{"id":162448,"date":"2022-11-12T13:04:03","date_gmt":"2022-11-12T09:04:03","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=162448","title":{"rendered":"\u0130nsan\u0131n k\u00f6k\u0259lm\u0259sinin qeyri-adi psixoloji s\u0259b\u0259bi a\u00e7\u0131qland\u0131: Susmaq…<\/b><\/font>"},"content":{"rendered":"

“\u0130nsan özünü xarici al\u0259md\u0259n qoruma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015fd\u0131qda, onun b\u0259d\u0259ni \u015füuralt\u0131 olaraq bu niyy\u0259ti oxuyur v\u0259 “zireh” qurma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. H\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q ç\u0259ki – b\u0259d\u0259nin özünü müdafi\u0259 etdiyi qab\u0131qd\u0131r”.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bunu transformasiya üzr\u0259 m\u0259\u015fqçi Natalya Kozlovskaya insanlar\u0131n art\u0131q ç\u0259kili olmalar\u0131n\u0131n psixoloji s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rini izah ed\u0259rk\u0259n bildirib.<\/p>\n

Onun sözl\u0259rin\u0259 gör\u0259 bu, b\u0259d\u0259nin öz qoruyucu funksiyas\u0131n\u0131 i\u015f\u0259 salmas\u0131 s\u0259b\u0259bind\u0259n ba\u015f verir.<\/p>\n

Ekspert bildirib ki, art\u0131q ç\u0259kili olma\u011f\u0131n ikinci psixosomatik s\u0259b\u0259bi n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 çarpmaq, vacib olmaq ist\u0259yidir:<\/p>\n

“Bu v\u0259ziyy\u0259td\u0259 b\u0259d\u0259n siqnal\u0131 geni\u015fl\u0259nm\u0259 ehtiyac\u0131 kimi oxuyur. O, t\u0259qrib\u0259n bu cür i\u015fl\u0259yir: n\u0259 q\u0259d\u0259r böyük olsam, m\u0259ni bir o q\u0259d\u0259r tez gör\u0259rl\u0259r v\u0259 müvafiq olaraq m\u0259ni daha çox sev\u0259rl\u0259r. \u018flav\u0259 kiloqramlar\u0131n köm\u0259yi il\u0259 b\u0259d\u0259n deyir: “M\u0259n buradayam, varam, m\u0259ni sev”, – dey\u0259 t\u0259limçi izah edib.<\/p>\n

Müt\u0259x\u0259ssis art\u0131q ç\u0259kinin üçüncü s\u0259b\u0259bi kimi m\u0259cburi sükutu göst\u0259rib: bu, insan\u0131n duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131, hissl\u0259rini, sözl\u0259rini özünd\u0259 gizl\u0259tdiyi vaxt ba\u015f verir.<\/p>\n

“Söhb\u0259t özümüzün z\u0259r\u0259rin\u0259 susma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan, “yox” cavab\u0131n\u0131 ver\u0259 bilm\u0259m\u0259yimizd\u0259n, ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131n gözl\u0259ntil\u0259rini anlama\u011fa v\u0259 özümüzün deyil, onlar\u0131n ehtiyac duyduqlar\u0131 kimi cavab verm\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015fma\u011f\u0131m\u0131zdan gedir. T\u0259bii ki, bu cür susqunluq insan\u0131n öz nöqteyi-n\u0259z\u0259rini müdafi\u0259 etm\u0259y\u0259 çal\u0131\u015fmas\u0131ndan daha asan olur. Amma bu vaxt h\u0259r k\u0259sd\u0259n gizl\u0259tdiyimiz duy\u011fular v\u0259 h\u0259qiqi hissl\u0259r içimizd\u0259 y\u0131\u011f\u0131l\u0131r, toplan\u0131r v\u0259 \u0259lav\u0259 kiloqramlara çevrilir”, – dey\u0259 Kozlovskaya bildirib.<\/p>\n

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“\u0130nsan özünü xarici al\u0259md\u0259n qoruma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015fd\u0131qda, onun b\u0259d\u0259ni \u015füuralt\u0131 olaraq bu niyy\u0259ti oxuyur v\u0259 “zireh” qurma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r. H\u0259ddind\u0259n art\u0131q ç\u0259ki – b\u0259d\u0259nin özünü müdafi\u0259 etdiyi qab\u0131qd\u0131r”. Bunu transformasiya üzr\u0259 m\u0259\u015fqçi…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-162448","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162448","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=162448"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/162448\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=162448"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=162448"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=162448"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}