{"id":133981,"date":"2021-11-11T14:04:50","date_gmt":"2021-11-11T10:04:50","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=133981","title":{"rendered":"Qad\u0131nlar niy\u0259 x\u0259yan\u0259t edir? \u2013 S\u018fB\u018fBL\u018fR\u0130<\/b><\/font>"},"content":{"rendered":"

Son vaxtlar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259ri bar\u0259d\u0259 tirajlanan x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259r bir növ h\u0259m xarici, h\u0259m d\u0259 yerli m\u0259tbu orqanlar\u0131n\u0131n trendin\u0259 çevrilib. B\u0259zi psixoloqlar dü\u015fünür ki, qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259rin artmas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131ca s\u0259b\u0259bi a\u011f\u0131r sosial durumdur. Xarici müt\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r is\u0259 dü\u015fünür ki, x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 meyilli olan qad\u0131nlar\u0131 bir neç\u0259 kateqoriyaya bölürl\u0259r. Onalr\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, burada daha çox xarakterd\u0259 rol oynay\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n onlar 3 qad\u0131n tipini x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 daha çox meyilli oldu\u011funu deyirl\u0259r.
\n1. <\/strong>H\u0259r zaman özünü \u0259rind\u0259n yüks\u0259kd\u0259 tutan, bütün günü göz\u0259lliyin\u0259 alud\u0259 olan, geyim ma\u011fazalar\u0131ndan ç\u0131xmayan qad\u0131nlar daima ideal ki\u015fi axtar\u0131\u015f\u0131nda olurlar. Onlar\u0131n fikrinc\u0259, bel\u0259 qad\u0131nlar, özl\u0259rin\u0259 ideal ki\u015fi tapmay\u0131nca rahatl\u0131q tapa bilmirl\u0259r.
\n2. <\/strong>Daima mac\u0259ra v\u0259 yeni hissl\u0259r axtaran qad\u0131nlar da x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 daha meyilli olurlar.
\n3.<\/strong> Son kateqoriyalara müt\u0259x\u0259ssisl\u0259r mülayim xasiyy\u0259tli, heç k\u0259s\u0259 yox dey\u0259 bilm\u0259y\u0259n qad\u0131nlar\u0131 aid edirl\u0259r.<\/p>\n

Kolumbiya Universitetinin t\u0259rkibind\u0259 f\u0259aliyy\u0259t göst\u0259r\u0259n psixoloji m\u0259rk\u0259zin hesabat\u0131nda bel\u0259 deyilir.<\/p>\n

B\u0259s, gör\u0259s\u0259n h\u0259qiq\u0259t\u0259nmi qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tinin onun xasiyy\u0259ti il\u0259 hans\u0131sa bir \u0259laq\u0259si varm\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ucnoqta.az x\u0259b\u0259r verir ki, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259 il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 Bizim.Media-ya dan\u0131\u015fan psixoloq Samir\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131rova bildirib ki, qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tind\u0259 \u0259n böyük günahkar ki\u015fil\u0259rdir.
\n“Dem\u0259k olar ki, qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tinin 90%-i ki\u015fid\u0259n qaynaqlan\u0131r. O, ail\u0259d\u0259 diqq\u0259t, qay\u011f\u0131 v\u0259 sevgi görm\u0259y\u0259nd\u0259, özünü sübut etm\u0259k üçün x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 \u0259l at\u0131r. Ba\u015fqa bir s\u0259b\u0259b is\u0259 qad\u0131n\u0131n mü\u0259yy\u0259n ya\u015f h\u0259ddin\u0259 çatd\u0131qda, dü\u015fün\u0259nd\u0259 ki, “art\u0131q ya\u015flanm\u0131\u015fam, m\u0259n\u0259 heç bir ki\u015fi baxmayacaq” ba\u015flay\u0131r özün\u0259 olan diqq\u0259ti ba\u015fqalar\u0131na sübut etm\u0259y\u0259. \u018fks\u0259r hallarda da bu x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 yol aç\u0131r”.
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\nPsixoloq qeyd edir ki, x\u0259yan\u0259t ed\u0259n qad\u0131n ilk etapda çox vaxt aldatd\u0131\u011f\u0131na gör\u0259, d\u0259rin depresiya ya\u015fay\u0131r. O, h\u0259r d\u0259f\u0259 etdiyi h\u0259r\u0259k\u0259t\u0259 gör\u0259 pe\u015fmanç\u0131l\u0131q hissi duyma\u011fa ba\u015flay\u0131r.
\n“Ona gör\u0259, m\u0259n h\u0259r zaman deyir\u0259m ki, qad\u0131n\u0131n qula\u011f\u0131 bo\u015f qalmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Qad\u0131n daima ki\u015fi diqq\u0259tini hiss etm\u0259lidir. Bir qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 ged\u0259nd\u0259 onu d\u0259qiq dü\u015fünüb gedir. Ancaq ki\u015fil\u0259rd\u0259 bu f\u0259rqlidir, onlar anid\u0259n buna q\u0259rar verib ed\u0259 bil\u0259rl\u0259r”.<\/p>\n

