{"id":132450,"date":"2021-10-23T11:52:24","date_gmt":"2021-10-23T07:52:24","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-29T20:00:00","slug":"","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/?p=132450","title":{"rendered":"\u201cAzya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini payla\u015fanlara x\u0259b\u0259rdarl\u0131q\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

Hac\u0131 \u015eahin: “Yeni do\u011fulmu\u015f u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u0259klinin sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 qada\u011fan edilm\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259, m\u0259qs\u0259d\u0259uy\u011fun deyil”
\nNar\u0131nc Rüst\u0259mova: “Psixologiyas\u0131 z\u0259if olan insanlar var v\u0259 onlar u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 cinsi meyilli olurlar”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Bu gün bir çox valideynl\u0259rin kiçik ya\u015fl\u0131 u\u015faqlar\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 payla\u015fmas\u0131 d\u0259b hal\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131b. H\u0259tta yeni do\u011fulan körp\u0259l\u0259rinin d\u0259 \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini payla\u015fmaqdan ç\u0259kinmirl\u0259r. Rusiyada keçiril\u0259n bir sor\u011fuda insanlar\u0131n 70 faizi sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 onlar\u0131 q\u0131c\u0131qland\u0131ran \u015f\u0259kill\u0259r s\u0131ras\u0131nda u\u015faq \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rinin oldu\u011funu v\u0259 bunun insanlarda h\u0259s\u0259d v\u0259 pax\u0131ll\u0131q hissl\u0259rini gücl\u0259ndirdiyini vur\u011fulay\u0131blar.<\/p>\n

Mövzu il\u0259 ba\u011fl\u0131 “Ucnoqta.az”a aç\u0131qlama ver\u0259n u\u015faq psixoloqu Nar\u0131nc Rüst\u0259mova bildirdi ki, \u015f\u0259xsi v\u0259 ya övladlar\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini payla\u015fan valideynl\u0259r b\u0259y\u0259nm\u0259l\u0259rin v\u0259 r\u0259yl\u0259rin çoxlu\u011funu görüb özl\u0259rini xo\u015fb\u0259xt hiss edirl\u0259r: “Amma u\u015faqlar\u0131n çim\u0259rk\u0259n v\u0259 ya uy\u011funsuz \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rinin payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 düzgün deyil. Bütün hallarda bu, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n psixologiyas\u0131na öz t\u0259sirini mütl\u0259q göst\u0259rir. Xüsusil\u0259, ölk\u0259mizd\u0259 o\u011flan u\u015faqlar\u0131 olan valideynl\u0259rd\u0259 u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n ç\u0131lpaq \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini payla\u015fmaq v\u0259 saxlamaq hallar\u0131 daha çox mü\u015fahid\u0259 olunur.  Unutmaq olmaz ki, u\u015faqda kiçik ya\u015fda anlamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 m\u0259hr\u0259miyy\u0259t anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 böyüy\u0259n zaman formala\u015f\u0131r. Bu da h\u0259min u\u015faqlarda kompleks yarad\u0131r v\u0259 valideynl\u0259r u\u015faql\u0131q vaxt\u0131 olan bir problemd\u0259n v\u0259 ya cins\u0259lliyind\u0259n dan\u0131\u015fan zaman s\u0131x\u0131l\u0131r. Bundan sonra u\u015faqda utancverici bir hal formala\u015f\u0131r v\u0259 bu \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259 art\u0131q özün\u0259 güv\u0259nsizlik ortaya ç\u0131x\u0131r”.<\/p>\n

