu\u011fu q\u0259na\u0259tind\u0259dir. U\u015faq zorak\u0131l\u0131\u011fa, \u015fidd\u0259t\u0259 m\u0259ruz qald\u0131qca, t\u0259hqir edildikc\u0259 c\u0259miyy\u0259td\u0259n t\u0259dric olunur. Biz bunun d\u0259f\u0259l\u0259rl\u0259 \u015fahidi olmu\u015fuq. U\u015faq bir növ özün\u0259 qapan\u0131r. Bu cür u\u015faqlar\u0131n sosial h\u0259yat\u0131 olmur, insanlardan uzaqla\u015f\u0131r. Azadl\u0131qdan çox m\u0259hbus h\u0259yat\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f olur. Çünki atd\u0131\u011f\u0131 h\u0259r add\u0131m\u0131 valideyn t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n naraz\u0131l\u0131qla qar\u015f\u0131lan\u0131r. O art\u0131q ad\u0259t edib ki, bu add\u0131m\u0131 atsa valideyni t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n döyül\u0259c\u0259k”.<\/p>\n

L.Mehral\u0131 deyir ki, \u0259g\u0259r u\u015faqlar\u0131m\u0131z s\u0259hv etm\u0259s\u0259, do\u011frunun n\u0259 oldu\u011funu bilm\u0259zl\u0259r:
\n“Özümüz bu ya\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda s\u0259hv ed\u0259-ed\u0259 do\u011frunu tapma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. Bu gün etdiyimiz h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259tin sabah \u0259slind\u0259 yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu f\u0259rqin\u0259 var\u0131r\u0131q. Çünki sabah bugünkünd\u0259n daha adil, daha mük\u0259mm\u0259l dü\u015fünm\u0259k imkan\u0131m\u0131z olur. H\u0259r gün insan üçün böyük \u0259h\u0259miyy\u0259t k\u0259sb edir. H\u0259r an, h\u0259r saat öz q\u0259rarlar\u0131n\u0131 daha yax\u015f\u0131 müzakir\u0259 etm\u0259k iqtidar\u0131nda olur. Dün\u0259n verdiyi q\u0259rar\u0131 bu gün müzakir\u0259  ed\u0259nd\u0259, dü\u015fün\u0259nd\u0259, ölçüb biç\u0259nd\u0259 \u0259slind\u0259 q\u0259rar ver\u0259nd\u0259 t\u0259l\u0259sdiyini görür. Bu gün daha d\u0259rind\u0259n dü\u015fün\u0259nd\u0259 f\u0259rqin\u0259 var\u0131r. U\u015faqlar da el\u0259dir. Bu gün s\u0259hv ed\u0259c\u0259k, yanl\u0131\u015f add\u0131m atacaq. Amma onu sözl\u0259 ba\u015fa salmaq, t\u0259rbiy\u0259l\u0259ndirm\u0259k laz\u0131md\u0131r ki, sabah o add\u0131m\u0131 atmas\u0131n. \u018fg\u0259r u\u015fa\u011f\u0131 döyürüks\u0259, gizlin o etdiyi s\u0259hvi bir daha t\u0259krarlayacaq".<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

U\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131za düzgün davran\u0131\u015f öyr\u0259tm\u0259k dedikd\u0259, çox vaxt insanlar aras\u0131nda c\u0259zaland\u0131rma, v\u0259 ya onlarla s\u0259rt davranmaq kimi anlay\u0131\u015flar ba\u015fa dü\u015fülür. Bildiyimiz kimi, h\u0259r bir u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n t\u0259rbiy\u0259sind\u0259 ail\u0259nin böyük rolu var. Sosioloq…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-163515","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/163515","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=163515"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/163515\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=163515"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=163515"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=163515"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}