Psixoloq x\u0259yan\u0259tin ba\u015fqa s\u0259b\u0259bl\u0259rind\u0259n d\u0259 söz aç\u0131b. O, doyumsuzluq sindromu haqq\u0131nda da m\u0259lumat verib.
\n“Çox tez-tez partnyor d\u0259yi\u015f\u0259n insan da doyumsuzluq sindromu yaran\u0131r. Onlar ya özl\u0259rini tapma\u011fa çal\u0131\u015f\u0131r ya da realiz\u0259 etm\u0259k ist\u0259dikl\u0259ri hissl\u0259rini, duy\u011fular\u0131n\u0131 ya\u015faya bilm\u0259diyi üçün x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 gedir. Bu da x\u0259yan\u0259t\u0259 aparan yolda bir s\u0259b\u0259b olur”.<\/p>\n

Sonda Samir\u0259 Ba\u011f\u0131rova deyib ki, heç vaxt bir ür\u0259kd\u0259 iki sevgi olmur. Onun sözl\u0259rin\u0259 gör\u0259, b\u0259z\u0259n ehtiras hissi sevgi il\u0259 qar\u0131\u015f\u0131q sal\u0131n\u0131r.
\n“M\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n tez-tez veril\u0259n suallardan biri d\u0259 budur ki, bir insan iki n\u0259f\u0259ri sev\u0259 bil\u0259rmi? Qeyd edim ki, ist\u0259r ki\u015fi, ist\u0259rs\u0259 d\u0259 qad\u0131n olsun bir ür\u0259kd\u0259 iki sevgi olmur. Burada mütl\u0259q birin\u0259 do\u011fmal\u0131q v\u0259 sevgi y\u0259ni, m\u0259n\u0259vi, dig\u0259rin\u0259 is\u0259 ehtiras v\u0259 \u015f\u0259hv\u0259t y\u0259ni, fiziki duy\u011fular olur. H\u0259min insan bir n\u0259f\u0259rd\u0259 tapa bilm\u0259diyi bo\u015flu\u011fu dig\u0259ri il\u0259 doldurur”.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Son vaxtlar qad\u0131nlar\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259ri bar\u0259d\u0259 tirajlanan x\u0259b\u0259rl\u0259r bir növ h\u0259m xarici, h\u0259m d\u0259 yerli m\u0259tbu orqanlar\u0131n\u0131n trendin\u0259 çevrilib. B\u0259zi psixoloqlar dü\u015fünür ki, qad\u0131n x\u0259yan\u0259tl\u0259rin artmas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131ca s\u0259b\u0259bi a\u011f\u0131r sosial durumdur.…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-133981","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133981","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=133981"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133981\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=133981"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=133981"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=133981"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}