N.Rüst\u0259mova onu da qeyd etdi ki, psixologiyas\u0131 z\u0259if olan insanlar var v\u0259 onlar u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 cinsi meyilli olurlar: “ Bu da el\u0259 insanlar\u0131n diqq\u0259tini ç\u0259k\u0259 bil\u0259r. Haz\u0131rda valideynl\u0259r sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259n o q\u0259d\u0259r as\u0131l\u0131 olublar ki, gün \u0259rzind\u0259 bütün x\u0131rdal\u0131qlar\u0131na q\u0259d\u0259r, harada oturdu\u011funu, n\u0259 yediyini, u\u015faqlar\u0131n nec\u0259 davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 v\u0259 \u0259n \u0259sas\u0131 ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131 ünvanlar\u0131n\u0131 bel\u0259 qeyd edirl\u0259r. Lakin dü\u015fünmürl\u0259r ki, psixi poz\u011funlu\u011fu olan “manyak” kimi tan\u0131nan \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rd\u0259 maraq yaran\u0131r v\u0259 arxas\u0131nca ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ünvana g\u0259l\u0259 bil\u0259r. \u0130nsan\u0131n özün\u0259, u\u015fa\u011f\u0131na x\u0259sar\u0259t yetirm\u0259k hallar\u0131 qaç\u0131n\u0131lmaz olur. Bu dedikl\u0259rim biz\u0259 çox uzaq amerika filml\u0259ri kimi görün\u0259 bil\u0259r, lakin heç d\u0259 uzaqda deyil. Biz i\u015fl\u0259diyimiz insanlarda bu hallarla rastla\u015f\u0131r\u0131q. H\u0259min insanlar bunu öz ba\u015f\u0131na yox, qon\u015fusunun ba\u015f\u0131na g\u0259lmi\u015f hadis\u0259 kimi deyirl\u0259r. Müzakir\u0259 edirik v\u0259 m\u0259lum olur ki, bunun yay\u0131lmas\u0131ndan qorxduqlar\u0131 üçün gizl\u0259dirl\u0259r. T\u0259\u0259ssüf ki, bu kimi mövzular gizl\u0259ndikc\u0259 bu kimi hallar gizli \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 ba\u015f verm\u0259y\u0259 davam edir.  Yax\u015f\u0131 olar ki, h\u0259r hans\u0131 bir sosial h\u0259yat\u0131 olmayan insanlar öz \u015f\u0259xsi h\u0259yatlar\u0131n\u0131 bir az qapal\u0131 tutsunlar. Ya\u015fad\u0131qlar\u0131n\u0131, sevdiyi insanlar keçirdiyi öz\u0259l anlar\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fmas\u0131nlar. Bu kimi hallar\u0131 iki n\u0259f\u0259r\u0259 göst\u0259rm\u0259k üçün payla\u015fd\u0131qda art\u0131q 5 n\u0259f\u0259r görür, bu da dig\u0259r insanlarda q\u0131c\u0131q yarad\u0131r. El içind\u0259 “göz\u0259 g\u0259l\u0259r, n\u0259z\u0259r d\u0259y\u0259r” deyil\u0259n anlay\u0131\u015f burada öz t\u0259sdiqini tap\u0131r. Göz bio enerjinin qar\u015f\u0131 t\u0259r\u0259f\u0259 ötürülm\u0259sidir. Bu kimi hallar da mümkündür v\u0259 ola bil\u0259r. \u0130ctimai insanlar\u0131n, tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f mü\u011f\u0259nnil\u0259rin h\u0259yat\u0131 h\u0259r k\u0259s\u0259 maraql\u0131d\u0131r, onlar harada olduqlar\u0131n\u0131, öz f\u0259aliyy\u0259tl\u0259rini payla\u015f\u0131rlar. H\u0259r k\u0259s bax\u0131r ki, mü\u011f\u0259nnidir, tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bir \u015f\u0259xsdir, onun h\u0259yat\u0131 \u0259lçatmazd\u0131r.  H\u0259r hans\u0131 bir s\u0131ravi insan\u0131n bu kimi hallar\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fmaq, m\u0259s\u0259l\u0259n, övlad\u0131 olmayan biri h\u0259min \u015f\u0259xsin u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini, g\u0259zdiyi yerl\u0259ri, yediyi yem\u0259kl\u0259ri görür v\u0259 ona qar\u015f\u0131 aqressiya formala\u015f\u0131r, q\u0131c\u0131q yarad\u0131r. Narkomaniya v\u0259 \u0259xlaqs\u0131zl\u0131qdan sonra internet art\u0131q dünyada as\u0131l\u0131l\u0131q x\u0259st\u0259likl\u0259ri s\u0131ras\u0131nda üçüncü yerd\u0259dir”.<\/p>\n

Din xadimi Hac\u0131 \u015eahin H\u0259s\u0259nli is\u0259 qeyd etdi ki, u\u015faqlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini payla\u015fmaq dini t\u0259r\u0259fd\u0259n qada\u011fan edilm\u0259yib: “40 günü bitm\u0259mi\u015f körp\u0259nin \u015f\u0259klini payla\u015fmaq v\u0259 ya görü\u015fün\u0259 getm\u0259k olmaz” kimi dü\u015fünc\u0259l\u0259r d\u0259 dinimiz t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n qada\u011fan olunmay\u0131b. Sad\u0259c\u0259 olaraq, insan\u0131n \u0259lind\u0259 olanlarla f\u0259xr etm\u0259si dinimiz t\u0259r\u0259find\u0259n qada\u011fan edilib. Bu da ba\u015fqalar\u0131n\u0131 narahat \u015f\u0259kild\u0259 olacaqsa din bunu m\u0259qbul hesab etmir. Övladlar\u0131n v\u0259 ya var-dövl\u0259tin nümayi\u015fi görüntü xatirin\u0259 edilirs\u0259, bu yolverilm\u0259zdir. U\u015faqlar\u0131n \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini payla\u015fan valideynl\u0259r\u0259 tövsiy\u0259 ed\u0259rdim ki, övlad h\u0259sr\u0259ti ç\u0259k\u0259n insanlar\u0131 n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 als\u0131nlar, onlar\u0131n q\u0259lbin\u0259 toxunmas\u0131nlar. Yeni do\u011fulmu\u015f u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u0259klinin sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 qada\u011fan edilm\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259, m\u0259qs\u0259d\u0259uy\u011fun deyil”.<\/p>\n

Gec ya\u015fda ana olan Dilar\u0259 \u018fhm\u0259dova is\u0259 dedi ki, 14 il övlad h\u0259sr\u0259ti ç\u0259kib: “M\u0259niml\u0259 birlikd\u0259 bütün dost-tan\u0131\u015flar da s\u0259brsizlikl\u0259 onun yolunu gözl\u0259yirdil\u0259r.  Övlad\u0131m dünyaya g\u0259ldiyi andan ham\u0131 onu görm\u0259y\u0259 can at\u0131rd\u0131. Do\u011fum evi \u015f\u0259rtl\u0259ri is\u0259 buna imkan vermirdi. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259 q\u0131z\u0131m\u0131n \u015f\u0259klini el\u0259 do\u011fuldu\u011fu gün sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259d\u0259 payla\u015fd\u0131m. Ham\u0131 gördü v\u0259 çox sevindi. Öz xo\u015f sözl\u0259rini, arzu v\u0259 niyy\u0259tl\u0259rini bildirdil\u0259r.  Dü\u015fünmür\u0259m ki, \u0259traf\u0131mdak\u0131 insanlar 14 il sonra qovu\u015fdu\u011fum möcüz\u0259m\u0259 pax\u0131ll\u0131q edib pis gözl\u0259 baxs\u0131nlar. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259 rahatl\u0131qla övlad\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 payla\u015f\u0131r\u0131q”.<\/p>\n

21 ya\u015f\u0131nda ilk d\u0259f\u0259 ana olmu\u015f Mehriban Qafarova n\u0259inki q\u0131z\u0131n\u0131n \u015f\u0259klini payla\u015fd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, h\u0259tta 40 gün müdd\u0259tind\u0259 k\u0259nar \u015f\u0259xsl\u0259rin görm\u0259sin\u0259 d\u0259 icaz\u0259 verm\u0259diyini qeyd etdi: “Göz\u0259, n\u0259z\u0259r\u0259 çox inan\u0131ram v\u0259 övlad\u0131m\u0131 bundan qorumaq üçün \u0259limd\u0259n g\u0259l\u0259ni edir\u0259m. \u018fslind\u0259 yolda\u015f\u0131m da m\u0259niml\u0259 eyni fikird\u0259dir. Övlad\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini payla\u015fma\u011f\u0131 heç vaxt dü\u015fünmürük. Dost var, dü\u015fm\u0259n var, h\u0259r\u0259 bir söz deyir, pax\u0131ll\u0131q edir, h\u0259s\u0259d apar\u0131r. Ona gör\u0259 d\u0259 övlad\u0131m\u0131z böyüyüb, boya-ba\u015fa çatmay\u0131nca \u015f\u0259kill\u0259rini payla\u015fmayaca\u011f\u0131q”.<\/p>\n

Samir\u0259<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Hac\u0131 \u015eahin: “Yeni do\u011fulmu\u015f u\u015fa\u011f\u0131n \u015f\u0259klinin sosial \u015f\u0259b\u0259k\u0259l\u0259rd\u0259 payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 qada\u011fan edilm\u0259s\u0259 d\u0259, m\u0259qs\u0259d\u0259uy\u011fun deyil” Nar\u0131nc Rüst\u0259mova: “Psixologiyas\u0131 z\u0259if olan insanlar var v\u0259 onlar u\u015faqlara qar\u015f\u0131 cinsi meyilli olurlar” Bu gün…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":251278,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[101],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-132450","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cemiyyet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132450","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=132450"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/132450\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/251278"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=132450"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=132450"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ucnoqta.az\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=132450"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}